LOL at Going On Dates

The Maverick

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I reserve dates for women that I already have interest in getting to know. If I know her through a mutual friend, if we are in the same clubs, etc. The part where these dudes mess up is coming out of pocket for random women they saw at the club or waddling down the street. And most women damn sure ain't turning down a free meal, even if they don't like you.

Keep it simple. Get to know a girl over coffee, have something else lined up in case that goes well. If it doesn't go well, or she's too fancy for coffee, then we go separate ways.

A man's most valuable asset is time. Don't forget that. :ufdup:
 

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The kind of women do you guys deal with could explain hoe easily you get laid off Netflix ,liquor and chipotle. I could never.
I drive a Benz, live in fly highrise condo in midtown Atlanta,have a great job and no children. I havent been on a date in 3 years yet I have 2-3 new women coming to my condo every week to smash. This is 2015 not 1950. There is no need to take women on dates when there are plenty of women that are down to come straight to your crib. These chicks are throwing p*ssy around like hotcakes.
 

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If you got your own crib, dating is sooo easier. You can cook or order a pizza for the brehrette, mix her a cocktail or two, throw a movie on ya big screen tv n some snacks. Netflix is a God send.

Dates are for brehs without their own spot, you dont have a spot to take her to.

Any sensible woman is not going to guys house for a date
 

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exactly so why should we take women out on dates when there are plenty of women that are down to come straight to our place to watch netflix and smash?



Hey do what works for you. If all you want is sex than more power to your efforts.

Fortunately for women like me, there are still men out there that don't feel that way.
 

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A lot of women are cool with you mixing up your dates. Dating should be fun and if a girl is for real she'll be happy to split the bill or take turns. You shouldn't be watching your pockets so heavily and if you are you kinda shouldn't be dating, at least not in your 20's. Dating is really about socializing and building your confidence and mouthpiece game in various environments. Dating also allows you kind of narrow down the traits you are looking for in a potential partner.
 

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I'm not a homebody. I go out even if I'm by myself. If I want to actually get to know a woman, we'll go out. If I don't care to get to know her I will just have her meet me while I run errands and shyt.

Exactly. It's all determined by the quality of said lady. If she's someone I genuinely want to get to know and see if we have the potential to date, then I have no problem taking her out for dinner.

If it's some chick that most likely will end up merely an acquaintance... then its coffee, a drink, a walk, etc.
 
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