Self-hatred is not limited to a particular sex. Examples of it can be found all over Elon Musk's and China's apps in many flavors and of either sex. They are not all a representation of their sex either, they are only a subset of their sex. Expose the hypocrisy on both ends, but do not seek to generalize any of these acts like they are the natural mental state of most Black males or Black Females.
So statements should not be made that attempt to paint with a broad brush the proclivities of Black men and women. At least try to focus the ire on those that deserve it, and on the other hand at least accept that the ire is correctly targeted when actual proof is shown. Trying to Rugsweep is not a solution either.