"Light Girls" Documentary on OWN

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I wouldn't go as far to say abandoned but if the dismissal, disdain and lack of concern displayed in this thread is anything to go by im not shocked they feel so..

There's no such thing. Black men give black women more attention than any other men on Earth. Bed wenches and c00ns, female and male, get dismissed for good reason. They don't represent black men or women.
 

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Black woman talks about her issues : sit your ass down hoe it's because you're ugly, have a bad body or wear weave

Black man talks about his issues: black woman takes day off work to march and protest for him.

Sad.

Sad.
 

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Yea I didn't grow up in the burbs but I honestly didn't know people took this colorism shyt so seriously. nikkas made jokes about dark skin dudes but that's all it was, just jokes. The baddest girl in school was dark and she got hella love from nikkas.

I'm light skinned but I got dark fam and this whole lightskin vs. darkskin was never an issue in my family. Didn't even know this shyt was an issue until I got on the internet.
It's an issue it just manifest itself in different forms and many who are oblivious to it on not on the receiving end of it. Or don't live in toxic enclaves but seeps into society at large covertly. Believe me...I never talked about colorism...but I started to see things I never paid attention to because I was sheltered from it.
 

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Black woman talks about her issues : sit your ass down hoe it's because you're ugly, have a bad body or wear weave

Black man talks about his issues: black woman takes day off work to march and protest for him.

Sad.

Sad.

Just because a person happens to be a black person, male or female, doesn't mean their "issues" are real or important. ot all issues men bring up are worth discussing either merely because the idea bringer is a man. You should shut up and stop tryna preach from Germany.
 

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Black woman talks about her issues : sit your ass down hoe it's because you're ugly, have a bad body or wear weave

Black man talks about his issues: black woman takes day off work to march and protest for him.

Sad.

Sad.
:russ:not hyperbole at all

you sounding real feminist right now. I mean a breh created these specials for black women so......
 

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Just because a person happens to be a black person, male or female, doesn't mean their "issues" are real or important. ot all issues men bring up are worth discussing either merely because the idea bringer is a man. You should shut up and stop tryna preach from Germany.

An issue is only as valid as the victim says it is.

If an issue is important to its victim it's important to them.

You can't shut them up, be dismissive or take it away from them.
 

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Sad to see and I'll admit because of the cats I'm around I don't see no shyt like this at all. People might have preferences but acting like these dudes hell naw man.

You and the poster below don't get it and I guess y'all thought y'all was up on new shyt. The new age shyt isn't colorism and if y'all honestly was paying attention to what I typed y'all would know that. The new age stuff was how now everybody has to be coddled. You feel bad adult baby let me make you feel better. That stuff when I was growing up was like :yeshrug: shyt happens. Now they got specials, shaming tactics the works. That's what I meant by new age but it was in the sentence I typed so I don't know how either one of y'all got I was talking about colorism.
My dude like I said above my statement wasn't about colorism. At least if you going to use :dwillhuh:at least be right in your understanding of what I was saying. I clearly put what I was talking about regarding new age stuff right after I said that phrase.

You are bitter and its not a tag line to shut you down because ill will gladly reply to you. You haven't been out if pocket but just like you going to not "sugarcoat" your message I'm not either. That's what it looks like but don't play any victim card because if you was a dude I'd say the same shyt so have your girlfriends on here hype you up but I'm consistent towards everybody. I don't know if your ugly or not and even if you were not like you'd willingly be like yep its me ugly ass posting. I'm pretty sure you look better than my girl since I don't have one but girls I mess with I don't know. As far as your dude looking better than me Ye shrug. I'm doing my thing why would/should I care if he looks better than me or not? Well hold them black men accountable then.

Go sister go and its always about "preference" and desirability but you want it to be about something else. Its not unless you dating nothing but dudes in that doc and if you think that's most black dudes you're lost. I don't know dudes like,that but apparently you and these other black women do and y'all pissed. Me its eh just like if a girl said I'm too dark for her I'm not about to cry about it shyt happens. If she didn't choose me over white supremacy reasons or whatever else in her mind great for me that I don't have to deal with that shyt. The thing is somebody that I like always does and that's who I focus on. Maybe some women wouldn't feel like this if they were more proactive in selecting their mates not just sitting there waiting for the best of who comes up to them. Maybe that's why I don't care if I get turned down for whatever reason cause I know its plenty that are down with me so why be concerned.

Your on a majority male site trying to strong arm dudes into your way of thinking when obviously most don't see it your way. Its just not going to work and call out the dudes that are hypocrites cause many myself included said go date other races. I'll always say do it as long as you don't shyt on blacks be free. Also your not that sick you keep coming in here to debate on something that after this is over won't change many if any minds.
IDGAF about you being attracted to me so why do you keep trying to make this about that.
I have a man and even if. Didnt i wouldnt look to the coli or any other site for one.
You want to paint me as bitter or ugly because you have nothing of value to add to the conversation.
You keep commenting about how you dont care if you dont care wtf are you still commenting?
Im not trying to change your mind. There is nothing to change because you havent added anything to the conversation.
 

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You'd never see any other group of men applauding their women marrying interracially, but they're so terrible.
:mjlol:
You'd never see women applaud their favorite athletes or entertainers.
You'd sooner drop dead than find a black woman that was
:obama:
over Michael Ealy marrying an Asian.
Meanwhile, white women are getting set on fire for dating interracially.
Remember that white chick who had lighter fluid poured down her throat and set aflame a few weeks back?
Some of these females should be happy they aren't white, because if they said half of the things to white men as they do to men here, it'd be their doorbell being rung with some white boy holding a match box and lighter fluid.
Why are yall so OBSESSED. with hite men.
DO you have an independent thought process?
Do you say to yourself "What Would White Men Do?" Before you act?
 

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You just made my point for me.



:mindblown:What! Some major Black universities didn't start accepting darkskin Blacks until the 50's. Lightskinned Blacks segregated themselves INSIDE the Black community for the longest in all sorts of ways. Ever heard of the paperbag test?:usure: Check out Otis Graham's book.





:mindblown:Dating, dating, dating, man forget dating! Black males suffer all sorting problems and the darker they are usually the worst it is. Just like Black women.

Which HBCU was that, name them. Because from what I have read some fraternities did that, not actual HBCU admissions. I know a variety of dark people who went to HBCUs, I'd imagine you do too.
 

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YES nikka.

NOBODY has the right to tell a BLACK PERSON they ain't black.

My Grandma and Great aunts are all light skinned and they marched with Dr.King and was on the front lines fighting foe OUR rights. Getting shyt thrown at them at sit ins.

They grew up on the same side of town and couldn't get served at resturants, and use public restrooms. Like everybody else.

Venessa Williams and Iman are BOTH black women breh.
Wesley Snipes and AL B Sure are BOTH black my G.
This not 1965.
Being Multi genrationally mixed is not equal to being having a biracial mom and a eurporean father.
 

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Which HBCU was that, name them. Because from what I have read some fraternities did that, not actual HBCU admissions. I know a variety of dark people who went to HBCUs, I'd imagine you do too.
Hampton was notorious for this long ago....to my understanding they and a few others use to actually require pictures with their applications....from there people were "rejected" for some odd reason.
 

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The one on the left is.... :banderas3:
 
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