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I agree with her. There are women who are willing to break their neck over a man they just started dating. The same goes for men. You should not be spending $300 on a first, second, third, or fourth date. I would say save those expensive dinners for the woman that carries your last name.
Yu don't spend $300 on some of these women there won't be a 2nd date.


I look it like this women have very high standards when it comes to being in a relationship and now they're saying they don't have to treat you good as well :beli:
 

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But in our culture, how do you court a woman if you're not doing dates or pampering them? :lupe:

Honestly the first date shouldn't even be more than $30. You don't know her, and for all you know she could be some psychotic schizophrenic. I personally feel like you should not start pampering a man/woman until you enter a relationship with them. Meaning do not pay for her to get her nails done, do not pay her bills, do not pay for her to get her hair done, do not buy her clothes, and etc. You understand my point. The whole point of courting is to see whether or not one is worthy of your affection, love, and time. Personally I wouldn't even kiss a guy if we are dating. The whole point of dating on both ends is proving yourself. You guys can go on multiple dates without spending over $50.
 

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same quotes that have been around for years and it's not going to change shyt..

so has anybody tried those new baconator fries from wendy's :noah: shyt is good as fukk

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Yu don't spend $300 on some of these women there won't be a 2nd date.


I look it like this women have very high standards when it comes to being in a relationship and now they're saying they don't have to treat you good as well :beli:

Honestly if she won't go on a second date with you for not dropping $300 then you dodged a bullet. You would not want them anyways. That $300 can pay your groceries and light bill. Yes I agree, there are women who demand a lot but have nothing or little to bring to the table.
 

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Honestly the first date shouldn't even be more than $30. You don't know her, and for all you know she could be some psychotic schizophrenic. I personally feel like you should not start pampering a man/woman until you enter a relationship with them. Meaning do not pay for her to get her nails done, do not pay her bills, do not pay for her to get her hair done, do not buy her clothes, and etc. You understand my point. The whole point of courting is to see whether or not one is worthy of your affection, love, and time. Personally I wouldn't even kiss a guy if we are dating. The whole point of dating on both ends is proving yourself. You guys can go on multiple dates without spending over $50.

I agree but there's a certain amount of time after initial dating and actually tying the knot, sometimes that's just months of waiting... other times it's years. Who's gonna hold back for that long? Plus don't women already know way before the man that they're in it for the long term?
 

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I agree but there's a certain amount of time after initial dating and actually tying the knot, sometimes that's just months of waiting... other times it's years. Who's gonna hold back for that long? Plus don't women already know way before the man that they're in it for the long term?

Please explain what you mean by in it for the long term. I'd like to answer but that last part kind of confused me.
 

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Please explain what you mean by in it for the long term. I'd like to answer but that last part kind of confused me.
Well from my experience, my wife knew she would marry me before I even knew I wanted to start dating her seriously, Don't women just know their feelings in that regard (to marrying someone) much earlier than the man?
 
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@Juicy im the type to keep tryin until i get the box
i like a chase and idont mind waitin tho
but i gotta get dat:noah:
 

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Well from my experience, my wife knew she would marry me before I even knew I wanted to start dating her seriously, Don't women just know their feelings in that regard (to marrying someone) much earlier than the man?
A lot of women want to marry men....it doesn't mean those men share the same feelings.
 

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should "i love you" be exclusive to marriage then? i think that word is is abused. should loyalty be reserved for marriage? where do you draw the line? it sounds like something that can be manipulated when convenient.
 

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Well from my experience, my wife knew she would marry me before I even knew I wanted to start dating her seriously, Don't women just know their feelings in that regard (to marrying someone) much earlier than the man?

I think early on women know when they guy is worthless and when a guy is worth their time. Your wife probably saw that you are a good man and knew that she wanted to be with you. She probably put herself in positions to draw your attention and get you interested in her. Also, she maybe saw that you take relationships seriously and knew that if she presented herself properly you would marry her.
 

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Well from my experience, my wife knew she would marry me before I even knew I wanted to start dating her seriously, Don't women just know their feelings in that regard (to marrying someone) much earlier than the man?
Yea women have intuition. We're dumb when it comes to shyt like that you have to show us.

I will say this guys and females can look at a broad for about 15 seconds and know if their at least marriage potential. Yu ever look at someone and tell itself "I'll smash but that's as far as that will go"
 

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should "i love you" be exclusive to marriage then? i think that word is is abused. should loyalty be reserved for marriage? where do you draw the line? it sounds like something that can be manipulated when convenient.
I think so, shyt's thrown around so freely
 
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