Kilgore Trout
Banned
just focused on improving as a person
More women was just one of the many benefits
More women was just one of the many benefits
List one thing you did that improved your success rate with women
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chief_keef_stan
lil' haitian nikka
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1. Be confident. This means you are not afraid of being yourself, you are comfortable in your own skin, and you are not afraid of rejection. Pulling more women means getting rejecting by more women.
2. In my experience, women do not usually give helpful advice on how to get women. They just tell men how they would like to be treated by a guy, but that information is not useful when it comes to pulling women. Men give more practical advice.
3. Hygiene. I am the best smelling guy in the room when I enter a room, and I rarely wear cologne. Breath, skin, clothes all smell pleasant and memorable. Smell good, and women will remember you. You have no idea how many guys do not care how bad they smell. Also when the line-up is on point women cannot help but notice you.
4. Dress well. That means having a style that compliments your body type, and refining it. Make sure you clothes are not worn sloppy, are crispy and ironed. No need to be GQ or spend a lot of money, simple works. A man can look good in a t-shirt in jeans, if everything is ironed, fresh, and fits.
5. Make sure your teeth are on point. You don't have to have pearly whites, but they need to be clean. Do you want to kiss a woman with nasty teeth? Women don't either. If you don't go to the dentist on the regular, a cleaning will work wonders. If you are not balling out over the counter whiteners helps.
6. Get in better shape if you are out of shape. Women will be on that "I was feeling you before you got in shape, but I only recently worked up the courage to say something" tip. It's whatever.
7. Go out to places where there will be attractive women. Concerts, Sports games, campus events for younger cats, and professional events for older cats. If you have a fixed schedule every week it would explain why you can't meet women. Location is a big factor.
8. Learn how to have a conversation. Women do not respond to men who talk about themselves. A sense of humor is crucial. The combination of confidence and a sense of humor will have a drastic impact on success rate. If a man can make a woman bust out laughing, he can pull her.
9. Stop worry about women. Guys who chase women generally stay broke. Guys who chase after their ambitions always tend to have women. I don't mean just having ambitions, I mean pursuing them hard.
2. In my experience, women do not usually give helpful advice on how to get women. They just tell men how they would like to be treated by a guy, but that information is not useful when it comes to pulling women. Men give more practical advice.
3. Hygiene. I am the best smelling guy in the room when I enter a room, and I rarely wear cologne. Breath, skin, clothes all smell pleasant and memorable. Smell good, and women will remember you. You have no idea how many guys do not care how bad they smell. Also when the line-up is on point women cannot help but notice you.
4. Dress well. That means having a style that compliments your body type, and refining it. Make sure you clothes are not worn sloppy, are crispy and ironed. No need to be GQ or spend a lot of money, simple works. A man can look good in a t-shirt in jeans, if everything is ironed, fresh, and fits.
5. Make sure your teeth are on point. You don't have to have pearly whites, but they need to be clean. Do you want to kiss a woman with nasty teeth? Women don't either. If you don't go to the dentist on the regular, a cleaning will work wonders. If you are not balling out over the counter whiteners helps.
6. Get in better shape if you are out of shape. Women will be on that "I was feeling you before you got in shape, but I only recently worked up the courage to say something" tip. It's whatever.
7. Go out to places where there will be attractive women. Concerts, Sports games, campus events for younger cats, and professional events for older cats. If you have a fixed schedule every week it would explain why you can't meet women. Location is a big factor.
8. Learn how to have a conversation. Women do not respond to men who talk about themselves. A sense of humor is crucial. The combination of confidence and a sense of humor will have a drastic impact on success rate. If a man can make a woman bust out laughing, he can pull her.
9. Stop worry about women. Guys who chase women generally stay broke. Guys who chase after their ambitions always tend to have women. I don't mean just having ambitions, I mean pursuing them hard.
PhonZhi
Veteran
How did you learn this
Black Cobain
Donkey Punch? I Donkey Slap!
Talking to people in person instead of kiking and texting
DaddyFresh
Superstar
Started working out and got a nice physique.
Braces. Whitened teeth.
Stepped up my fashion game.
Grew my hair out.
Got a crib and new whip.
Started looking down on hoes and giving off the aura im that nikka.
Now Ima god to these hoes
Braces. Whitened teeth.
Stepped up my fashion game.
Grew my hair out.
Got a crib and new whip.
Started looking down on hoes and giving off the aura im that nikka.
Now Ima god to these hoes
Mind Over Thirst
Pro
Got a good ass job.
Developed a very extroverted personality in college
In my early 20s I read some shytty relationship books
And tried to be more "open" and "sharing"
...Whew, that was a horrible detour
Ever since I just stick to general talk and fun stuff
I will tell 10 interesting stories before I discuss what went wrong at work
And I only get serious, specific, or historical when necessary
Honestly..
Communication is way over used much like penicillin
At some point there's immunity
And it becomes a worthless cure
I'm actually a great communicator but I save it for when there's something serious
EX. Larry bird said a coach only has the players ears for 3 years
http://www.indystar.com/story/sport...oaching-belief-questioned-those-nba/84194576/
Obviously that's different than a marriage, but there's something to the notion of over-communication
And tried to be more "open" and "sharing"
...Whew, that was a horrible detour
Ever since I just stick to general talk and fun stuff
I will tell 10 interesting stories before I discuss what went wrong at work
And I only get serious, specific, or historical when necessary
Honestly..
Communication is way over used much like penicillin
At some point there's immunity
And it becomes a worthless cure
I'm actually a great communicator but I save it for when there's something serious
EX. Larry bird said a coach only has the players ears for 3 years
http://www.indystar.com/story/sport...oaching-belief-questioned-those-nba/84194576/
Obviously that's different than a marriage, but there's something to the notion of over-communication
PortCityProphet
Follow me to the truth
GHB
NeilCartwright
All Star
Trial and error but just being an active listener. Asking genuine/general open ended questions, with it coming off as genuine. I can read people fairly well and hate when people aren't genuine. You can tell when someone is trying to BS you
I said it before but look at Martin re-runs. That sense of humor works for me (at times). And look at Nas interviews pre-'03. That laid back personality works well for me as well
I'm not an extrovert or the life of the party but I eat decently well
Youseenmywork
KING
I like that you mentioned Renaissance man this something that is highly overlooked in today's society.
Youseenmywork
KING
Love hearing y'all drop that postive knowledge keep it up brehs...