Let's end this single mothers BS

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I understand what your saying. Unfortunately life doesn't happen in a vacuum and people on both sides can get screwed... Visible red flags or not. That's life and shyt still goes wrong even in the best of circumstances.
True that that's not always, or usually, the case.

Women see a lot of red flags but ignore that shyt for some reason. And still manage to get pregnant (usually not on purpose) by the guy.
 

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i agree some cultures having a kid out of wedlock or even lettign your parents know your pregnant well :ufdup:

in the black community its selfies and progress on the belly, and cant wait to meet little trey and jaleesa, showers and you go girl

You get ostracized and potentially excommunicated in other communities for having children outside the confines of marriage.

Only in the Black community is this backward shyt celebrated. We're stuck on stupid.
 

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shaming people never helps them. it's more therapeutic for the person shaming than it is the person receiving. why can't we just be positive?
 

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You get ostracized and potentially excommunicated in other communities for having children outside the confines of marriage.

Only in the Black community is this backward shyt celebrated. We're stuck on stupid.

my sister knew if she ever came home with that I got knocked up or whatever my dad would have cut her off for good, none of that celebratory jargon
 

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yeah, yeah, "it's not all, its not all"

but most picked a guy they knew wasn't shyt, he didn't wanna be a father, and he wasn't in the position to provide even if he wanted to.

y'all wanna play games like a nikka had a suit and tie with an obama mask, then he knocked yall up, took the mask and suit off, only to reveal he's chief keef.

:mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:
 

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yeah, yeah, "it's not all, its not all"

but most picked a guy they knew wasn't shyt, he didn't wanna be a father, and he wasn't in the position to provide even if he wanted to.

y'all wanna play games like a nikka had a suit and tie with an obama mask, then he knocked yall up, took the mask and suit off, only to reveal he's chief keef.


:dead::dead::dead:
 

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Mandatory long term birth control shots for all 12 year olds. Charge $3000 for the shot that will "turn back on" your reproductive organs so you can have a kid. There....no more bums having kids. Downside: no more minorities.
 

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To be honest, I couldn't go past 10 minutes. It's just disgusting to me. It's just a sad situation. And one of the girls that got pregnant at 15, her mother and grandma were both single teenage mothers. It's a cycle of perpetual poverty. Not just burdening yourself purposely with children, it's the fact that they are in a cycle of poverty and that doesn't really seem to bother them. It's one incident of mindless sex that leads to them to it and they never thought to protect themselves. The same girl I'm talking about said she wanted a kid with him because she liked his legs.

That's the mindset of most Black women. Even when they are well into their 30s and 40s--choosing men based on trivial shyt like his legs, legs, beard, etc.

And nikkas neg me for shining light on the underdeveloped minds problem in our community.
 
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