Let's keep it all the way funky... After time & time again you see marriages fail why...

[DatNkkaCutty]

So you saying if you was a player it's no way you could fool a girl into thinking you one of the good ones who tired of playing games and you turning in your player card for her and you only want to be with her and if you and her don't work then you give up on relationships? You wouldn't be able to convince her?

Of course I could...if a female wasn't keen to how I moved or was on my level w/ the fukkery. Never gotten outright bagged when I was in a relationship and doin dirt (thats chapters behind me now). And I did greazy dirt for years upon years....

Never moved sloppy and always covered myself...but you can't be perfect 100% of the time. I've made mistakes...they just weren't picked up on...

I'd also say, I was moving over these particular females heads because it was something I was accustomed to doin forever...and they just weren't up on game. But let me give you an example to answer your question...

A female (the main side) I dealt w/ prior to a GF I had, was dealin w/ me forever. Only reason we never linked on that level, was because she moved far away. Now because I was dealin w/ this chick for such a long time (she always knew relationship-status) She would've known exactly how to clock me if we were together. It would've been hard to run game on her...

She knew about the fugazzi numbers, execution, alibis, the cosigns, work status, how tight the homies are, everything...

I would've had a hard time runnin game on her...cuz she learned too from me and knew too much about me.

 

[Youseenmywork]

there plenty of marriages that dont fail

It anit plenty trust I'm in the military and I can tell just how many white people get divorce in a season ...so that tell me if white people are getting divorced at 55/60% that means when it comes to the quote unquote quote on quote black community that number is even higher . Hell CNN / Fox News would disagree to me relationships is the only thing I like listen to them for ...

 

[Ms. Quick]

I honestly believe I’m the only child because any more would have put a strain on my parent’s marriage. They’re also in decent shape for their ages so that helps too along with a profound love for one another.

 

[Jalether]

A lot of people that get married have no business getting married honestly. They just do it because they think it’s what they’re supposed to do.

Also because of pressure from family and friends and in the man's case pressure from his woman
"we have been together now for X years when are we going to tie the knotkiesha just got married last week and next month is tasha's. we ain't getting any younger"

 

[Vodun]

The reason why marriages fail most of the time is because men and women don't understand the polarity of masculine and feminine in maintaining that balance within the marriage

Society is trying to disrupt the balance we're to the point where men are taking off feminine characteristics in women are taking on masculine characteristics which goes against their very nature

 

[Youseenmywork]

The reason why marriages fail most of the time is because men and women don't understand the polarity of masculine and feminine in maintaining that balance within the marriage

Society is trying to disrupt the balance we're to the point where men are taking off feminine characteristics in women are taking on masculine characteristics which goes against their very nature

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[PhillyzFinest]

Nah not legally married but the bytch still had my baby. Cheated. Had a baby by another nikka. Put me on child support. And we were our first everything. That's why I'm hard on hoes like @Nicole0416

YOU WACK / YOU TWISTED

YA GIRLS A HOE

YA BROKE

THE KID AIN"T YOURS

AND ERRBODY KNOW

EVEN YA OLD MAN SAY YOU STUPID

YOU BE LIKE "SOOO?"

I LUH MY BABY MAMA!

I NEVA LET HER GO!

I'M TIRED OF WEAK ASS nikkaS WHININ OVER PUSS

THAT DON'T BELONG TO THEM

fukk IS WRONG WITH THEM?

THEY fukk IT FOR THE REAL nikkaS LIKE MY MANS AND THEM

WHO GET IT ON ON THE STRENGTH OF THE HANDS WITH THEM

MANNNN....

 

[Heafcliffe]

Then one or the other will have single friends that's living their best life being single.

I hear you but I have a number of sngle friends who look at me and my wife and have said, "I want what you two have..." or "It must feel good to have someone..." or "I want to marry but these females ain't shyt."

I always tell them to be picky cuz everyone ain't the "marrying type."

 

[BaldingSoHard]

My number one decision was based on trusting her with my future kids

If something happens to me or us I know my children are in the care of someone who has similar expectations for them.

Outside of kids you are crazy to sign up to any legal binding contract with the state.

This is exactly it.

If you want to have kids, and if you are confident your wife will be a good mother, then marriage is for you.

Everything else (literally everything else) is a bad reason to get married.

I don't care if she's rich.
I don't care if the ass is fat.
I don't care if she can throw down in the kitchen.
I don't care if she can suck-start a leafblower.
I don't care how much she says she loves you or how loyal she appears to be.

fukk all that shyt.

Good mother = marry her
Else = nah

 

[KillerB88]

Sounds all good but even the best of us dont have it like that. By that I mean a endless supply of attractive, entertaining, available and willing women at your beck and call.


With me it was always feast or famine.

In my single days, i sometimes would have to put in part time job hours to be on a app, swipe for bytches then be jumping between the app, IG/Snap, and text to talk to them. Then try and set something up. Then spend money on gas, hotels, drank, food, etc.

It gets less easier as you get older as most these women have children, baggage and jobs to tend too.

So as you can imagine, there are many weekends you're at home lonely and horny and a relationship be sounding good.

*more difficult

 

[Youseenmywork]

Some y'all don't want to face that the dating or mating landscape has changed. What till this country get done with the whole LGBT thing and come up wit a solution . Polygamy or polygamist and open relationships is next. This country has had a record number low for the last three years of men getting married but will still in the lead when it comes to initiating divorce....as the saying goes something as to give ...and I think it will.

 

[Shamayw_33]

This sounds simpy. How bout trusting her overall? You prali one of those dudes that'll stay in a toxic situation "for the sake of the kids" (when the kids already realize their parents are miserable together and ruin em more)...



Its 2019 and on top of having online dating...older women are easier to pull than ever. There's single and lonely females (just like you) everywhere. You may not be able to pull "cream of the crop" younger broads...but there's always gonna be a large cache of serviceable older women...
There's even younger females that are only attracted to older men period (fetish/preference).


You didn't do enough HW if this is happening to you...and deserve everything coming to you. Be a better judge of character before you wife something up...

Not lonely breh. Happily married with a house full of our babies.

 

[Shamayw_33]

Scraficing what you love is the only way to have a good marriage brah like @Lil Gator Reloaded said above communication is absolutely key. Saying the words "I dont like that shyt" and have a partner that respects that is what you are looking for....
Being on the same page with money is also mandatory....me and my wife are 100% on the same page with money matters

Sacrifice is extremely important. My wife and I have a lot of things that we do with each other, but one thing that we also do is that we give each other time to get out and do something that we like to do alone. I don't know many married couples that give each other that freedom, but it's helped us maintain or individuality within the marriage.

Everyone has their own way of keeping finances in order as a married couple, but this is what has worked for us. Between student loan debt and poor financial decisions, very few people, especially women, go into a marriage debt free. My wife and I attacked our individual debt as a team and have managed to free each other of the debt shackles earlier than anticipated. This opened the door for even more activities we can do as a couple, like traveling abroad. We also maintain individual bank accounts and a joint account. Not giving advice, just saying what has worked for us.

 

[Shamayw_33]

Some y'all don't want to face that the dating or mating landscape has changed. What till this country get done with the whole LGBT thing and come up wit a solution . Polygamy or polygamist and open relationships is next. This country has had a record number low for the last three years of men getting married but will still in the lead when it comes to initiating divorce....as the saying goes something as to give ...and I think it will.

I can't see polygamy becoming legal in the western world. Only way it will happen is if these cacs stop believing in Christianity. Plus, you got globalist like Bill Gates who want to decrease the human population. He speaks for a larger agenda at work and that's the last thing these guys want. If men are free to have multiple wives, the world population would explode. Men can and would reproduce their entire lives. Shyt would be crazy.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Marriages and relationships in general fail because many people are too stupid and selfish for them to succeed.

Both genders mostly consist of overgrown children.