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Humans aren't meant to be monogamous, so cheating doesn't surprise me anymore.

I co-sign this.

I just don't understand people being in relationships / marriages and still sleeping around.

If you don't wanna be tied down thats cool, but everybody wanna have their cake and eat it too

Makes me not even wanna date a chick. I mean, you could be doin everything right and still get fukked over

:manny:
 

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I co-sign this.

I just don't understand people being in relationships / marriages and still sleeping around.
If you don't wanna be tied down thats cool, but everybody wanna have their cake and eat it too
Makes me not even wanna date a chick. I mean, you could be doin everything right and still get fukked over

:manny:

That's exactly it @ the bolded.

If you can't be monogamous, then cool.....not everyone is that strong willed to be monogamous. BUT, stay single then. When you enter into a relationship, you are agreeing to monogamy. If you don't plan on upholding your end of the deal, stay single. Don't sell someone a dream, if you know you are not capable of being monogamous.
 

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No I haven't ever cheated.
No I don't ever plan to cheat.
My stance on cheating is that it's wrong, and disrespectful to the the relationship and to the person who is being cheated on. If I want more than one woman then I'd choose to be single, and sleep with how many woman throw the puss at me or be in a open replationship but I don't like to share when it comes to women doe.:demonic:
 

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Cheating is for people who don't know how to properly handle their problems/ issues. Either you respect your partner enough to confront your problems (or personal issues) and work to resolve them or you don't care about yourself or anyone else and further make the situation worse.

Oh, and I've been cheated on.
 

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Cheating is for people who don't know how to properly handle their problems/ issues. Either you respect your partner enough to confront your problems (or personal issues) and work to resolve them or you don't care about yourself or anyone else and further make the situation worse.

Oh, and I've been cheated on.
Very true and I can relate breh
 
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the whole argument that 'humans arent meant to be monogamous' is bullshyt....

yea we are animals...but there is a difference here...we have conscious thought...which means we can make decisions that arent based on instinct....we can actually choose what we do...and not just act on programmed instinct....

which means...that you can think about what you think about what im typing here....dogs....rats...chimps and rats cant do that....

while i do believe that genes and environment play a role in character development....i think who we are is based on the decisions we make
 

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I never cheated and I never been cheated on because I make it a rule not to date hoes. Now smashing hoes is a different story. :usure:I'll break up with a girl before I cheat on her because I at least want to give her the dignity to know that I don't want to be in a relationship anymore. I figure its better for her to cry herself to sleep and call me an a$$hole than to scar her mentally seeing me with another woman. It has worked so far.:manny:





I don't condone cheating and I think monogamy is VERY important in order to have a healthy relationship but at the same time I understand how viscious and nasty some of these hoes are today. One of my friends is married and chicks at his job are constantly throwing the p*ssy at him telling him he can get it any time he wants. Half of them broads are already scooped up by a clueless simp for the money/image really. He's a pretty cool ass white boy but he wants to make a serious attempt at staying faithful to his wife and these THOTs don't give a fukk if he's taken.(His wife is smoking hot tho so that helps a bit with staying faithful) I have a lot of cousins that actively cheat on their wives and I honestly feel like the wives must not care or must be really oblivious because the dudes will have no scrupples about it. As long as they don't get caught, they couldn't give two fukks if they are married. It's even funnier too because they get very possessive over their chick and they're vocal about pulling out the guns and blowing their wive's brains all over the wall if they ever catch her cheating but that's none of my business tho. :sas2:
 

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Peep repping.

I hate cheating all forms, emotional or physical.

I will never cheat, I've avoided temptation bwfroe and I will again. Like Joseph in the bible all you potipher wife type brehettes will never get me down
 
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I never cheated and I never been cheated on because I make it a rule not to date hoes. Now smashing hoes is a different story. :usure:I'll break up with a girl before I cheat on her because I at least want to give her the dignity to know that I don't want to be in a relationship anymore. I figure its better for her to cry herself to sleep and call me an a$$hole than to scar her mentally seeing me with another woman. It has worked so far.:manny:





I don't condone cheating and I think monogamy is VERY important in order to have a healthy relationship but at the same time I understand how viscious and nasty some of these hoes are today. One of my friends is married and chicks at his job are constantly throwing the p*ssy at him telling him he can get it any time he wants. Half of them broads are already scooped up by a clueless simp for the money/image really. He's a pretty cool ass white boy but he wants to make a serious attempt at staying faithful to his wife and these THOTs don't give a fukk if he's taken.(His wife is smoking hot tho so that helps a bit with staying faithful) I have a lot of cousins that actively cheat on their wives and I honestly feel like the wives must not care or must be really oblivious because the dudes will have no scrupples about it. As long as they don't get caught, they couldn't give two fukks if they are married. It's even funnier too because they get very possessive over their chick and they're vocal about pulling out the guns and blowing their wive's brains all over the wall if they ever catch her cheating but that's none of my business tho. :sas2:

yep...cats that cheat almost always wanna get mad about their old lady cheating....
 
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Peep repping.

I hate cheating all forms, emotional or physical.

I will never cheat, I've avoided temptation bwfroe and I will again. Like Joseph in the bible all you potipher wife type brehettes will never get me down

no gonna lie breh...ive cheated before....

learned my lesson tho: was dealing with about 4 women...all of them thought they were my GF...and they all found out about each other....and all this happened in public on FB....:wow:

those were dark days breh....dark days.....

:mjcry:
 
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