Light Skinned women vs. Tall dudes

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Women call light skinned dudes pretty and dark skinned dudes handsome. "Prince is pretty. I wanna have light skinned pretty babies. Drake is pretty." "Now Idris Elba, Tyrese and Tyson Beckford are handsome." Do I need to talk about when Christopher Williams got stabbed in his hand in New Jack City? "I never liked your pretty ass anyway!" The death of the light skinned man being promoted and in comes the dark skinned man, Wesley Snipes with his hyper-masculinity.
Why get mad when the same gets said when someone calls a light skinned woman prettier than a dark skinned woman?

Black women love talking about how masculine dark skinned men are compared to lightskinned men and I'm like "be careful", because if the dark skinned MEN are more masculine then what does that say about dark skinned women?

People assign femininity to lighter skin.
 

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chicks that want to wear heels and still be shorter than their mate :what::wtf:
Yeah that's the thing I don't get :ohhh:


A chick will be 5'10 and already tall for a woman but will then put on some tall ass heels and push themselves to 6-2-6'3 status :what:


If women see being tall as a masculine trait for a man then why would they wanna make themselves appear any taller than 6'0


The same with dark skin, if a man who is dark as night seems more masculine to them, why does that change all of a sudden when we're talking about dark skin women :manny:
 

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When a chick keeps it 100 ppl want to complain. Thats a energy saver. I cant hate on someone w/ because i have a few of my own.
Pretty much.

LOL @ complaining about someone else's preference over something like height when it comes a man (a figure of security, physical strength, etc.). If you think a woman rejects you because of your height alone, please believe you had many more problems than your vertical relativity in her eyes.
 

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Women call light skinned dudes pretty and dark skinned dudes handsome. "Prince is pretty. I wanna have light skinned pretty babies. Drake is pretty." "Now Idris Elba, Tyrese and Tyson Beckford are handsome." Do I need to talk about when Christopher Williams got stabbed in his hand in New Jack City? "I never liked your pretty ass anyway!" The death of the light skinned man being promoted and in comes the dark skinned man, Wesley Snipes with his hyper-masculinity.
Why get mad when the same gets said when someone calls a light skinned woman prettier than a dark skinned woman?

Black women love talking about how masculine dark skinned men are compared to lightskinned men and I'm like "be careful", because if the dark skinned MEN are more masculine then what does that say about dark skinned women?

People assign femininity to lighter skin.

Pretty much. Some black women are dumb as fukk.
 

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Skin color as a indicator of masculinity is purely a social construct. Physical height actually has basis to it. :comeon: People. Don't be dense.

If we were in prehistoric times and lived in "jungle" like environments, none of our skin colors would matter, height would however.
 

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Women call light skinned dudes pretty and dark skinned dudes handsome. "Prince is pretty. I wanna have light skinned pretty babies. Drake is pretty." "Now Idris Elba, Tyrese and Tyson Beckford are handsome." Do I need to talk about when Christopher Williams got stabbed in his hand in New Jack City? "I never liked your pretty ass anyway!" The death of the light skinned man being promoted and in comes the dark skinned man, Wesley Snipes with his hyper-masculinity.
Why get mad when the same gets said when someone calls a light skinned woman prettier than a dark skinned woman?

Black women love talking about how masculine dark skinned men are compared to lightskinned men and I'm like "be careful", because if the dark skinned MEN are more masculine then what does that say about dark skinned women?

People assign femininity to lighter skin.

This is true unfortunately and I hate it. While its not all black women or all lightskinned black men who get this its too common. I hate how some black women say "I dont do light brights theyre too pretty for me." as if skin color determines character. :rudy:

Some Black people say some dumb things about skin color.
 

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How many black women are checking for Djimon Hounsou?


Let me rephrase that.

How many black women would be checking for Djimon Hounsou in 1984?

In 1993 Djimon Hounsou was in but before that black women were screaming over Prince, Rick James, and Michael Jackson.
 

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Skin color as a indicator of masculinity is purely a social construct. Physical height actually has basis to it. :comeon: People. Don't be dense.

If we were in prehistoric times and lived in "jungle" like environments, none of our skin colors would matter, height would however.

Physical attractiveness - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Testosterone has been shown to darken skin color in laboratory experiments.[62] In his foreword to Peter Frost's 2005 Fair Women, Dark Men, University of Washington sociologist Pierre L. van den Berghe writes: "Although virtually all cultures express a marked preference for fair female skin, even those with little or no exposure to European imperialism, and even those whose members are heavily pigmented, many are indifferent to male pigmentation or even prefer men to be darker."[63]
 

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How many black women are checking for Djimon Hounsou?


Let me rephrase that.

How many black women would be checking for Djimon Hounsou in 1984?

In 1993 Djimon Hounsou was in but before that black women were screaming over Prince, Rick James, and Michael Jackson.

I know I wouldnt cause hes not attractive. If he was light he still wouldnt be attractive to me.
 

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We aren't in the jungle though. And women created "tall dark and handsome" so ultimately lighter skin being seen as masculine is their own doing. It just backfired on em.
I only said that to say it's a NATURAL INSTINCT for women (and people in general) to choose and look to taller people. So to say it's anything like a skin color preference is off.
 

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It's still a SOCIAL construct of attractiveness. Meaning that it is arbitrarily made by people,. I never mentioned anything about European exposure. Only you have.

Picture humans in their most primal, raw, untouched state. Do you think a woman is choosing someone for their skin color or for their height?

Physical attractiveness - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Females' sexual attraction towards males may be determined by the height of the man.[51] Height in men is associated with status or wealth in many cultures (in particular those where malnutrition is common),[52] which is beneficial to women romantically involved with them. One study conducted of women's personal ads support the existence of this preference; the study found that in ads requesting height in a mate, 80% requested a height of 6.00 feet (1.83 m) or taller.[52] The online dating Website eHarmony only matches women with taller men, because of complaints from women matched with shorter men.[53]

Recent studies have shown that heterosexual women often prefer men taller than they are, rather than a man with above average height. While women usually desire men to be at least the same height as themselves or taller, several other factors also determine male attractiveness, and the male-taller norm is not universal.[54] In certain non-Western cultures, the relative heights of partners have been shown to be irrelevant in their choice of mate, which suggests that Western height preferences may be sociocultural, rather than genetic, in nature.[54] Professor Adam Eyre-Walker, from the University of Sussex, stated that there is, as yet, no evidence that these preferences are evolutionary preferences, as opposed to merely cultural preferences.[55] In a double-blind study by Graziano et al., it was found that, in person, using a sample of women of normal size, they were on average most attracted to men who were of medium height (5'9"- 5'11") and less attracted to both men of shorter height (5'5"- 5'7") and men of tallest height (6'2"- 6'4").[56]
 
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