I made that mistake with my cousin and my brother, didn't think they'd do it to me but fukk it even fam can get let go
Lets talk about falling out with ur main homies
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Two nikkas in my crew in highschool left, cause one of them got a car, then the other was ridin his nuts. They both got new homies but that shyt ain't last, them nikkas was using dude for his car, and got them into a beef with some hood nikkas
. After that dude with the car got his shyt wrecked and him and other dude split. Dude with the car dropped out and went to a educational school to get his G.E.D., while the other nikka got himself a car and went solo.
. After that dude with the car got his shyt wrecked and him and other dude split. Dude with the car dropped out and went to a educational school to get his G.E.D., while the other nikka got himself a car and went solo.
Poetical Poltergeist
Precise and cold hearted
This. Worst are those "friends" who promise to pay u back like on their next pay day. .... And they just act like nothing happened.
*L*E*G*A*C*Y*
Done.
That's life. I haven't really had falling out with friends, more like a change of life where they got married, had careers, and moved away.
Its funny. When you're young it's almost if the friends you have seem like the people that will be there forever. But as time goes on, everyone goes their seperate ways.
Its funny. When you're young it's almost if the friends you have seem like the people that will be there forever. But as time goes on, everyone goes their seperate ways.
BuyandSave
All Star
Had a falling out with one of my good homies.
we used to do alot shyt together. drink ,smoke, go parties ,school,
counter strike. beat up people, chase skirts
Before we hitup parties we used to go to target and hustle some white ts just incase.
Then he became a devout muslim and cut contact with me over time.
Haven't spoke to him in a year now.
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BuyandSave
All Star
Did you fukk his sister like a Mexican, though?
Paisley Darts
All Star
My closet friend in HS knocked up his girl up and wanted to get an abortion but was running short on money. So I lent him some money. Couple of weeks go by..don't see him...months...still no sign. My other boy sees him, tells him I wanted my money back and he was on some "fukk him" shyt 
I haven't looked at people the same since.
I used be the guy that was cool with everybody..lots of friends..chilled with a lot of people but now I damn near have a complex with letting people get that close to me. It made me realize that most people don't appreciate anything and will fukk you over in a heartbeat. My circle is small nowadays and rarely do I make new friends. It's hard to trust people these days.
I haven't looked at people the same since.
I used be the guy that was cool with everybody..lots of friends..chilled with a lot of people but now I damn near have a complex with letting people get that close to me. It made me realize that most people don't appreciate anything and will fukk you over in a heartbeat. My circle is small nowadays and rarely do I make new friends. It's hard to trust people these days.
Existential
Nothing really matters...
Yes, I had to learn all of this the hard way. Nothing is permanent, especially not something as fickle as human relationships. Money and p*ssy are the top 2 reasons why things end up not working out. So many of these men out here are weak and will shyt on you over a few dollars or a few minutes in some p*ssy. It's crazy.
When I was younger, I didn't want to admit these things to myself because of what they'd mean about human nature in general. Usually, many people in this life will not be grateful if you decide to be giving and split resources with them. They can actually develop a sense of entitlement to your generosity and get disrespectful with you! I see right through ungrateful, manipulative behavior from the beginning and I always try to show people, try to explain to them, that they don't have to play those games with me because I'm not the sucker they assume I am. I try to tell them as long as we have a respectful relationship, I'll try to hold you down anytime I got it. But they never fukking listen and always try to do some shady shyt even if I tell them the relationship would last longer and they'd actually get more out of it if they stayed honest.
Even with a supernatural patience and lots of forgiveness, dudes can just become complete a$$holes when you take care of them, forcing you to break it off. This is why we can't have nice things, especially in the hood. They've been conditioned to try to scam and take advantage of a good thing, even when there's no reason to do so.
It sucks that I have to stop being generous, because I have no problems sharing money, splitting resources with people I'm (supposedly) cool with, but once they decide to plan their life around me always having funds for them and get frustrated on the occasions I don't, then it's done.
I've been burned a few times, over some petty nonsense, and I guess I'll just charge it to the game, but I'm not being generous with friends anymore. It actually fukks things up in the long run.
A relevant quote, this is true even on an interpersonal level:
against my wishes, one of my partners pushed up on my homegirl who's a single mom and had been done dirty a few times. can't tell a grown man shyt, so i told him not to fukk her over and washed my hands of the situation. of course he cheated on her, my homegirl went the fukk off on me and some other homies in a very public setting once she found out...and i don't get caught up in much mess/drama, i ended up cutting him off for the good part of a year. dude was so persistent in trying to get back in my good graces, i got tired of him begging to be cool again and 'forgave' the nka or whatever. if it weren't for him introducing me to my first love i'd prolly still be beefing with dude. i ended up agreeing to be a groomsman when he married the side chick a couple of months ago, things'll never be the same again tho
Roberto Dinero
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This. Worst are those "friends" who promise to pay u back like on their next pay day. .... And they just act like nothing happened.
Exactly. They also have the nerve to get angry with you when u ask em when are they gonna pay u back. I've dealt with people like that before. I even lent out some money a couple of times. It wasn't big amounts tho, small shyt but seeing how they were taught me that lesson very quick. I feel bad for people who lend out substantial amounts to people like this. Don't give em a fukking dime, cause they will play you and then you'll feel like a dumb ass.
Poetical Poltergeist
Precise and cold hearted
That's why its best to be straight up with people. Hey bro I need that loot back cuz I got bills too type shyt.
Roberto Dinero
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I remember back in the day this dude kept asking me for money. I kept telling him, 'we make the same amount of money, how is it that I can budget mine and ur always asking people to lend you?' After that he stopped asking me.
i mentioned earlier about the anger
"i thought we were friends all you care about is money"
people thinking money grows on trees etc.
i lent out like 1,500 yeah go ahead and laugh, i was real close to this person and everyone else turned them down, yes i was a idiot. But i did learn my lesson I don't lend anyone money anymore even if its 5 bucks
Roberto Dinero
Dropped from #TnT
I wouldn't laugh at you but
but hey, at least u learned from it. And yeah, its a lot worse when its someone that's very close to you. Most of the time with me, the people asking me for money were aquaintances or "new friends", u know, friends that I had only been hanging with for a few years, not people I grew up with.