Like Father Like Son

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well it becomes a difficult conversation because naturally you're happy on the most basic human level that this young boy Future has such a good man in his life. thank God for that right? and it's not like you begrudge ciara the person for finding a man like russell who's obviously wonderful and makes her happy. you see this is how the illogical gynocentrists deflect. either you want ciara to stay lonely and miserable, black women don't deserve happiness overall, or you're some future stan who feels sorry that his baby mama has now become a revered wife and made him look silly. nah....

it's because real nikkas KNOW that black women are championing this because they're either dumb ass single mothers themselves who made poor choices or caping for other black women that are in the same boat. refusing to acknowledge that the bytch CHOSE an ain't shyt nikka who wasn't there for his other four kids when Ciara said he'll make a great husband & fukked him raw. they pray that they can make life altering stupid mistakes like ciara and have it completely wiped away by finding a man like russell to be their b*stard kid's mentor. thus not being accountable in anyway for their poor choice(s). and THAT'S what's offensive. bytches can't simply say ciara was wrong in the first place. naw... champion the square nikka while shytting on the street nikka and never acknowledging the dumb bytch who chose that fukked up nikka to begin with. your average "ciara" in the hood ain't got no damn russell to save their fukkin kid. thus, we end up with the wayward boys

or maybe just maybe black women appreciate a good man.

You can try to qualify the praise all you want but in the end that little boy is in the best environment for him and his future. You can judge on past actions.. criticize the previous decisions his mother made but regardless of all of that, that little boy is being geared in the right direction and his future is looking brighter despite the circumstances of his birth.

The fact that all you can do is look negatively on such a situation instead of celebrating a young black boy being raised by a positive black man says more about you than them.
 

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any woman can make a child, it takes a real bird to allow a rapper with 12 baby mamas thats a pretend drug addict to allow him to nut inside you though.

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he didn’t have 12... he had 3 although he probably does now because he’s a sperm bank but regardless Russell clearly didn’t care and his actions are a testament to that. Why not appreciate the positivity instead of relegating the moment to a past action that cannot be changed?
 

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or maybe just maybe black women appreciate a good man.

You can try to qualify the praise all you want but in the end that little boy is in the best environment for him and his future. You can judge on past actions.. criticize the previous decisions his mother made but regardless of all of that, that little boy is being geared in the right direction and his future is looking brighter despite the circumstances of his birth.

The fact that all you can do is look negatively on such a situation instead of celebrating a young black boy being raised by a positive black man says more about you than them.


4th wave feminism speaks often of agency. which is the capacity and ability to make choices. problem is with women that they don't realize that agency and accountability are bedfellows. so when convenient they flip from being our social and intellectual equals to these damsel in distress archetypes born out of the very patriarchal ideology they claim to abhor

and lol @ the bold though. trying to cover this issue is a red, black, and green flag won't work ma. that's called the afrocentric deflection tactic. why the bytch ain't choose a positive black man to begin with?
 

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I think you more so appreciate being able to get back at your baby daddy

y’all’s weird obsession with this love triangle is off putting

Love triangle???? :mjlol: That doesn’t even exist and never did


I don’t have nor ever had a baby daddy.

Appreciate the father and son bonding. They’re happy...

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well it becomes a difficult conversation because naturally you're happy on the most basic human level that this young boy Future has such a good man in his life. thank God for that right? and it's not like you begrudge ciara the person for finding a man like russell who's obviously wonderful and makes her happy. you see this is how the illogical gynocentrists deflect. either you want ciara to stay lonely and miserable, black women don't deserve happiness overall, or you're some future stan who feels sorry that his baby mama has now become a revered wife and made him look silly. nah....

it's because real nikkas KNOW that black women are championing this because they're either dumb ass single mothers themselves who made poor choices or caping for other black women that are in the same boat. refusing to acknowledge that the bytch CHOSE an ain't shyt nikka who wasn't there for his other four kids when Ciara said he'll make a great husband & fukked him raw. they pray that they can make life altering stupid mistakes like ciara and have it completely wiped away by finding a man like russell to be their b*stard kid's mentor. thus not being accountable in anyway for their poor choice(s). and THAT'S what's offensive. bytches can't simply say ciara was wrong in the first place. naw... champion the square nikka while shytting on the street nikka and never acknowledging the dumb bytch who chose that fukked up nikka to begin with. your average "ciara" in the hood ain't got no damn russell to save their fukkin kid. thus, we end up with the wayward boys
:dahell: y'all nggaz man

Its that serious?
 

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4th wave feminism speaks often of agency. which is the capacity and ability to make choices. problem is with women that they don't realize that agency and accountability are bedfellows. so when convenient they flip from being our social and intellectual equals to these damsel in distress archetypes born out of the very patriarchal ideology they claim to abhor

and lol @ the bold though. trying to cover this issue is a red, black, and green flag won't work ma. that's called the afrocentric deflection tactic. why the bytch ain't choose a positive black man to begin with?

Ciara messed up badly by choosing future but her son is here. What did you expect her to do? Wallow in her bad decision and create a negative environment for her child? She knew she messed up, that’s why she left and moved onto someone better.

she should have chosen better initially, yes but that’s not something that can be changed so why keep focusing on it?

The preference will always be for women to choose good men to be with just like we would prefer men not to become sperm banks and just impregnate any woman and neglect their children. Unfortunately you can’t dictate what anyone does with their lives but you can celebrate when someone gets it right and Ciara got it right with Russell which is why her son is now being raised by a man that will lead him in the right direction. What else do you want? Her to grovel on tv about her bad decision? Lol..
 

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So Willie the electrician can't be a good step father and profoundly impact a young man's life?


do the Ciara Princess Harris' of the black community know the difference between the Futures and the Willie the Electricians when they see them? of course they do. old boy knows, Field Marshall knows, and so do them hoes....

so why aren't we holding them accountable for choosing clearly dysfunctional Futures in the first place and not a man like Willie the Electrician my G?
 
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