To be honest man Im glad my sister and cosuins grew up in the burbs, we had no clue there were any colorism issues until college. No joke we were all flabbergasted other blacks thought like this. I'll never understand it and I dont want to understand theres a lot of hostility I personally never saw but it just seems stupid. My mom is light my dad is medium. I just dont get what the issue is![]()
Yea I didn't grow up in the burbs but I honestly didn't know people took this colorism shyt so seriously. nikkas made jokes about dark skin dudes but that's all it was, just jokes. The baddest girl in school was dark and she got hella love from nikkas.
I'm light skinned but I got dark fam and this whole lightskin vs. darkskin was never an issue in my family. Didn't even know this shyt was an issue until I got on the internet.
If you're pretty with a body, you eat. The same is true of black men. I know short suburban black dudes that are practically virgins because black women don't like them.