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Some have but many have not. And guess who are the vocal ones demanding it the most.

I know who my father I though, moot point,

Thats not what was referring to.

Haven black men really given black women a reason to respect them? :ld:
 

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I gave a solution way back.

You avoided it and came up with another weak argument cause you don't wanna admit you're wrong.

your solution was to "stop being colorist" and "call colorist out" :heh: how is that viable? you avoided my question, so i'll ask again.

if someone is attracted to lighter skin, what is me wagging my finger at him going to accomplish?
 

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your solution was to "stop being colorist" and "call colorist out" :heh: how is that viable? you avoided my question, so i'll ask again.

if someone is attracted to lighter skin, what is me wagging my finger at him going to accomplish?
Where's my video? You got time to continue to respond but you can back your claim?:sas1:
 

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your solution was to "stop being colorist" and "call colorist out" :heh: how is that viable? you avoided my question, so i'll ask again.

if someone is attracted to lighter skin, what is me wagging my finger at him going to accomplish?


Nothing wrong with being attracted, your being stupid on purpose

But there is a BIG problem with putting light bright and damn near white on a pedestal.

At that point is when that person needs to be checked.

Problem is black men seem to have a problem checking other black men for fear of being called a simp.
 
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Nothing wrong with being attracted, your being stupid on purpose

But there is a BIG problem with putting light bright and damn near white on a pedestal.

At that point is when that person needs to be checked.

Problem is black men seem to have a problem checking other black men for fear of being called a simp.
No check and balances...but they quick to tell you what the white men owes them though.
 

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You just want to go back and forth for no reason. I and I'll assume most others can't be insulted by somebody that has less of something period. It don't matter how true it is or anything so stop making seem like I'm insulted when I've been telling you all this time its just stupid mentioning something you don't have the upper hand in.

I don't care who they yell at cause one I don't really experience this shyt offline so I can easily just do that and not worry about this. I said go take it up with the white man and report back how it goes. Why would I complain when I haven't done so once in my life about who they date? Whatever comparison I make is the best one fukk your comparison.

I'm not talking about dating.

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If ya'll switch position with black men, how would ya'll fix colorism against white supremacy?

can any black woman in this thread provide their solution to the colorism issue? and try to respond understanding we're not rappers or entertainers.

On an individual level recognize the way colorism afftects darker skinned women and black women as a whole, and don't just dismiss them as being insecure.
Call out your friends and family members when you see them perpetuating colorism.
 

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Ash trying to look into my personal life and then use against me.

have black men given black women a reason to respect them?

chick, its a question. its strange that many of yall on here claim to have good personal relationships with black men, while collectively holding such strong disdain for us.

and i'd be hardpressed to make an argument that all or even most black men are worthy of respect. but when you across someone that is, and you still choose to be disrespectful, that's on you.
 

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Nothing wrong with being attracted, your being stupid on purpose

But there is a BIG problem with putting light bright and damn near white on a pedestal.

At that point is when that person needs to be checked.

Problem is black men seem to have a problem checking other black men for fear of being called a simp.

are playing the dumb game where all black men are rappers now? we all know chris brown and lil wayne to check them on some lyrics? y'all have a much bigger issue when it comes to media promotion and how you're viewed in movies and television. but you still haven't offered any viable solutions on defeating colorism amongst black males (since colorism amongst black women is still okay)
 

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chick, its a question. its strange that many of yall on here claim to have good personal relationships with black men, while collectively holding such strong disdain for us.

and i'd be hardpressed to make an argument that all or even most black men are worthy of respect. but when you across someone that is, and you still choose to be disrespectful, that's on you.

I have disdain who don't do ish but behind the skirts of women while dissing them at the same time.
I am sick of black women taking the disrespect to put a front of unity against white people. Black men who stand against black women are the equivalent of racists in my eyes and should be dealt with accordingly.
 

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chick, its a question. its strange that many of yall on here claim to have good personal relationships with black men, while collectively holding such strong disdain for us.

and i'd be hardpressed to make an argument that all or even most black men are worthy of respect. but when you across someone that is, and you still choose to be disrespectful, that's on you.

stop calling me chick bro..…

We arent disrespectful to men who deserve respect though.
 

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On an individual level recognize the way colorism afftects darker skinned women and black women as a whole, and don't just dismiss them as being insecure.
Call out your friends and family members when you see them perpetuating colorism.

okay, so we get black men to shut up about their preference. how doesl that end colorism or their preference towards lighter skin? black women seem to ignore the whole white owned media engine that promotes light skinned/non-black women over black women daily.

and for like 5th time, blaming color alone is a scapegoat. its features, FEATURES, if you take a precious looking chick and turn her white, nikkas aint going to be attracted to her.
 
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