Life lessons that took you too long to figure out

[killacal]

This sounds so dumb but one of my closest friends doubting me on p*ssy because I didn’t have nudes hurt my feelings lmaooo. This nikka knew me when I was starving in highschool. I’m so honest with him. I even share all my Ls in general.

2021 problems

You lost for sharing info with another human being who isn't there to give u constructive criticism stop talking about your personal shyt with nikkas

Also in the words of the great nip




Nevertheless still come 'round, show face to motivate these young ones
nikkas will never give you credit, none...
Some questions go unanswered, most of those I give to God
Some nikkas can't be reasoned with, those gon' meet the squad
rip nip

 

[I AM WE ARE]

These most recently for me

READ!!!
there's books/ info out there to help with any situation.
Little improvements everyday help more than we realize

 

[Rekkapryde]

1. Embellish on your resume
2. Most people really are THAT stupid
3. Cant save everybody, focus on your life and count your blessings knowing that you smart enough to know better than most.
4. Alot of people will hate you for just existing. you dont even have to directly interact with'em.
5. You dont earn a person's respect. You earn their admiration.
6. Religion has it's purpose for those who need it to anchor them. Don't knock it. we all cope differently
7. You will always have the minority opinion when thinking for self (ties back to number 2)
8. Most animals are far more self aware and intelligent than you think.

 

[I AM WE ARE]

Social Media has REALLY exposed this with millions of people.

Social media is the worst thing to happen imo

 

[Rekkapryde]

Social media is the worst thing to happen imo

Church. shyt is the insecurity Olympics...only it's every day.

 

[kwazzy100]

All skin folk ain't kinfolk. Lotta c00ns and bedwenches outside of where I grew up.

Yup. Don't believe they're on the same page as you just because you're the same color.

 

[killacal]

Benefits of being a one woman man

Bron showed us the way

When nikkas finally settled down to get married he was already a decade in with 3 boys

With no distractions


Just a kang on his purpose


Gilbert arenas knew he was dead when this 20 year old was breaking down film at home

With his wife breaking shyt down with him

While arenas was partying

He knew he was dead and tried to get a black ops trainer but you're a decade behind nikka catch up

 

[-deleted-]

This sounds so dumb but one of my closest friends doubting me on p*ssy because I didn’t have nudes hurt my feelings lmaooo. This nikka knew me when I was starving in highschool. I’m so honest with him. I even share all my Ls in general.

just know if and when you make a huge lifestyle change and start winning nikkas will switch up on you because you’ve made them so used to you down. Read again, YOU made them view you in that position. Don’t share all your also just because you close with people, eventually they will lose respect for you even when you start winning.

just go ghost and get on your shyt

 

[Rozay Oro]

2021 problems

You lost for sharing info with another human being who isn't there to give u constructive criticism stop talking about your personal shyt with nikkas

Also in the words of the great nip




Nevertheless still come 'round, show face to motivate these young ones
nikkas will never give you credit, none...
Some questions go unanswered, most of those I give to God
Some nikkas can't be reasoned with, those gon' meet the squad
rip nip

Song?

 

[I AM WE ARE]

Just a suggestion, I'll take whatever comes with it.
Can we stop saying nikka
I know it's derived from negus but we're(generally speaking) not using it that way

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

The majority of people are very stupid, ignorant, apathetic and lack integrity
Human nature is static that's why the world is always fukked up
People CAN have a direct influence on your life
A lot of people like to take credit for success and blame others when things go to shyt
Your circle gets smaller the older you get
I didn't realize how isolated life becomes once you become an adult

 

[Luken]

This sounds so dumb but one of my closest friends doubting me on p*ssy because I didn’t have nudes hurt my feelings lmaooo. This nikka knew me when I was starving in highschool. I’m so honest with him. I even share all my Ls in general.

What im saying...is more like....

Your oldest friends are like, the most comfortable with you. So they will easily violate you worst than someone whos like a recent friend thats actually trying to become your friend-friend.

A lot of my nikkas of 20+ years or more have done some definite sucker shyt and then ive met people who I know for like 3-4 years now that have never violated and have done more for me than some of my sandbox peoples ever have.

 

[Swirv]

Bron showed us the way

When nikkas finally settled down to get married he was already a decade in with 3 boys

With no distractions


Just a kang on his purpose


Gilbert arenas knew he was dead when this 20 year old was breaking down film at home

With his wife breaking shyt down with him

While arenas was partying

He knew he was dead and tried to get a black ops trainer but you're a decade behind nikka catch up

Having the right ppl in your corner makes a world of difference

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

What im saying...is more like....

Your oldest friends are like, the most comfortable with you. So they will easily violate you worst than someone whos like a recent friend thats actually trying to become your friend-friend.

A lot of my nikkas of 20+ years or more have done some definite sucker shyt and then ive met people who I know for like 3-4 years now that have never violated and have done more for me than some of my sandbox peoples ever have.

jealousy is a real thing
it seems like most people are toxic in some way and will try to keep you in your place
can't trust anyone

 

[kwazzy100]

You'll be surprised what other black people would do for white validation, but honestly, when you gotta "fake it", you're just c00ning. I grew up in the suburbs and I had friends of different races when I was growing up. Often I would fit the "Too white for the black kids, too black for the white kids" mold, but there were whites that liked my vibe. But if I knew a white person doesnt have similar opinions or use me as a token black friend, I usually keep my distance and stop interacting.
Don't put a white person on a pedestal, even if she's a PAWG.
That should also go for almost everyone you meet.