I don't care about you, so this isn't personal..if you died right now, my newspaper will still be read and my coffee drunk at its casual pace. Failure is an objective term, I considered my father's generation to be a failure as the legacy of general malaise in the black society goes back decades before my birth..which is why I labeled your comments about wedlock and the like as assumptions because you obviously have no grasp of history beyond what you see as this was the issue even with my birth in the 70s.
You didn't answer my question..What is your plan, kid? What will build out of your frustration, despair, etc? What will it fuel you to do other than be fixated on people who only will consider you for a fleeting second? I took mines and became a quack, so I could help mend shattered minds..whether it was in shelters, clinics, etc..we failed according to you, therefore, again..You should have a motivation to correct something other than not "having children" and for clarification, I'm talking long term..I don't expect much from anyone in their early twenties.