lol at "nice guys"

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I'm a good guy, and I can tell some women may look at me as a nice guy because I give everyone respect. I always :mjlol: when they realize they ain't that special because I treat the next person the same way. It's funny when they expect you to be on some simp shyt and get the complete opposite.
Then they hit you with the,
"Hey what was your name again? What do you do? :o:" :childplease:
 
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i advise my boy who is just like this.

it was the same for me. i bytched about not getting girls. the girls my group hung out with only wanted to fukk all the bad boys in the group. meanwhile here i was, a sweet heart who cared and listened(:mjlol:).

then i realized i was going after the wrong kind of girl. those girls were all birds. the good girls who appreciated nice guys didnt hang out with groups of boys. they did things like volunteer work and were in school or stayed in to help out at home. only thots spent their friday and saturday nights getting high n drunk with wannabe thugs.

now im a nice guy happily married to a nice girl and all those thots i used to hang out with are single mothers and most of the dudes have baby momma drama :russ: :umad: :ufdup:

:salute:

I used to be bitter as heck too over stuff like this. Then I saw all the gems Reinscarf, Kevm3, Crossbones, and many others were posting in the gems on dealing with women thread... :wow:

Changed my whole perspective :lupe:

These simps in the OP :mjlol:
 

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:salute:

I used to be bitter as heck too over stuff like this. Then I saw all the gems Reinscarf, Kevm3, Crossbones, and many others were posting in the gems on dealing with women thread... :wow:

Changed my whole perspective :lupe:

These simps in the OP :mjlol:

yo real talk, even tho im married im a big fan of @Emperor_ReinScarf because he has a very realistic outlook. it may sound counter-intuitive, but if u ever wanna marry the right woman, u have to have that same mentality. i turned down about 3 women on some hard on hoes shyt before i met the right one. u just know what to look for instead of going into all of them with high expectations putting every fat butt and cute face on a pedestal because she has a job. theres alot more to it than that. things that can only really be seen thru the eyes of someone who is somewhat cynical.
 

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Dudes get caught up with the beautiful face and fat ass but she's offering nothing more of substance.

Thankfully everything I've been through in life has changed my.outlook why I don't get swindled like I used to in the past to beauty alone. There are single beautiful women of every age out there but many are straight poison.





yo real talk, even tho im married im a big fan of @Emperor_ReinScarf because he has a very realistic outlook. it may sound counter-intuitive, but if u ever wanna marry the right woman, u have to have that same mentality. i turned down about 3 women on some hard on hoes shyt before i met the right one. u just know what to look for instead of going into all of them with high expectations putting every fat butt and cute face on a pedestal because she has a job. theres alot more to it than that. things that can only really be seen thru the eyes of someone who is somewhat cynical.
 

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*backs out slowly*

can't you come with me :mjcry:


Believe me I don't plan to be here long. I just saw the brehs were trying to corner you like a pack of wolves. They can go after one of those LSA thots for that, not my Rae.

Unrelated, I had a dream I dropped you off in the hood while Nate Dogg's "never leave me alone" played in the background.

"I guess this is home. My girlfriend's tripping, she got a block on the phone. :mjcry:
 

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They just lames.


True, a lot of nice guys come off as pathetic, if you thriving for acceptance from someone you lost already.

I never understood the concept of nice guys until the internet, when guys like Emperor_ReinScarf used to complain about women only wanting bad boys.

I go for delf, so that nice guy route had me mind blown. I'm not inconveniencing myself.
 

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big difference between a nice guy and a good guy

nice guy = does a,b and c hoping to get puzzy or for her to like him
good guy = does a,b and c because its the right thing to do and doesn't expect nothing not even a thanks
These socially awkward lames aren't nice guys, they're simps that project their low self esteem onto the women they interact with :snoop:

I had a girl say to me "How comes you don't talk to me often? You're a really nice guy" and I had to correct her ASAP. I'm good & courteous, I don't behave on the pretence of gaining favours.

I don't know how people are correlating being nice with expecting something in return.
 
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