Let's be reality. Black feminism is needed. (no trolling please)

[marcuz]

No it wouldn't...there has to be a willingness to acknowledge and make a cultural shift. Plenty of third world places where there is no welfare people still engage in destructive behaviour.

this problem didn't exist until the feminist wave came and BW began to remove the stigma of single parenthood.

but what cultural shift should we acknowledge that'll end single parenthood?

 

[Yup]

And they'll still find a way to bash black women if this happened on a major scale.

"black women think they're too good for sex now"

They are too conservative/ uptight thats why we date beckies.

 

[marcuz]

And black men are victims of white supremacy

both are victims of white supremacy. you get hoodwinked by white men, then raise black boys who got hoodwinked by you.

 

[Yup]

this problem didn't exist until the feminist wave came and BW began to remove the stigma of single parenthood.

but what cultural shift should we acknowledge that'll end single parenthood?

There has to be a recognition that the current culture is not conducive to building families and that a new black identify needs to be formed.
That can only happen if this doesn't turn into the blame game between the sexes.

 

[marcuz]

They are too conservative/ uptight thats why we date beckies.

how about this, instead of abstinence, you fukk whoever you want. have fun with your thugs or whatever. just use BC or make sure they wear a condom. that seems like a fair deal. not having those receipts in the form of a b*stard baby will help increase your value in the long run, trust me.

 

[marcuz]

There has to be a recognition that the current culture is not conducive to building families and that a new black identify needs to be formed.
That can only happen if this doesn't turn into the blame game between the sexes.

what

 

[Yup]

how about this, instead of abstinence, you fukk whoever you want. have fun with your thugs or whatever. just use BC or make sure they wear a condom. that seems like a fair deal. not having those receipts in the form of a b*stard baby will help increase your value in the long run, trust me.

Voila problem solved.

 

[Gravity]

Well...I'll consider your opinion invalid and part of the problem rather than the solution.

I really give a fukk what you consider.

You seem overly aggressive. So tell me what your issue is then? How is feminism personally affecting you? Or how does it affect men?

I just told you my issues. Black feminists tend to be full of shyt and unable to listen. You've exhibited both of those traits in our limited exchange.

I think a lot of men(& some women) have problems with feminism because they think anything a woman that calls herself a feminist says, is feminism. So if a woman calls herself a feminist and says all men should be exterminated, suddenly that's what feminism means. When the definition of feminism is "the advocacy of women's rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men." and that's it. It's about equality.

When I explain this to people I like to use Christianity as an example, there are Christians that rape,torture, and kill people but does that mean that's what Christianity is? Or does that mean that's what THAT Christian does? People have a hard time realizing that the way some of the people act doesn't change what something is about.

This all sounds reasonable but it's just another example of how black feminists tend to be full of shyt. Black feminists who eant to be taken seriously only try to distance themselves from the black man haters and whatnot when it's convenient. You did point out another issue with black feminism though, the definition of it varies from woman to woman. If black feminism is supposedly about equal rights, then explain tw ways in which black men are afforded more rights than black women. Black men aren't privileged over black women but that's the myth that black feminism is built on. People need to google this socalled "black male privilege" list just to get an idea of how ridiculous black feminism is.

 

[Yup]

how about this, instead of abstinence, you fukk whoever you want. have fun with your thugs or whatever. just use BC or make sure they wear a condom. that seems like a fair deal. not having those receipts in the form of a b*stard baby will help increase your value in the long run, trust me.

How old are you btw, just wondering.

 

[KinksandCoils]

@Gravity
Anyone can be unable to listen. I thought u were having real issues. But you're just whining.

 

[Yup]

I really give a fukk what you consider.
I just told you my issues. Black feminists tend to be full of shyt and unable to listen. You've exhibited both of those traits in our limited exchange.
This all sounds reasonable but it's just another example of how black feminists tend to be full of shyt. Black feminists who eant to be taken seriously only try to distance themselves from the black man haters and whatnot when it's convenient. You did point out another issue with black feminism though, the definition of it varies from woman to woman. If black feminism is supposedly about equal rights, then explain tw ways in which black men are afforded more rights than black women. Black men aren't privileged over black women but that's the myth that black feminism is built on. People need to google this socalled "black male privilege" list just to get an idea of how ridiculous black feminism is.

I don't listen but you don't care about opinion anyway so...
You claim black feminism is crap I assume that you are somewhat read into the subject.

 

[Gravity]

@Gravity
Anyone can be unable to listen. I thought u were having real issues. But you're just whining.

You just quoted a post where I asked a specific legitimate question regarding the validity of black feminism and ignored it to make some smart ass comment. Again, you're full of shyt like the typical chic that identifies with black feminism.

 

[Blackout]

I'm all for black feminism but I don't like the ones who hate and stereotype black men.

 

[Gravity]

I don't listen but you don't care about opinion anyway so...
You claim black feminism is crap I assume that you are somewhat read into the subject.

I never said anything about your personally. I was speaking in general. From what ive seen you're a troll who isn't worthy of being taken seriously.

Reading me some textbook definition of how "black feminism" is defined on paper is like pointing me to the constitution trying to convince me that racism isn't part of the system. "see see right there where it days all men are created equal?" It's bullshyt, precisely my point.

 

[Yup]

I'm all for black feminism but I don't like the ones who stereotype black men.

I am all for black men who try to fight white supremacy but I don't like those that stereotype black women. It goes both ways.