Let's talk how the clueless can make women walk away

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Being negative. Idk why ya'll do that. Just like you don't like to hear us complain we don't like to hear that shyt.

I went out last night and breh kept trying to be funny with his negative snide remarks. After the 3 or 4th little joke, I finally hit him with "No smart ass..." and he got the hint and chilled out with it.

That shyt is such a turn off. Idk why men think that's cute but alot of men do it. They're either snide or just negative.

Being a "know it all" is something A LOT men do too. Or they always try to one up you . Like if I tell you 'I cut green grass' I don't need to know how you cut green grass better. I mean a few things are fine but when you do it all the time or what your trying to boost about isn't even relevant or BS it's annoying. I don't need you to try to "relate" to everything or trying to compete with me. Just be you. I don't need you trying to put a facade like we're make believe compatible. Just be you, either I rock with you or I don't...unless your negative. That you need to fix.

 

[number21]

That low self esteem and doubt

Yep. I'm working on it.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Yep. I'm working on it.

I'm still garbage but I can say breaking the ice is a good look and getting hobbies helps to have shyt to talk about. Don't be needy nor a sorry ass breh.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Like if I tell you 'I cut green grass' I don't need to know how you cut green grass better. I mean a few things are fine but when you do it all the time

As a goofy breh who has done this and shorty got mad too lol. The POV is simply advising. We don't know this is annoying, simply trying to continue the conversation.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

As a goofy breh who has done this and shorty got mad too lol. The POV is simply advising. We don't know this is annoying, simply trying to continue the conversation.

Well that is why I'm telling you. Just think about it. If you were telling a woman something and she was always trying to one up you you'd probably be annoyed too.

FYI I am a GREAT conversationalist.The easiest way to get people to like you is to LISTEN! Listen, display interest (enthusiasm), ask follow up questions and only inject small relatable details to show interest. Breh once you learn to do this life is on easy mode.

A lot people will say I get by on my looks but I really get by on my personality. If you can get people to fall for your personality then people will chase you. And the easiest way to do that is to be a positive relatable sound board. Like literally that's all it takes. Easy as shyt.

Just keep that "I can't do it better" stuff to yourself. People date for validation not for confrontation or competition.

 

[Wild self]

The mains problem is, nowadays the dudes with access and game clown and berate men without game, on some crabs in a barrel shyt.

 

[Rozay Oro]

The mains problem is, nowadays the dudes with access and game clown and berate men without game, on some crabs in a barrel shyt.

Very true lol. Cousins have done this to me

 

[-deleted-]

Well that is why I'm telling you. Just think about it. If you were telling a woman something and she was always trying to one up you you'd probably be annoyed too.

FYI I am a GREAT conversationalist.The easiest way to get people to like you is to LISTEN! Listen, display interest (enthusiasm), ask follow up questions and only inject small relatable details to show interest. Breh once you learn to do this life is on easy mode.

A lot people will say I get by on my looks but I really get by on my personality. If you can get people to fall for your personality then people will chase you. And the easiest way to do that is to be a positive relatable sound board. Like literally that's all it takes. Easy as shyt.

Just keep that "I can't do it better" stuff to yourself. People date for validation not for confrontation or competition.

 

[Wild self]

Very true lol. Cousins have done this to me

And it bites them in the ass eventually because of the simping epidemic produces entitled feminist hoes that want money without discipline they gotta deal with. If anything, repressing game from the lost simps will make the game harder FOR THEM. its another situation of "what goes around, comes around"

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Either they rock with me or they don't. I'm not over-analyzing and walking on egg shells for women.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Well that is why I'm telling you. Just think about it. If you were telling a woman something and she was always trying to one up you you'd probably be annoyed too.

FYI I am a GREAT conversationalist.The easiest way to get people to like you is to LISTEN! Listen, display interest (enthusiasm), ask follow up questions and only inject small relatable details to show interest. Breh once you learn to do this life is on easy mode.

A lot people will say I get by on my looks but I really get by on my personality. If you can get people to fall for your personality then people will chase you. And the easiest way to do that is to be a positive relatable sound board. Like literally that's all it takes. Easy as shyt.

Just keep that "I can't do it better" stuff to yourself. People date for validation not for confrontation or competition.

In a bar/club. The best move is to just chill or hit the dance floor for meeting women?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

In a bar/club. The best move is to just chill or hit the dance floor for meeting women?

If you are trying to just smash I have no advice on that. lol

If I were a guy and wanted to meet women I would join meet up groups. I know a guy that messed with several from his running club. Seems easier than just approaching randoms or trying to do the club scene. I have never met a guy in the club. It's either been a cold approach or more mutual interest (friend, group etc).

 

[Rozay Oro]

If you are trying to just smash I have no advice on that. lol

If I were a guy and wanted to meet women I would join meet up groups. I know a guy that messed with several from his running club. Seems easier than just approaching randoms or trying to do the club scene. I have never met a guy in the club. It's either been a cold approach or more mutual interest (friend, group etc).

As far as just smashing, for me it has to be mutual. I'm not into selling dreams and shyt for some action. Not that I'm a saint but that's just not my style.

Damn all groups on meet up app in my area are cacs.