Lets say you are actually able to get a girlfriend

[GrindtooFilthy]

Men actually wanting a chatty patty, social media loving women who always got her friends around now?

I swear some of ya'll don't know wtf you want.

That's not it, the woman op posted sounds oxymoronic.

Read in between the lines of the character, she sounds more like a thot than a wife

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

That's not it, the woman op posted sounds oxymoronic.

Read in between the lines of the character, she sounds more like a thot than a wife

Just sounds like she keeps to herself to me

 

[DatBoiHawk]

lost me at the cheating part in the end

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

Just sounds like she keeps to herself to me

Like I said read in between the lines. Op said she's keeps you hidden from friends and family but not only that she's a flirt and also has a messy past, on top of that she also said it would take alot for her to cheat on you. That sounds like a reformed thot, if I found a chick like this I would assume she has some serious skeletons in her closet

 

[The Mad Titan]

Yes that was shade.

She's a private woman and doesn't like to be in people's mouths regarding her relationships and personal life. She doesn't tell her friends or family when you two have issues. She tells people she is in a relationship. But she doesn't tell people that it's you (like directly link you). She doesn't bring you around her friends because she doesn't fully trust her friends. You like (love) everything about her. She may tell her parents and introduce you to her parents/siblings but you're not all over her social media. She never talks about her relationship with you to her friends. She has been surrounded by messy people most of her life and felt invaded. Let's say that even this might be a temporary thing until she is 100 percent certain about you being in her life, so one day she may go public with you. But she's in no rush to just put everyone into your relationship. She's a flirt but not a ho. Men try to talk to her all the time but you know that she's picky so it takes a lot to impress her. She's not going to cheat on you with just anybody, if you have an inkling that she would ever cheat or step out.

Could you deal with a woman like this?

couldn't even date her

Reason's bold


This sound like a terrible chick to date, its cool that's she private or doesn't do social media but all this extra

Clear signs of a scorn woman that has a wall up and a warped sense of a healthy relationship.

 

[Max Power]

she doesn't fully trust her friends.

Red flag

She has been surrounded by messy people most of her life and felt invaded.

Red flag

She's a flirt but not a ho.

Outright lie

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Like I said read in between the lines. Op said she's keeps you hidden from friends and family but not only that she's a flirt and also has a messy past, on top of that she also said it would take alot for her to cheat on you. That sounds like a reformed thot, if I found a chick like this I would assume she has some serious skeletons in her closet

Edit: Went back and read the post. I stand corrected, chick sounds mad fishy.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

The post said that you do meet family just not friends. You're not hidden just not in everyone's face. A lot of people cheat just because the opportunity presents itself. Just seems like a private person to me.

Ya she's private because she's did some real dirt that she doesn't want blowing up in her face and you finding out. All the red flags and warnings are right there. If you were a dude and this was your wife I would pity you. You would be the walking blue print of a scorned lover

 

[Max Power]

Edit: Went back and read the post. I stand corrected, chick sounds mad fishy.

Don't even read the OP but be all up in the thread brehs.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Ya she's private because she's did some real dirt that she doesn't want blowing up in her face and you finding out. All the red flags and warnings are right there. If you were a dude and this was your wife I would pity you. You would be the walking blue print of a scorned lover

If I was a dude I'd pass.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Don't even read the OP but be all up in the thread brehs.

I did read it. It just didn't strike me as odd the first time it did. I still think it's funny that dudes are up in arms about her being too private when that's usually all ya'll ever talk about.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

I did read it. It just didn't strike me as odd the first time it did. I still think it's funny that dudes are up in arms about her being too private when that's usually all ya'll ever talk about.

Like I said it's not that shes too private, it's that she sounds shady. There's a difference, if you read all the posts itt most dudes said yes until they got to the latter half of the post which revealed hoe tendencies

 

[Cat piss martini]

i'm a very private person myself so
she sounds ok to me.
i'd prefer she kept her family and
hoe ass friends away from me and the
crib forever.




her: baby my mama is getting evicted.
me:
her: baby did you hear me
me: yeah i heard you.
her: seeing as how you got these empty rooms
me: those rooms are full
her: with what?
me: air
her:
me:
her: what should i do
me: maybe you and her could get a spot together
her: the fukk......youre no fukkin help
me:

 

[Remote]

Nope.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Like I said it's not that shes too private, it's that she sounds shady. There's a difference, if you read all the posts itt most dudes said yes until they got to the latter half of the post which revealed hoe tendencies

Guys had problems with the privacy part too. They wanted to meet the friends and the fam too.