Let's end this single mothers BS

[marcuz]

Nope the blame lies with the man for falling into hoe traps. Hoes will always exist. Just like shyt men will always exist. It's up to good men and good women to avoid the traps. Those who cannot do so consistently are probably trash themselves.

so if y'all cant be responsible for what goes in you and what comes out of you, what exactly do women have control over? and why should women be treated as equals when women refuse to accept accountability for their actions

 

[GodsPerspective]

you can believe what you want to but shaming doesn't help the person resolve their issues nor is it necessary. it's more harmful than useful. shaming people is how you offend and hurt people. nothing good can come of that.

Nah, this is the real world. None of that goody goody positivity shyt.
If you wanna see real changes you have to make real moves

And sometimes those moves are a little extreme

 

[GodsPerspective]

More of us blacks with morals, values, and goals need to produce black children that will be raised in strong black two parent households.

Hood rats and bum nikkas are two of the same coin. They come from the same fukked up households. You can't expect them to "choose" a mate wisely or get married because they don't value those type of things and neither did their parents. They are the lower class portion of our society like how whites view "white trash". Of course there are exceptions to some that grow up in these type households but usually the cycle continues.

This is one of the biggest reason why I'm so problack FAMILY because in our community we need more level headed blacks producing children.

That's EXACTLY IT.

But as long as these hopeless people make the majority of our people currently in the U.S, what can we do?

The only thing is either to eliminate them or shame them. Shaming is less extreme so I say it's the better option.

 

[GodsPerspective]

Every single mother didn't mess with a deadbeat. Single mother means not married. A single mother can be in a relationship, can be divorced, and can have the father very much in the child's life but she is not married therefore she is single.

So annoying.

This was your first reply in this thread.

Did I mention all single mothers?

 

[360dagod]

These single mothers get a lil extra frisky when it gets hotter

Let them be

 

[GodsPerspective]

These single mothers get a lil extra frisky when it gets hotter

Let them be

I'm guessing your a deadbeat?

You part of the problem b

 

[kaldurahm]

Yeah its extremely detrimental to the community.
The ironic thing is; in most African cultures this is not tolerated at all. You will be shamed as a single mother or a man who doesn't take responsibility of his kids. I know family that didn't tolerate a marriage because dude was marrying a single mom

 

[360dagod]

I'm guessing your a deadbeat?

You part of the problem b

I actually have no kids...

The single mother thing is a topic that has many variables..

there are single mothers with 3 kids by 1 father

there are single mothers with 3 kids by 2 fathers

there are WHITE single mothers with 3 kids by 1 father

there are WHITE single mothers with 3 kids by 2 fathers

the only difference is white single mothers arent called babymommas..they get married and get called "divorced"...Which is a fancy way of saying babymomma

The white family who was broken up always has a politically correct term to hide what technically happened in the 1st place...
I never heard fox news call sarah palin's daughter a babymomma after her and her dude split


Money, status, and white privilege are the only differences between a single black mother and a single white mother

 

[s3ven_LvLs]

just watch the first 2 minutes and you see how single mothers fukked up the black community

3:00-3:28

The fact they she said its not racism at all makes me .

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

Nah, this is the real world. None of that goody goody positivity shyt.
If you wanna see real changes you have to make real moves

And sometimes those moves are a little extreme

i disagree. the fruits of your belief are already evident as well which is even more the reason for me to discredit your approach. for example, whites attempted to make blacks ashamed of their status and skin for years in many different manners, the by product of such ideas blacks are still suffering from at present day and you're telling me shaming someone has positive effects and leads to a positive change?

 

[GodsPerspective]

i disagree. the fruits of your belief are already evident as well which is even more the reason for me to discredit your approach. for example, whites attempted to make blacks ashamed of their status and skin for years in many different manners, the by product of such ideas blacks are still suffering from at present day and you're telling me shaming someone has positive effects and leads to a positive change?

What you said was foolish.
You just proved yourself wrong. By shaming blacks what happened to their own community? It flourished correct? By shaming blacks, they instilled pride in themselves and gave themselves a superior image.

The entire goal was to make blacks feel inferior and it worked right?

In the same manner, we should make those people in our community feel inferior for their actions, and allow those who are acting correctly to represent the majority.


At the end of the day you are just one of those people who believe peaceful protesting and being nice accomplishes things.
You are still naive to the ways of the world.
The world is ugly and vicious. It will tear you apart unless you are vigilant.
The most important thing is to FIGHT BACK.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

What you said was foolish.
You just proved yourself wrong. By shaming blacks what happened to their own community? It flourished correct? By shaming blacks, they instilled pride in themselves and gave themselves a superior image.

The entire goal was to make blacks feel inferior and it worked right?

In the same manner, we should make those people in our community feel inferior for their actions, and allow those who are acting correctly to represent the majority.


At the end of the day you are just one of those people who believe peaceful protesting and being nice accomplishes things.
You are still naive to the ways of the world.
The world is ugly and vicious. It will tear you apart unless you are vigilant.
The most important thing is to FIGHT BACK.

you don't need to shame people to give them pride. your argument against mine is formulaic and stupid. you're saying it was okay to shame people so they'd develop pride later. what the fukk type of idea is that? treat people like shyt and they'll be better for it? what about those who suffer from the shaming and don't develop pride? there's so many side effects to that theory which is why you should stop advocating it.

and i'm hardly one of those types of non violent people so don't make assumptions about who i am. just because i'm not out there trying to hurt people's feeling and make them feel bad for what they did doesn't mean that i wouldn't hurt someone and make them feel bad.

 

[GodsPerspective]

I actually have no kids...

The single mother thing is a topic that has many variables..

there are single mothers with 3 kids by 1 father

there are single mothers with 3 kids by 2 fathers

there are WHITE single mothers with 3 kids by 1 father

there are WHITE single mothers with 3 kids by 2 fathers

the only difference is white single mothers arent called babymommas..they get married and get called "divorced"...Which is a fancy way of saying babymomma

The white family who was broken up always has a politically correct term to hide what technically happened in the 1st place...
I never heard fox news call sarah palin's daughter a babymomma after her and her dude split


Money, status, and white privilege are the only differences between a single black mother and a single white mother

There is something vital that you are missing so I'll try and explain it differently.

Let's say that me and you are both fathers.
Then let's say we have children, maybe about 6 each okay?
Now let's say that you just happen to be richer than me by whatever means.
Let's also say that due to you being rich, you were able to send all your children to prestigious universities and they attained great education.
Now let's say that me being poor, I couldn't provide for my children properly and they ended up growing in the hood and the streets.
Now... let's say that in your family out of the 6 children only 1 of them turned out to be a good for nothing dead beat.
And let's say out of the 6 in mine, only 1 was able to make it out of the hood and not be a dead beat.

Given these two situations, how ridiculous would it be for someone in my family to say "Well 360dagawd has a kid who's a deadbeat, so the only differece is the money and power. We're the same otherwise"

Although it's true, what you are doing is being an underachiever.
Sure white people may have alot of deadbeats, but they have a higher percentage of people who are not. Whereas in our community, we have a higher percentage of people who are.

Therein lies the problem, and that's what I hate about these comparisons.

It's pathetic to compare ourselves to the lowest of them, and instead we should be trying to get our majority away from that lifestyle.

Also, whites aren't the best to compare to because their society is crumbling. Alot of them are becoming deadbeats daily. It's probably the result of American society.

We should strive to follow the Asian/African/Arab mode of family structure.

Stop making excuses

 

[GodsPerspective]

you don't need to shame people to give them pride. your argument against mine is formulaic and stupid. you're saying it was okay to shame people so they'd develop pride later. what the fukk type of idea is that? treat people like shyt and they'll be better for it? what about those who suffer from the shaming and don't develop pride? there's so many side effects to that theory which is why you should stop advocating it.

and i'm hardly one of those types of non violent people so don't make assumptions about who i am. just because i'm not out there trying to hurt people's feeling and make them feel bad for what they did doesn't mean that i wouldn't hurt someone and make them feel bad.

So what would you suggest sir?

 

[GodsPerspective]

you're saying it was okay to shame people so they'd develop pride later.

That's not what I said. Please read my post carefully before you come back with a rebuttal.