So you’re saying a young person or “active” person in general is having the same type of fun in a place like LA, NYC, Chicago as they are in Alabama and Arkansas?
Here’s the issue here. There are many open minded educated career focused southerners who live in these cities that could answer these questions for you.
These places tend to have more:
Restaurants of all sorts from all over the globe and unique spots in general, More nightlife options, More museums and cultural activities (having a museum experience in Arkansas doesn’t touch the experience you’ll get in Washington DC), More outdoor activities, Much better and populated networks of people from all types of backgrounds and much better looking women of all sorts.
The energy of these cities is rich and not a sleepy town.
The south overall is generally viewed as a place you go to when it’s time to relax and be away from all that energy.