Loaded Questions your s/o Asks...

[twan83]

i just tell her how i feel which is the truth she knew what she was marrying

we made a promise too each other too be honest no matter what or how bad it may be but try too say it respectfully

ex: if i dont think a shirt looks good on her i would just tell her baby that dont look good on u and i would guide her too a shirt i think that makes her even more sexier in my eyes

 

[Marco Zen]

women..that's their thing..I stopped questioning it..

I hear ya...it's been a while since I was forced to watch a movie for some ass...lame TV shows tho

 

[You_Ugly_on_Skype]

Straight up ain how women operate ...c'mon now

I was under the impression that I may have found gold with this one... The hope was so strong... probably blinding

 

[Kidd Dibiase]

I keep it honest as possible, like this baby kick she's on...she wants a daughter [not now] but she keeps hinting at it...i shut it down soon as its brought up. Trying to enjoy my 20's, if she's still around when i'm 30..then we can talk about that

 

[You_Ugly_on_Skype]

I keep it honest as possible, like this baby kick she's on...she wants a daughter [not now] but she keeps hinting at it...i shut it down soon as its brought up. Trying to enjoy my 20's, if she's still around when i'm 30..then we can talk about that

WOW!

I don't want any kids, and my girls tells me that she doesn't want any either but then she has a disclaimer at the end of her statement where she say "But accidents happen...



I'm like "This $#@% better not forget her Birth control" I was thinking of even crushing it up and putting it in her breakfast & she eno, just to be on the safe side. But I heard some celebrity got in trouble for slipping A groupie in morning after pill and have breakfast.

 

[Kidd Dibiase]

WOW!

I don't want any kids, and my girls tells me that she doesn't want any either but then she has a disclaimer at the end of her statement where she say "But accidents happen...



I'm like "This $#@% better not forget her Birth control" I was thinking of even crushing it up and putting it in her breakfast & she eno, just to be on the safe side. But I heard some celebrity got in trouble for slipping A groupie in morning after pill and have breakfast.

she has a son already [not mine] and from the jump she told me she doesn't want anymore. But seeing a dad with his baby girl in ATL sparked some interest, then she started looking at baby girl pics but she knows i'm not about that life right now. Another thing is that birth control, i'm constantly reminding her to make an appt to get that 3 year birth control in but she "forgets" ....now i'm iffy about her

 

[You_Ugly_on_Skype]

she has a son already [not mine] and from the jump she told me she doesn't want anymore. But seeing a dad with his baby girl in ATL sparked some interest, then she started looking at baby girl pics but she knows i'm not about that life right now. Another thing is that birth control, i'm constantly reminding her to make an appt to get that 3 year birth control in but she "forgets" ....now i'm iffy about her

Is that guaranteed 3 years or take my child?

 

[Kidd Dibiase]

Is that guaranteed 3 years or take my child?

well it's supposed to prevent her from getting pregnant for 3 years..it better thing is, I'm pro choice, her not so much...doesn't help that her family probably isn't either

 

[tru_m.a.c]

I was asked a loaded question by my s/o which, I knew the "right" answer she was looking for, but I gave "wrong" answer because I don't like hidden agendas.... Why cant you just ask straight up.

Because then, they wouldn't be females

 

[tru_m.a.c]

Obviously the most loaded question ever is, "how many people have you had sex with."

Another loaded question, "what is your opinion on relationships/marriage?"

 

[You_Ugly_on_Skype]

Obviously the most loaded question ever is, "how many people have you had sex with."

Another loaded question, "what is your opinion on relationships/marriage?"

Seems like a question mostly asked by males. I can understand why the question is being asked, knowing what you're investing in is good in practice.

Why don't you feel its a legitimate question? IMO, If your intentions are marriage/relationship, think its wise to know how the other person views the institution/union

 

[tru_m.a.c]

Seems like a question mostly asked by males. I can understand why the question is being asked, knowing what you're investing in is good in practice.

Nah it's def not something I've ever asked. None of my homeboys have ever asked their shorties either. It's always something asked of us. Its expected when you're greek though so whatever.

Why don't you feel its a legitimate question? IMO, If your intentions are marriage/relationship, think its wise to know how the other person views the institution/union

It's not about whether or not it's legitimate. It's simply a loaded question, that if not answered properly, will make her think all kinds of outlandish things.

And it's definitely more-so for the marriage part. I mean I'm 25. When chicks ask me about marriage, I don't back down. Lying early on sets a bad precedent. I give them my honest opinion. Which means I'm quoting divorce statistics, births out of wedlock, speaking about how vain we are, and shytting on chivalry at the same damn time

…at the same damn time...

 

[Kidd Dibiase]

she hates my opinion on marriage lol again waiting til my 30s before i even consider it, and sometimes i don't feel the need to validate my relationship on paper. I told her once that happens, relationships for some reason change. Normal conversation now becomes "now that we're married we should ......"

 

[A.V.]

And it's definitely more-so for the marriage part. I mean I'm 25. When chicks ask me about marriage, I don't back down. Lying early on sets a bad precedent. I give them my honest opinion. Which means I'm quoting divorce statistics, births out of wedlock, speaking about how vain we are, and shytting on chivalry at the same damn time

…at the same damn time...

 

[You_Ugly_on_Skype]

Nah it's def not something I've ever asked. None of my homeboys have ever asked their shorties either. It's always something asked of us. Its expected when you're greek though so whatever.



It's not about whether or not it's legitimate. It's simply a loaded question, that if not answered properly, will make her think all kinds of outlandish things.

And it's definitely more-so for the marriage part. I mean I'm 25. When chicks ask me about marriage, I don't back down. Lying early on sets a bad precedent. I give them my honest opinion. Which means I'm quoting divorce statistics, births out of wedlock, speaking about how vain we are, and shytting on chivalry at the same damn time

Interesting, I would suspect that the women involved relationships with you and your homeboys are hoping for that eventuality of Marriage, but since you are upfront with your intentions they cannot become upset when it doesn't work out that way. But they still have that hope.

Those statistics you mentioned gives me nightmares about marriage and if you're not careful, depending on which state or county common-law relationships as well, in terms of alimony, children out of wedlock, etc.