"Light Girls" Documentary on OWN

[AntiVenom]

Lmfao im bitter for pointing out the truth?
Yall really need to come up wiyh some new tag lines.
Just because i dont sugarcoat mt message doeant mean im bitter hun.
I font have an issue with Blaack mrn in real life but im not going to pretend all black men act like my boyfriend And my father.
I am one of the lucky ones.
You want to kep trying to make it seem like im ugly when i bet i look better than your girl and i bet my man look better you.
Its Black women who are 10x better looking than i am who have said these things. Famus black women have been talking about this for decades. You all want to make everything about "preference" and desirability. Just because you dont want to date a darkwomen doesnt mean you have the right to talk shyt about them.
I never said all black mean act the same.
But the ones that do need to be held accountable.

Im with you on that. Of course this has to be applied to black women as well.

And what about the women part? Do they get a pass?

I think the problem with this discussion is some people blaming one group and not looking at the system that promotes colorism.

Black men can come out tomorrow and say dark skin women is just as beautiful as light skin women, it still will not stop white own media pushing light skin as pretty and dark skin as less than.

Yes

Yes

and yes.

Oh ya you are the one who told me myself and another poster should commit suicide. I am sure there is policy written on this site against this. @cook

Quote my post telling you and the other c00n to commit suicide. SHOW US THE PROOF, BEDWENCH.

...and if you just so happen to do so....trust me you wouldnt be missed, slut. AND I would laugh at your death. Theres no rule against being happy for something positive happening in the world. No keep whining you bug eyed c00n.

I'm talking about the black community. You're right that the issue is ultimately stemming from white supremacy but it's dudes in this thread trivializing the issue or refusing to acknowledge it. So whatever. That's my last comment on this. nikkas harp on about bed wenches, weave, single mothers, etc. Let yall have at it.

See ya. Trust me youll be missed so much in this thread.

Hey why not take the others with you?

I never said all black men.
Im talking about rhe ones that do.
Youre more concerned about defending your preference than you are with the wellibeing of these women.

Then specify who youre talking about next time.

And yes Im much more interested in defending the rights of black men when were being collectively generalized and shyt on. Absolutely and without shame.

 

[TMNT4000]

Breh, IDGAF WHO you date or what you prefer.
I don't date black women exclusively so it makes no difference to me.
In that same breath, I also don't make a LSA account with the intent to antagonize black women and tell them how much they ain't shyt in comparison to others, or flaunt my IR relationship intentionally in their space.
I'm happy, so there's no reason to.
Any ire females get here is ire they sought.
Black men aren't out here antagonizing black women in interracial couplings or sucking their teeth at the sight of an IR pairing.
If there's any group of men on this planet who take some twisted solace in their women forming unions with other ethnicities, it's black men.
When Dirk Nowitnzki married a black woman, black dudes were in their celebrating because he found a black woman attractive.
White men would have called her every name but the one on her birth certificate if it was the inverse.
Middle eastern men would have exiled and threatned to stone her if she showed her face in their community.
Most black men aren't responding negatively to whoever you desire to date until you bring it in their space and dangle it in front of them, something a lot of women here go out of their way to do.
But then complain about being victimized when they're verbally berated.
Disregarding that 99% of them aren't really in IR unions aND are trolls, that's the response they're looking for, and they get it.
I prefer to place them on ignore and KIM.
Black women are the only women on planet Earth who engage in such behavior and I have no pity for any woman who is attacked for doing so.
No more than I'd have for any black man venturing into LSA to discuss how much better pawgs treat him and having no suitable black women to date.

Well said breh



Good point about Dirk marrying a black woman, dudes was givin him props

Really? You got any links or info on that?

 

[Bambolina]

Black men perpetuate the stereotype, as do black women and western media. Lighter skin is viewed more favorably by many people. We're seeing an impressive surge of black women getting good roles on television lately, but most of them are light skinned. You have some like Viola Davis that buck the trend obviously, but overall the roles are dominated by lighter women.

I've seen black men fall over themselves to crown the most homely, unimpressive light skin chicks simply due to color. I've seen darker girls get laughed at for being dark, and you can just see their heart harden as they get clowned. shyt is sad and it perpetuates self hate.

I'm thankful I was raised by someone who grew up during the 60s when this color bullshyt wasn't particularly relevant. If you were black, you were a ****** to the white man. That's how it was, and unless you could completely pass as white you weren't caught up in who was light and who was dark. Today we're freer than we were in the 60s yet the mental chains are worse IMO, and this color nonsense is one of the areas where we're worse off.

I love women, period, regardless of color. And in terms of black women I've seen beautiful light skinned women. I've seen beautiful dark women.

I'm going to tell you right now that's a lie.

 

[-----]

Which HBCU was that, name them. Because from what I have read some fraternities did that, not actual HBCU admissions. I know a variety of dark people who went to HBCUs, I'd imagine you do too.

Howard....Until the fifties had a "policy" of denying admission to darker skinned Blacks. You had to send a picture to them for them to see if you would "fit in". Look it up fam.

 

[Killer Instinct]

Why are yall so OBSESSED. with hite men.
DO you have an independent thought process?
Do you say to yourself "What Would White Men Do?" Before you act?

Comedic gold coming from the same women who, when they're asked about weave, out of wedlock births, and a harem of other shameful topics, the go-to response consists of "White women do it, also."
If you'd prefer to ignore my previous post, play disingenuous and twist others to sling ad hominems and insults, we can do that, too.

 

[ReadOneBookAWeek]

yall still arguing with these little girls? The only solution they have for any of our problems is to place the blame and responsibility on black men and tell us we have to make everything right while they do nothing but complain like they're innocent queens entitled to something.

 

[Ooh Marty]

The african American man has no power in this country and never will!
Point blank period!

It's a lost argument and I don't understand why yAll black women are still entertaining these powerless ass nikkas that have the nerve to be arrogant for no good reason

 

[philmonroe]

IDGAF about you being attracted to me so why do you keep trying to make this about that.
I have a man and even if. Didnt i wouldnt look to the coli or any other site for one.
You want to paint me as bitter or ugly because you have nothing of value to add to the conversation.
You keep commenting about how you dont care if you dont care wtf are you still commenting?
Im not trying to change your mind. There is nothing to change because you havent added anything to the conversation.

Are you on that narcotic when did I say anything about being attracted (to a person I've never saw who could look like shyt) and or trying to get at you? Delusional girl you should stop over hyping yourself. Nah I don't want to do nothing you're paint yourself as bitter and or ugly. For,the last time I told you I don't know if you're ugly. I know in this discussion you come off bitter but as usual I'm not allowed to have an opinion based off what you type. Typical. I keep telling you I will do as a fukking please so you can keep repeating why I'm still commenting and the answer won't change. Its because I feel like it and I've added to the convo I just didn't kiss your ass which is what you want mixed in with some yaaaas girls.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Damn this thread done turned toxic as fukk

 

[Killer Instinct]

Really? You got any links or info on that?

No, I made it up.

 

[Raptor]

Assi

I was asking why want to assimilate or pander for white approval if youre proud.
So if you werent talking about Ethipians which group of Africans or Black immigrants were you talking about?

Dafaq are u talking about. Most african migrants don't assimilate, they integrate. There's a difference. Assimilation is when you reject your own culture and embrace the culture of your adopted home. Most Ethiopians don't assimilate. Most of the time when they come to
A western country, they being their culture with them. They open up Ethiopian stores, they teach their children the history and culture of their ethnic group/country. And they usually stick together in tightnit communities. Now we have little Ethiopia in Toronto, Washington and Australia and most of these ethiopian business communities have now revitalised these previously run down places. And most of them end up marrying their own kind. And heck most of you guys misconstrue that as being xenophobic or racist. Ethiopians are proud of their heritage. And dating cac women or men doesn't mean you hate yourself, it's only when you exclusively date them/pursue them that you enter the c00n territory

 

[Canon]

The african American man has no power in this country and never will!
Point blank period!

It's a lost argument and I don't understand why yAll black women are still entertaining these powerless ass nikkas that have the nerve to be arrogant for no good reason

bitter

 

[Theraflu]

not hyperbole at all

you sounding real feminist right now. I mean a breh created these specials for black women so......

Canon, you should know by now that I like to support the underdog/the victim in these threads

Right now it's dark skin women

:humph::notmybuz:

 

[-----]

You ever notice you never see "light brights" or really light "multiracials" rear there head in these discussions?? Maybe because they know the real deal.

 

[AntiVenom]

Breh, IDGAF WHO you date or what you prefer.
I don't date black women exclusively so it makes no difference to me.
In that same breath, I also don't make a LSA account with the intent to antagonize black women and tell them how much they ain't shyt in comparison to others, or flaunt my IR relationship intentionally in their space.
I'm happy, so there's no reason to.
Any ire females get here is ire they sought.
Black men aren't out here antagonizing black women in interracial couplings or sucking their teeth at the sight of an IR pairing.
If there's any group of men on this planet who take some twisted solace in their women forming unions with other ethnicities, it's black men.
When Dirk Nowitnzki married a black woman, black dudes were in their celebrating because he found a black woman attractive.
White men would have called her every name but the one on her birth certificate if it was the inverse.
Middle eastern men would have exiled and threatned to stone her if she showed her face in their community.
Most black men aren't responding negatively to whoever you desire to date until you bring it in their space and dangle it in front of them, something a lot of women here go out of their way to do.
But then complain about being victimized when they're verbally berated.
Disregarding that 99% of them aren't really in IR unions aND are trolls, that's the response they're looking for, and they get it.
I prefer to place them on ignore and KIM.
Black women are the only women on planet Earth who engage in such behavior and I have no pity for any woman who is attacked for doing so.
No more than I'd have for any black man venturing into LSA to discuss how much better pawgs treat him and having no suitable black women to date.

Boom.

And trust me they wont get any pity from me either when they do this. They deserve to get dragged each time that they do. Date who you want but dont antagonize us with it.

That was after black women were abandoned.

Hey its the torch many of you have embraced. Dont stop now lol

black women were abandoned now

Good! maybe the ones in here will shut the fukk up about who people are and arent fukking now.

Howard....Until the fifties had a "policy" of denying admission to darker skinned Blacks. You had to send a picture to them for them to see if you would "fit in". Look it up fam.

Now THIS is something to get up in arms about. If the female members came in here talking about things like this then id be in full support of shutting it down. Buuuuuuut none of them articulated anything remotely like this. Which is why they got the reaction that they did. Sorry but im not sorry.

bitter

They make comments like that and get angry when we call them out for it. I just cant with their selective outrage.

Comedic gold coming from the same women who, when they're asked about weave, out of wedlock births, and a harem of other shameful topics, the go-to response consists of "White women do it, also."
If you'd prefer to ignore my previous post, play disingenuous and twist others to sling ad hominems and insults, we can do that, too.

I love it when you guys bring up their normal rhetoric when they try to switch it up. Thank you for hammering them with this. Of course none of them will comment on it lol