Look what this girl posted on IG

[Elle]

Does a title matter that much? I mean 10-15 years you say he gets all these benefits soooo is he doing nothing to add to the relationship? Also odd you say 10-15 like the women is the only one investing time, if she stayed that long she must know she has a good catch and shouldn't hold the small things against a good man.

Would you want to be known as the receptionist of a company if you were the CEO? Yes, a title matters. If I'm good enough to sleep with every night, cook your food, wash your clothes, raise your kids; I'm good enough to have your last name. He may be adding to the relationship but for me, I need to be offical. Shacking up for 10 years and being known as "wifey" or "suchin such's old lady" does not work for me.

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Thoughts?

Makes sense. Wait till marriage for sex

 

[Ashley Banks]

Anything worth having is worth legitimizing...many women who end up falling for this end up bitter. A man that loves will marry me....point....period.

lmfao dudes stay trying to pull that "does title matter" bs. Yes it matters.

 

[88m3]

sounds like something whores tell themselves to make themselves feel better

 

[Donald J Trump]

What one female won't do, another will.

Ladies listening to that bird is the easiest way to get your man took

 

[Grifter]

You could marry a dude and he could still treat you like a ho. Stop putting so much power into a ring.

 

[iBrowse]

Thoughts?

I actually kinda agree with this

 

[PicoRoscoe]

This why she aint got no man now.....

 

[iBrowse]

Just for clarification, what benefits does a husband get that a boyfriend should not?

This is what I was expecting to see...I agree with her title but want her to expound upon that position by differentiating between the two to see if I actually agree with what she's saying.

 

[TheNig]

She's right, and the same logic could/should be used in reverse when it comes to girlfriend vs wife treatment.

But of course, the Coli is nothing but woman-haters and it will not belong before the thread is bombarded with attacks at sis, and a bunch of negative ass replies.

I don't see anything wrong with what she said.

 

[Prodyson]

Yu don't spend $300 on some of these women there won't be a 2nd date.


I look it like this women have very high standards when it comes to being in a relationship and now they're saying they don't have to treat you good as well

If you're not okay with spending $300 on a first date, why would you want to date someone who sees it as a requirement? Seems like the two of you have different ideas on how to spend your money... which is never a good thing in a relationship.

Until me and my current wife had been dating for over a year, I don't think I ever spent more than $150 at one time between the two of us until her birthday when I bought her an iPad. And that was her Christmas and Birthday present since they are two days apart. And she didn't even think i should have spent THAT much.

 

[Birdie]

Wow that's.... stupid. You wouldn't have a problem giving your boyfriend "husband benefits"(whatever that is) if you simply chose better men. This is similar to how girls claim they only give men who talk to them in the street attitude if they don't find them attractive; they become so accustomed to being confrontational that even when they interact with guys they like they still come off as combative. It becomes habitual, and that same thing that happens when women refuse to play their role in a relationship because she feels it might be wasted based on her poor choice of guys she chose to date.

 

[SithLawd]

Women already treat their boyfriends like husbands??

Feminism has turned these hoes into large retarded children. They barely know how to take care of themselves let alone another man.

 

[Hijo de luna]

Only a young dude would have a problem with what she said

 

[smARTmouf]

In finding love, why do people think the answer is showing LESS love?