Let's keep it real, some kids are better off without their fathers

[BrothaZay]

Stop saying "fathers, this is why you need to raise your kids"

This may be true sometimes, but just because a nikka is a "dad" doesnt mean he needs to be raising no damn kids. I agree that every child should have male influence but yall be so quicc to say "where is the kids father"

A lot of fathers are just as bad if not worse than the mothers.

shyt when I was in HS it was a nikka who asked his dad for some money and his dad gave 5 grams and told him go make some

Another time some nikkas house got broken into and they thought my lil brother did it. So the lil nikkas dad(nikka like 42 with cornrows and a crooked fitted cap) came to my house talkin about "yea they better not let me find out they have it or i got some hot shyt to put in they chest"

My point is, just because a nikka is a dad, doesnt mean he should be raising the kid. Some kids are better off with just their mom, or their mom and a step dad.

 

[Carter G. Hoodson]

I bet that same father that gave his son that 5 grams to sell probably didn't have a father his self. The cycle continues at the end of day. There's nothing more special in this world than a father's love to his son. A father's love and presence isn't overrated if that child is being taught well. I work with the youth and the common themes for them acting out are not being loved and lack of attention and the root cause..guess what? FATHER IS NOT THERE.....

Also, just by you citing a "step-dad" is still having a male figure in that boys life so I don't understand what you're trying to accomplish with this thread.

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

If the dad is a piece of shyt and setting a bad example, then yes you're right. Most of the time though, pops should be there.

 

[Sierra Mist]

Yup. Had the father who is a drug dealer or criminal stayed what would he even have to offer for his child? Nothing. What legacy would he pass down? What resources would he provide? None. If anything he'd be a bad influence on his child. I've debunked that argument years ago too. How could the man who hasn't been in the child's life since day one a bigger influence on the child's life than the mother who is with the child every day? When I ask that question I hear no responses.

I could also ask why women seem to LOVE those types of men, but I'm not going to talk about it. No one reads my posts anyway so fukk it.
Peace.

 

[Taadow]

That is not "real".

 

[Cat piss martini]

seeing how you and one or two other dainty
cats who post here turned out is proof that
a father is indeed needed.

 

[Rawtid]

2 good parents are 2 good parents. If one is lacking then a good step-parent is the next ideal.

 

[ryda518]

my father was a drug user and a alcoholic

if he did not die when I was young then there would have been a lot of drama is my life

 

[Taadow]

Yup. Had the father who is a drug dealer or criminal stayed what would he even have to offer for his child? Nothing. What legacy would he pass down? What resources would he provide? None. If anything he'd be a bad influence on his child.

Even in these circumstances, what such a man gives to his child is the foremost example of what a man can be/do.

Just like you have children that want to grow up to be like their father, you have children that grow up and not want to be like their father after seeing his example. That is valuable like experience that the fatherless child misses out on.

 

[Data-Hawk]

I bet that same father that gave his son that 5 grams to sell probably didn't have a father his self. The cycle continues at the end of day. There's nothing more special in this world than a father's love to his son. A father's love and presence isn't overrated if that child is being taught well. I work with the youth and the common themes for them acting out are not being loved and lack of attention and the root cause..guess what? FATHER IS NOT THERE.....

Also, just by you citing a "step-dad" is still having a male figure in that boys life so I don't understand what you're trying to accomplish with this thread.

 

[BrothaZay]

seeing how you and one or two other dainty
cats who post here turned out is proof that
a father is indeed needed.

you from st.louis u prolly knew my dad bacc in the day.

dat nikka woulda sold dope to yo mama and murked you for gettin upset about it

im pretty sure i turnt out better off wit out em

 

[stealthbomber]

lets keep it all the way funky tho, some non ideal fathers still raise good kids. i had a friend in high school who's dad sold pills and meth out his basement and mom was an alcoholic but he turned out to be a good kid. he had a fukked up sense of humor but beyond that he was smart and went to college outta high school and i seen kids with great parents end up fukked up. i feel like how you end up as an adult has A LOT more to do with your friends growing up, especially in 2012.

 

[killacal]

at this no dad fakkit trying to rationalize why he likes men.

 

[Costanza]

Yup. Had the father who is a drug dealer or criminal stayed what would he even have to offer for his child? Nothing. What legacy would he pass down? What resources would he provide? None. If anything he'd be a bad influence on his child. I've debunked that argument years ago too. How could the man who hasn't been in the child's life since day one a bigger influence on the child's life than the mother who is with the child every day? When I ask that question I hear no responses.

I could also ask why women seem to LOVE those types of men, but I'm not going to talk about it. No one reads my posts anyway so fukk it.
Peace.

when you repeatedly say things like this it undermines not only the point you're trying to make, but the reputation you have among posters who may value your opinion.

 

[Cat piss martini]

you from st.louis u prolly knew my dad bacc in the day.

dat nikka woulda sold dope to yo mama and murked you for gettin upset about it

im pretty sure i turnt out better off wit out em

yo pops left year round sunshine and
palm trees and moved to the most dangerous
place in america to escape a queer son
and a fat bytch with fingerwaves and dry p*ssy.