Let's talk about 'em: Your boy thats ALWAYS asking to borrow money

[intruder]

First off this isn't about people in general. This is about one of your boys. One of your good friends.

• Not women - They always "forget" they borrowed money. I learned that ...the hard way... over $3,000 too late
• Not family - they always seem to forget too or feed you enough bulls!t to the point you just say forget it

Nah this is about one of ya boys or . We've all seen it. The loud mouth mofo who's always trying to live like a baller every once in a while will ask to borrow money on some it's an emergency type sh!t. One week he's popping bottles at the club. Next week he's on some "let me borrow $20"

I got two friends that are like this and I'm in the process of dismissing them both.

1. One mofo makes A LOT of money. Makes more than me. However he spends it like it's going out of style (nah seriously i stopped hanging out at clubs with this mofo because i can't keep up). Yet every now and then this mofo be on some "yo I need to borrow a thousand dollars real quick" so he could blow on brawds and partying
2. Another one.. this one is sad. Doggy makes barely enough to live on. Like barely half my salary. But yet he's always trying to ball out like the mofo described above. Plus his "J's" collection is "UN-fukk-WITH-ABLE" but the mofo always on some "yo let me hold $20 and i'll give you $30 when i get paid" type sh!t. Spending his rent money because his boys from back home were in town he week before

I always avoid the sh!t by giving them the "nah man I had xyz expenses this week". I mean... men in general shouldn't ask to borrow money, period. Sh!t just dont feel right. Am I the only one who feels this way?

 

[Crown Bearer]

You're not the only one. One of my boys used to do that, and sometimes he'd use his kid as an excuse like "lemme hold 50 til payday. I gotta get some food for the house" or "lemme borrow 30. I gotta get some gas to drop Derrick to school" and I'd do it because his son is like my nephew. Then he asked to borrow some money one time and I saw him later at a bar. Needless to say i had the face the whole time he was trying to small talk around it. He hasn't asked to borrow money from me ever since.

One mofo makes A LOT of money. Makes more than me. However he spends it like it's going out of style (nah seriously i stopped hanging out at clubs with this mofo because i can't keep up). Yet every now and then this mofo be on some "yo I need to borrow a thousand dollars real quick" so he could blow on brawds and partying

this shyt right here tho . He should've been cut off on gp the minute he asked for something crazy like that unless it's for bail.

 

[intruder]

to borrow some money one time and I saw him later at a bar. Needless to say i had the face the whole time he was trying to small talk around it. He hasn't asked to borrow money from me ever since.

this shyt right here tho . He should've been cut off on gp the minute he asked for something crazy like that unless it's for bail.

Man the same morning the mofo asked me to borrow $1,000 less than 12 hours later he sends me a text message asking if i wanna hit this club tonight.

Cool cat but the kid needs to calm the fukk down. He makes a lot of money and spends too much of that sh!t on women and nonsense. Put it this way: To him spending over $100 on liquor to drink AT HOME right before leaving for the club and then buying 2 to 3 bottles at the club is an average saturday night. He my boy and all but i can't spend my hard earned money like that.

 

[BrandonBanks]

The reason this thread is so short is because many of the nikkas on here ARE the friend that is always borrowing money if this thread had been titled "Black bytches Ain't shyt" the thread would be 30 pages long

 

[ZEupTWN]

Man the same morning the mofo asked me to borrow $1,000 less than 12 hours later he sends me a text message asking if i wanna hit this club tonight.

Cool cat but the kid needs to calm the fukk down. He makes a lot of money and spends too much of that sh!t on women and nonsense. Put it this way: TO him spending over $100 on liquor to drink AT HOME right before leaving for the club and then buying 2 to 3 bottles at the club is an average saturday night. He my boy and all but i can't spend my hard earned money like that.

the audacity gottdamn

 

[havoc]

I had to stop picking up phone calls from a friend who doesn't know to keep a job. He always give me a story of him having problems with his employers. The guy is cool and all, but homie always asking me for money that he needs to purchase studio equipment.

 

[African Peasant]

It depends.

If the homie is reliable (he always gives the money back on time and without trouble), it's good for me, as long as I have some cash.

 

[intruder]

It depends.

If the homie is reliable (he always gives the money back on time and without trouble), it's good for me, as long as I have some cash.

I dont believe you should NEED to borrow money often, tho. Shows you can't manage your money and STILL wanna do the same sh!t putting you in that position.

When i'm broke or my checking account balance running low, I STAY MY ASS HOME. If a chick wants to go out i tell them straight up that on a budget that week so if she still wants to hook up she'll pay for dinner. I'm not gonna ask a friend to loan me money to go party.

And by the way when i say I'm broke i mean i have no money o spare or party with. My SAVINGS account will still have plenty money in it but i train myself to not consider that money as available.

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

That's why I don't lend money. I have yet to receive even a penny of what I loaned.

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

Had one friend like that...Keyword HAD I dont get tired

 

[African Peasant]

I dont believe you should NEED to borrow money often, tho. Shows you can't manage your money and STILL wanna do the same sh!t putting you in that position.

When i'm broke or my checking account balance running low, I STAY MY ASS HOME. If a chick wants to go out i tell them straight up that on a budget that week so if she still wants to hook up she'll pay for dinner. I'm not gonna ask a friend to loan me money to go party.

And by the way when i say I'm broke i mean i have no money o spare or party with. My SAVINGS account will still have plenty money in it but i train myself to not consider that money as available.

As I said, it depends.

If I have some cash (I mean available money, no savings or money planned for something), I don't care, as long as the homie is reliable.

 

[whknorth]

Last Thursday. This nikka still owes me money.

 

[Primetime21]

Last Thursday. This nikka still owes me money.

what language ya'll boys speak?

 

[intruder]

Last Thursday. This nikka still owes me money.

You're gonna put your homeboy's phone number out there for people to see like that, breh
I sometimes come in here and talk about some of my friends but Im not putting them out there like that

 

[whknorth]

You're gonna put your homeboy's phone number out there for people to see like that, breh
I sometimes come in here and talk about some of my friends but Im not putting them out there like that

My bad. it's 4 20