This type of thinking sets us back as a species. We gotta do better.
Women don’t want to be objectified. Do ya’ll even know what that means?
Lawd. There’s so much nonsense to dismantle b4 we get to any real sense.
First off, if dudes with this mindset weren’t so doggedly determined to think of women as alien creatures from the blue lagoon of Saturn’s left nut, they would be surprised at just how much men and women have in common in their shared humanity.
This silly idea is the perfect example.
As a man, think of the hallmarks of masculinity. Providing. Protecting. Slanging good dikk.
When a woman you like appreciates those things about you, you probably feel good, right?
Cool.
But when she cares NOTHING about YOU outside of your ability to do those things, don’t you feel some type of way? Of course you do. That’s why we shame women who only care about a man’s wallet as being a gold digger. Because men don’t want to be objectified for just their ability to make money.
No human does. No human wants to be reduced to one single aspect of their existence JUST for the enjoyment of someone else.
That’s what an object is. It takes a human out of the fabric of their own existence, story, sentence.
And it turns them into predicates. Objects of the actions (verbs) of a subject other than themselves.
So no. Unless she is mentally damaged (
and a lot of ya’ll LIKE mentally damaged chicks because they let you get away with stuff you know you can’t do to normal chicks…but when you get burned by them, you wanna blame all women instead of the damaged goods you dealt with b:c they let you nut on their faces without any expectations of you
), no woman wants to be objectified.
What women DO want is for the men we are attracted to, to be attracted to us. Not just physically, but holistically, authentically and beyond just being able to buss a nut in. Because humans ARE more than just what we want from them.
Why men take that simple concept and warp it, and twist it and turn it into something incomprehensible is beyond me. But I think it’s because some dudes resent female preferences in men if they don’t meet them…even as they themselves feel entitled to their own preferences in women.
It’s never rocket science. And yet…and yet… If you can imagine getting tired of a useless chick feeling entitled to the monetary fruits of your hard labor…even if you are attracted to her…while she cares nothing about any other part of your life…
Then, you should be able to understand why another human with a vagina doesn’t want somebody to ONLY think of her sexually, when there is a whole nother human being above her p*ssy.
And yes. Feel free to dismiss this as tl:dr to avoid the truth of this message.
I used to do that but after someone I know caught that #metoo I be on my Keanu Reeves shyt, which is to my benefit cuz a few ended up putting my hands on they ass anyway
If a woman's attracted to you a mufukka can get away with legit murder. Being attractive is an OG life hack. The issues come when bytches act like they have standards for men across the boards when the standards only actually apply to men they don't find that attractive, or are flat out are attracted to but willing are willing to manipulate.
I'm clear cut at this point 95% of women are good enough/up to standard/compatible with me for dating. So they're mostly sex objects. If they're not trying to have sex they serve me no purposes so I ignore them. If women did the same I'd have no qualms with hypergamy. shyt if they moved however but didn't complain about the outcomes of being reckless I'd have no qualms
I used to do that but after someone I know caught that #metoo I be on my Keanu Reeves shyt, which is too my benefit cuz a few ended up putting my hands on they ass anyway
If they want to get you as a man they will get your azz. The story doesnt even have to be real. They could easily make up some nonesense that happened to Reeves in 1992 and roll with the story like its facts. Have dude looking like a monster in one news cycle.
Alliances are the only defence against me2 cause you arent fighting an actual incident, but rather; you are fighting the perception of one.
You have to qualify this statement better , because otherwise... it sounds creepy
If a chick is feeling you, AND YOU TWO ARE ACTUALLY TOGETHER... then yeah, she'll probably like it if you have dominant energy (grabbing her ass, titties, dominating her in bed, leading, etc.) Which ends up basically objectfying her.
But it's still not advised to treat any random woman you see like a sex object. There's a difference between being assertive and obkectifying, specifically for women you never met.
It's tough because you wanna be respectful and not be a creep... but we always ignore that a lot of women get turned off or bored if you are too respectful, especially over time
It's to a point where they think you aren't sexual at all
At a club is also a whole different story, that's where things get murky
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If you can imagine getting tired of a useless chick feeling entitled to the monetary fruits of your hard labor…even if you are attracted to her…while she cares nothing about any other part of your life…
