I painfully write this as I just was informed that one of my cousins who is from St. Kitts is having planning a baby shower in August and wanted to use my patio deck and backyard to hold it at..
Keep in mind this is her 5th child with her third babydaddy...she just turned 30 years old

The last dude she had my aunt had to move her back in cause he beat the Oxtail juice outta here...
And he she go getting with a dude who allegedly has no job talking about he makes beats for a living ..smh...and two other kids with another woman
What his nationality is it doesn't matter ..
She made THAT. CHOICE
Just like her mama who dealt with a lot of fukked up dudes as well...
Pretty much alot of the women on my carribean side of the family made bad choices.
I know thier was this stigma that CARRIBEAN and AFRICAN women got a better morality about themselves than AA women
Dats a LIE
they just didn't have the options like AA women had for many decades being in America ..social programs which promote them to do without a man
And the opportunity to make good money without a man in thier lives...
Which is why most carribean and African women STAYED loyal cause they NEEDED THIER MEN
unlike AA women who felt men were expendable and replaceable
And now with changing social norms and the internet and influence of American culture....
That is the case with alot of carribean immigrants
Just an personal observation
Keep in mind this is her 5th child with her third babydaddy...she just turned 30 years old

The last dude she had my aunt had to move her back in cause he beat the Oxtail juice outta here...
And he she go getting with a dude who allegedly has no job talking about he makes beats for a living ..smh...and two other kids with another woman
What his nationality is it doesn't matter ..
She made THAT. CHOICE
Just like her mama who dealt with a lot of fukked up dudes as well...
Pretty much alot of the women on my carribean side of the family made bad choices.
I know thier was this stigma that CARRIBEAN and AFRICAN women got a better morality about themselves than AA women
Dats a LIE
they just didn't have the options like AA women had for many decades being in America ..social programs which promote them to do without a man
And the opportunity to make good money without a man in thier lives...
Which is why most carribean and African women STAYED loyal cause they NEEDED THIER MEN
unlike AA women who felt men were expendable and replaceable
And now with changing social norms and the internet and influence of American culture....
That is the case with alot of carribean immigrants
Just an personal observation

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