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I help women turn the pain of their affair into the beginning of their becoming

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When it comes to women they hate boredom and repetitiveness. In a relationship when it comes to sex you have to switch it up on her, try different positions, do it different places etc. They been with you and know how you going to hit it it gets stale to them. Why you think some couples wife swap or have 3 somes? (which I don't recommend)

So majority of it is women being bored, tired of the way you hit it. Some men know this some are clueless to the fact. If y'all used to have sex 3-5 times a week and she start getting dry on you she giving it to someone else or thinking about it. Women like new wood but don't want to be shamed for it. Don't be surprised if your lady getting wood from a co worker, or an ex, dude she went to school with, dude from y'all church, dude from the gym etc. Women get offered wood just going to the grocery store.
 

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When it comes to women they hate boredom and repetitiveness. In a relationship when it comes to sex you have to switch it up on her, try different positions, do it different places etc. They been with you and know how you going to hit it it gets stale to them. Why you think some couples wife swap or have 3 somes? (which I don't recommend)

So majority of it is women being bored, tired of the way you hit it. Some men know this some are clueless to the fact. If y'all used to have sex 3-5 times a week and she start getting dry on you she giving it to someone else or thinking about it. Women like new wood but don't want to be shamed for it. Don't be surprised if your lady getting wood from a co worker, or an ex, dude she went to school with, dude from y'all church, dude from the gym etc. Women get offered wood just going to the grocery store.
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So what will you guys do about it?

Cause the real solutions to this is too harsh for most of you.
 

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So what will you guys do about it?

Cause the real solutions to this is too harsh for most of you.
The best to do is get knowledge on the nature of a woman. Your father, uncles, older cousins should've taught you this. Once you get knowledge you know how to deal with them and treat them. A woman biggest weapons is her cooking and sex that's one way she get you. We gotta love women with our head and not our heart. And teach our sons how to deal with them and so fourth. We also have to be good leaders in our communities and households.
 
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Seems like the issue is that SOME women can't just say "I fukked up and was disloyal and it's 100% my fault. Periodt."

They always have to make it more than what it is.

If a man cheats? He's a pig....a dog....a scoundrel with zero care. When she cheats, it's because some internal/external force "drove" her to do it. Like she had zero control. The man is in complete control of his decision making but she isn't?

Women struggle with accountability. They cannot just admit they made a mistake without somehow assigning partial blame to a man or other entity.

When they are successful or do something positive, it's their ingenuity and hard work. When they fukk up, it's like there's cognitive dissonance and they're unable to admit fault. Their brain begins searching for reasons and people to blame. It's never an inherent character flaw or moment of weakness.
 
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Seems like the issue is that SOME women can't just say "I fukked up and was disloyal and it's 100% my fault. Periodt."

They always have to make it more than what it is.

If a man cheats? He's a pig....a dog....a scoundrel with zero care. When she cheats, it's because some internal/external force "drove" her to do it. Like she had zero control. The man is in complete control of his decision making but she isn't?

Women struggle with accountability. They cannot just admit they made a mistake without somehow assigning partial blame to a man or other entity.

When they are successful or do something positive, it's their ingenuity and hard work. When they fukk up, it's like there's cognitive dissonance and they're unable to admit fault. Their brain begins searching for reasons and people to blame. It's never an inherent character flaw or moment of weakness.
A woman will never admit that she aint shyt :manny:
 

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The best to do is get knowledge on the nature of a woman. Your father, uncles, older cousins should've taught you this. Once you get knowledge you know how to deal with them and treat them. A woman biggest weapons is her cooking and sex that's one way she get you. We gotta love women with our head and not our heart. And teach our sons how to deal with them and so fourth. We also have to be good leaders in our communities and households.
Even some of this is too harsh for most modern men.

As men being good leaders in our communities and households is about setting standards and not accepting bs.

Which many nowadays would consider as red pill/manosphere/incel nonsense.

So my point is, things are getting nasty nowadays and it's honestly outside of the comman man's hands (changing things on a cultural level). Its up to God when he decides to bring things back to its proper order.
 

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Seems like the issue is that SOME women can't just say "I fukked up and was disloyal and it's 100% my fault. Periodt."

They always have to make it more than what it is.

If a man cheats? He's a pig....a dog....a scoundrel with zero care. When she cheats, it's because some internal/external force "drove" her to do it. Like she had zero control. The man is in complete control of his decision making but she isn't?

Women struggle with accountability. They cannot just admit they made a mistake without somehow assigning partial blame to a man or other entity.

When they are successful or do something positive, it's their ingenuity and hard work. When they fukk up, it's like there's cognitive dissonance and they're unable to admit fault. Their brain begins searching for reasons and people to blame. It's never an inherent character flaw or moment of weakness.
This is 100 percent correct but that's also why God ordained men to be leaders. I feel we as men have to lead through action. A woman will submit to a man that's worthy of following,but a lot of men need to get themselves together. There is also an indoctrination of feminism and liberalism. The gender war is promoted to cause confusion and break up households.
 
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