she hates my opinion on marriage lol again waiting til my 30s before i even consider it, and sometimes i don't feel the need to validate my relationship on paper. I told her once that happens, relationships for some reason change. Normal conversation now becomes "now that we're married we should ......"
Thats crazy how they switch once you're married. It's like they're on their best behavior to try get you, and once the ring goes on they feel they can let their hair down, so to speak, they gain weight, talk to you in a disrespectful way. It's almost like they have a grudge against you for some of the things you did while you two were dating. She held a grudge and now that she is somewhat immune to a break up, she's going to go at your throat.
But what's the flip side of that? Is there any at all? Perhaps a lady might be able to answer