Let's talk about having 5+ kids being looked at as a bad thing

[UpAndComing]

Still haven't answered my question

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[thenatural]

Show you what

you can read. Answer my question

 

[UpAndComing]

you can read. Answer my question

This post is proof why you got so emotional. Sounding like a petulant child

 

[thenatural]

This post is proof why you got so emotional. Sounding like a petulant child

Nahhhhh, you just don't have an answer. It's all good.

 

[Thingsfallapart]

Kids are a one way ticket to generational poverty. Especially in the black community.

 

[1thouwow]

What are the benefits of having 3+ kids

 

[Cynical Thoughts]

So I have no idea of CACs perpetuating having alot of kids is seen as "too much", and having Black people parroting this mantra looking stupid. Ok got it

Ive never heard white people say this.

But I have heard black people say stop having babies to people that aren't married, have multiple children by different people, can't afford the kids they have etc. but it had nothing to do with what white people said lol

What evidence do you have that black folk do this cause of whites? Did the birth rates drop for black people recently?

 

[Theolodius_Black]

I have so many questions

I like how at the start she's like don't be jealous and insecure because I'm a boss bytch surrounded by all the men in the world. Then goes on to state she got 6 kids by 4 dudes

That's not an indication of her faithfulness understandably, but it doesn't help.

And how they save her life everyday
I slick imagine her just making terrible decisions and her kids swoop in and save the day like 6 little blankman type heros

I'm about to make me something to eat

momma you got foil and a fork in that microwave. That's dangerous



thank you Angel you saved my life

 

[AAKing23]

Nah being unmarried with 5 kids is seen as a bad thing

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

OP is a dumbass

It is a bad thing for minorities particularly Black Women to have Mad amount of kids...

Many black families don't have the financial structure to handle a plethora of kids much less one or two

I had to curve this 30 something year old fine azz nurse who wants a relationship with me ..but she has 6 count em SIX KIDS ..SIX FUKKING KIDS

IM NOT BEING INSENSITIVE OR MEAN...

I told her...

How in the hell can u engage in a relationship with me with all those kids...we will never have time for each other...

yeah she is a good mother makes good money but her vast amount of children

Makes her a NO GO for me or any rational man..

Do y'all realize how expensive Insurance is and much less food and clothing is just for ONE CHILD!!

I am a single father of one....it's not an easy task....

This is 2017 wages are less and ENTERTAINMENT for kids is more expensive...

 

[Ashley Banks]

Yikes. You gotta draw the line somewhere. I understand that everyone deserves love but 6 kids from 4 different men.

 

[Vandelay]

Because for most it's irresponsible.

I'm looking at those white folks as irresponsible too. Ned Stark-ass mothafukkaz...

Let's not be coy here. Money issues aside, how do you have have a good relationship with 10+ kids?

 

[OrionBC]

In all honesty I think having multiple kids is setting yourself up for failure with women particularly. Relationships are flimsy these days and the main person thats left at a disadvantage when the realtionship ends, when kids are involved, are women. Women are the ones left primarily taking care of the kids and anyone can tell you taking care of a bunch of kids on your own is not something to aspire to. If relationships were more stable than I personally wouldn't care but, with people divorcing and walking away from each other so much now, I personally wouldn't give any man these days the opportunity to set me up like that.