Loaded Questions your s/o Asks...

[You_Ugly_on_Skype]

my wife asked me last week "which one of my friends do you find most attractive?"

i was like "why are you asking me that?"

she said that she was just curious

i just told them that all of them are ugly and thats why she gets the most attention when they are out.

deflect the question and add a slick compliment.

Classic example with a BS reason for the question.

I answered honestly before and my girl got mad. I guess you gotta give them the win sometimes.

 

[tater]

Why don't you think they're not loaded?

Double negative?

Anyhoo…they're just not. They're just stupid. I'm not going to ask if I look fat in a dress. If I have to ask I need to lose weight IMO.

How do you feel about the notebook? Who cares. If I want to watch it, I'll watch it by myself.

The marriage questions aren't loaded, just give a real answer. I always ask if a man wants to be married. If he says no, . I want a family so I don't waste my time, with men who don't want the same. Simple as that. Maybe these are loaded questions for HS relationships and immature people. No need beating around the bush.

 

[Recca Gatsby]

I hate questions like this. Females be baiting you and it's almost like if you don't boost they ego you gonna be getting none that night

 

[You_Ugly_on_Skype]

Double negative?

Anyhoo…they're just not. They're just stupid. I'm not going to ask if I look fat in a dress. If I have to ask I need to lose weight IMO.

How do you feel about the notebook? Who cares. If I want to watch it, I'll watch it by myself.

The marriage questions aren't loaded, just give a real answer. I always ask if a man wants to be married. If he says no, . I want a family so I don't waste my time, with men who don't want the same. Simple as that. Maybe these are loaded questions for HS relationships and immature people. No need beating around the bush.

Sorry that my poor grammar makes you cringe . Or perhaps you are trying to belittle my intelligence by pointing out grammatical errors that have no bearing on an internet forum where the protocol for communication is relaxed and informal. If it is the latter, it exudes insecurity. But thats neither nor there.

Granted some questions can be considered legitimate if, the intent is to get an honest answer. The questions become loaded when they have a hidden agenda, usually negative, one that casts the person asked in a bad light if answered, according to the person asking, "incorrectly".

When you couple those questions together with insincere motives they become loaded. True it could be a sign of immaturity, also it could be fear. I say fear because of the politically correct society we live in. Persons beat around the bush because they fear the repercussion of speaking their mind.

Sometimes they don't say how they really feel because they would be judged by the questions they asked. Like WTF made you ask me that... Are you some sort of weirdo, WTF are you thinking, you tard?

JS

 

[You_Ugly_on_Skype]

''Did you miss me?'' (I don't usually miss people unless they've been away, like, over a week)

''Are you going out dressed like that?'' (What, are you my personal stylist now, tryna dress me up like a nun on some 1800s shyt)

''So you're going out with friends, huh? Male friends?'' (Big group outings usually include at least one male in there, doesn't mean they're coming on to me)

''So what does your family think of me?'' (My family hate you. You're horny for their precious baby girl, of course they hate you).

I despise that "Did you Miss Me" question. Any feelings of missing you leave me when you ask me questions like that.

Already know her mother does not like me. I picked up on it from the jump, she would get missing, Lock herself in her room when I would come by the house. Me and her pops are good money though. The point is most people can tell when the family of their significant other doesn't like you. So indeed it is a loaded question.

And going out with friends question is definitely loaded. It just show that there is no trust.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

my wife asked me last week "which one of my friends do you find most attractive?"

i was like "why are you asking me that?"

she said that she was just curious

i just told them that all of them are ugly and thats why she gets the most attention when they are out.

deflect the question and add a slick compliment.

You should have trolled the shyt out of her and said all of em are bad ass fukk. Especially the one you know she like the least

 

[You_Ugly_on_Skype]

You should have trolled the shyt out of her and said all of em are bad ass fukk. Especially the one you know she like the least

That would've been . But then it would take away some of that self esteem she has. Then she might become clingy

 

[↓R↑LYB]

That would've been . But then it would take away some of that self esteem she has. Then she might become clingy

Post a picture of your wife and I can tell you how to handle that situation...

 

[Recca Gatsby]

LOL I just realized this nikkas's name "You Ugly on Skype" haha how do you even come up with that

 

[You_Ugly_on_Skype]

Post a picture of your wife and I can tell you how to handle that situation...

With Proper Maintenance of your vehicle, it will last well beyond the expected point of failure.

 

[EA]

A loaded question is the reason I'm single now

 

[Guess Who]

I call them "no right answer" questions. I call them out when they happen, and then I refuse to answer them.

 

[Pool_Shark]

"Why do you say you love me? I know you're lying."

 

[Crakface]

I established myself as a no nonsense man from day one so my wife doesnt ask me stupid questions like that. She might ask me if a girl is pretty or what i think of some shyt. If i say shes pretty or if i smile she'll try to act salty, but deep down i like she likes having some sort of competition, even if its in her mind.

 

[j7thirty]

Twilight?

It at least got wolves and vampires I held out all the way til the last 2.

I was approached last weekend with that endless love movie bullshyt I turned that down real fast