Let's talk about cheating ...

[TheNig]

i've cheated.

been cheated on.


wouldnt do it again. i dont care how G you claim to be. finding out your squeeze is cheating on you is heart crushing shyt.

 

[BlvdBrawler]

just addressing the folks saying monogamy is "non existent" in nature. FALSE. so let's kill that.
Homosexuality exist in nature too....just because YOU may not like or engage in a certain activity does not it make it "unnatural".

Ok, so you got me. There are a handful of animals in nature that are monogamous. Humans, however, aren't one of them.

If you were to ask someone if they would be ok driving the same car, or eating the same food, or wearing the same clothes, watching the same movie every day for the rest of their lives, they'd look at you crazy. But somehow, applying that line of thought to having a partner makes me some kind of immoral demon. It's funny, really. People, even married people, will readily admit that they are attracted to other people. Knowing this, why would someone decide to get married? Why wouldn't I want to have the choice to pursue new attractions as though it's somehow evil, and not natural?

Homosexuality is natural, though. It's not common, but then neither is diabetes.

 

[BlvdBrawler]

So you liken yourself to an animal. You type this like you believe it but ull be boohoo'in when your little angel gets caught coppin squats on her coworker. Its so demonic, friends.

Probably would be sad. Wouldn't be surprised. Also, *ignored*. Thx, good to see you again.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Same reason I didn't feel bad when I've messed with girls in relationships. If her husband/bf was taking care of his shyt she wouldn't be messing with me on the side. Not my fault.

You say that until their husbands come after you like

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[Lucky Millionaire]

You say that until their husbands come after you like

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at the smiley execution
IMO People who cheat have little right to bytch if they get cheated on especially if in the same relationship.

 

[ANewClassic]

No.
No.
I'd break up with you if I wanted to cheat on you because I obviously do not want you. But I'm really starting to believe/understand that women and men think differently when it comes to cheating. I have quite a few men that have told me they have cheated and it was simply just sex and nothing else and it didn't mean that they loved their s/o any less. It's just the appeal of new "p" and the fact that they think that they will not get caught. I personally couldn't have sex with someone that I'm not emotionally attached to, but some women claim they can have sex with 0 emotion/connection.

 

[Based Lord Zedd]

You say that until their husbands come after you like

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Yeah true. But I never understood why they'd be mad at me. If I get cheated on 100% of the anger would go towards her. Unless it was one of my friends. What I look like fighting some random dude over an unfaithful girl?

 

[Buggsy Mogues]

i've never met anyone that I felt strongly enough about to not cheat on. Not that I go out LOOKING to cheat, but if I'm with someone I won't turn down a dime just because I have a girlfriend. Maybe that will change someday...but I ain't met a hoe that could cuff me yet

 

[MikelArteta]

No.
No.
I'd break up with you if I wanted to cheat on you because I obviously do not want you. But I'm really starting to believe/understand that women and men think differently when it comes to cheating. I have quite a few men that have told me they have cheated and it was simply just sex and nothing else and it didn't mean that they loved their s/o any less. It's just the appeal of new "p" and the fact that they think that they will not get caught. I personally couldn't have sex with someone that I'm not emotionally attached to, but some women claim they can have sex with 0 emotion/connection.

Doctors , shrinks etc have said tr same thing, it's also why men never leave their wife for their mistress, to a man it's just sex, to a female sex is much more emotional etc.

Also why it may hurt a female more to find out her man is having a emotional affair than a physical.

Also a chick is more likier to take back a cheater than a male.


Only prostitutes, porn stars, women raped can have zero emotional connection, every chick I slept with that I wasn't dating after a few times of Doing it they wanted more, Its just natural different emotions

 

[Anothergirl]

Doctors , shrinks etc have said tr same thing, it's also why men never leave their wife for their mistress, to a man it's just sex, to a female sex is much more emotional etc.

men leave their wives and even KILL OFF their wives to get with mistresses all the time. (Scott Peterson etc)
also the "it's just sex" excuse doesn't fly with me. i'd consider that even more demonic than if you were to actually kinda care about the person you're screwing around on me with.
Where is Kevm3? he needs to come thru and spit that righteous gospel in this thread.

 

[Huellz Santana]

What up nikka!

what's good? http://gifsoup.com/webroot/animatedgifs1/1245658_o.gif​

how's that ether feel?

3 times nikka!

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[Still Benefited]

so your willing to throw that all away over some puzzy?

not judging just curious

Technically yes...but I don't think dudes think about they women when they cheat...we don't think about "how is she going to feel about this?why am I throwing it all away?"...it really JUST HAPPENS! That's not just an excuse that sh1t just happens....women on the other hand before they cheat do think about they man...I've had them half naked in my house talkin bout they "can't do this" bcuz of they boyfriend while u rubbin them up and they still go through with it...I've never had a female rubbin my dikk and be thinkin about my girl at the time....women cheat bcuz u emotionally make them feel better or bcuz they man done cheated before and they figure they have the right to do it now,or bcuz they dude just ain't been treatin em right....but either way her cheatin 90% of the time has to do with what her man ain't doing...me cheating on my girl has absolutley nuthin to do with her which is why I'm not as big as a scumbag as she would be if she did it...so technically yes,but I care enuff that I will cover my tracks so she never gets embarrassed or catches me...and if she does she will kno I tried hard to not let her find out and hurt her.



U ever seen the show masterminds?u see the steps they go through to not get caught and sumtimes u think "damn they should let him off the hook" or u wish he woulda got away with it bcuz he wuz so thoughtful in trying to never get caught...I would hope my girl would have that same perspective when she uncoverss my blueprints and sees how hard I tried..

 

[klientel]

Have you cheated?

I cheated alot in the first 2 years of my relationship. All of the women I've fukked except 3 came within that 2 year period. It was because we met during freshman orientation at college so I never got a chance to be single. It was my first really serious relationship and I didn't know how to act.

Would you cheat?

I've thought about doing it a million times, and even come close a few times. But I haven't since I got caught a while back.

Your stance on cheating?

If your in a serious relationship with a person you could see yourself marrying then you shouldn't do it. But if you have any doubts, or your just dating somebody then fukk it......cheat til your dikk falls off.

 

[MikelArteta]

men leave their wives and even KILL OFF their wives to get with mistresses all the time. (Scott Peterson etc)
also the "it's just sex" excuse doesn't fly with me. i'd consider that even more demonic than if you were to actually kinda care about the person you're screwing around on me with.
Where is Kevm3? he needs to come thru and spit that righteous gospel in this thread.

Your married right?

If your husband were to cheat would that be the end of your marriage?

 

[Still Benefited]

Speak for yourself. I've been with my man 8 years and I haven't so much as flirted with another dude. I've never cheated on any of my boyfriends and I never will. I have self control and as long as I'm with someone, I will stay loyal to them. Loyalty is very important to me and it really shows what kind of person you are to stay loyal to someone you love.

As for your friend, you should tell him that he's wrong for doing what he's doing and that he should get tested. If it were me, I'd want someone to tell me before I get an STD or HIV. Ask yourself what you would want if you were in that situation. It's such a bad position to be in, but you could potentially be saving a life. Try to convince your friend to come clean himself so u don't have to do it.

I shoulda sad all men cheat my bad....if a man is not cheating he obviously has gotten old and his sex drive ain't where it once wuz or he has no females that want him....a man is only as faithful as his options...if he got nice options out there who are telling him "come get this option" he probaly gon get it....I hear that changes when u get older which is why its stupid to be monogomous too young