Super Facts: I see some men making a million and one excuses about why flirting with a woman who's made it clear she's not interested is okay. That's low key some rapist shyt fellas. Any real nikka knows if a chick is feeling him long before she says any words. I am not the only one. I am not the only man who reads these "me too" stories and wonders how did the guy not get the hint she wasn't feeling him?
I can't be. I know whether I'm allowed to approach or speak to a girl simply by her energy or how she responds to me making eye contact. I can't read minds. I ain't no telepath.
Yes, girls make false accusations against men, but that's not the case a majority of the time IMO.
Girls do send mixed messages at times, but when it comes to sexual contact of any kind they're quite clear about what they're comfortable with and what they're not comfortable with.
A lot of girls ain't even open like that, so how are men confusing a no for a yes? It's because they're running through the red light. That's the problem. Stop being thirsty. If a girl isn't feeling you keep it moving.
If most men are players like we all claim to be one woman not feeling us should be a sign to pull another girl out the stable.
So what's really going on?
The bolded in what you just said. I'm wondering, do you realize how that simple statement renders this whole thread null?
No thirsty man is gonna simply gonna "stop being thirsty" just because you told/asked him too. That's beyond just wishful thinking; it's like someone that wants to claim they got the answers but really they got nothing.
Thirst is like hunger, it's not exactly just a mind-state. Not for most anyway. How do you solve a hunger problem? You teach men how to feed themselves by with their own abilities. Same with Thirst.
Problem is, that what I just said would require a very radical change on the current system. Amongst other things, it requires abrasively
brainwashing little boys and little girls NOW - on how both men and women approach sex especially - so that the future may change a little.
The most hilarious thing to me about this whole rape, sexual harassment is how it seems no one is talking about sexual repression and how it impacts men. It's like those two are different conversations because it's easier to just conclude that men have no self-control rather than admit that the current system is one that finessed certain freedoms from both men and women for profit.
You can't have prostitution be illegal and ask men to not be thirsty. That's society itself sending men mixed signals.
If you can't make it so that busting a nut however a man want becomes the most natural thing, with lots of socially accepted avenues (prostitutes, escorts, sex dolls, weird fetish places) available for it, straightening out the rest (because yes there'll still be problems even if you solve this part) will at least be a little easier.
