I see nothing wrong with this...
Stop being his/her wife/husband before you get/give them a ring...Don't know why it's a big deal?
You can just up and leave someone without a commitment. That's what marriage is for we in this together....
When you single, you can leave someone with no warning or notice, in a way it isn't fair, especially with kids involved. Not saying marriage is perfect, or the right way but if you're trying to get married, giving someone all of the benefits of marriage without getting or giving that ring is a very risky proposition. Marriage isn't for everybody...being single isn't either.
