Looks, intelligence, personality

[Complexion]

Pick two, have to leave one on the table as that is how this hand deals. What do you choose and why?

Be real.

Spoiler

For added spice you can reflect on your choices as a jit vs the you reading now with more experience as well as the consequences of said decisions with the whole "If I knew now, then" rhetoric, if you wish.

 

[Mike809]

Looks + personality.

 

[old pig]

looks and personality.

 

[F*ckthemkids]

See two above answers

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Intelligence and personality. You mind not find them attractive at first but a smart, cool ass woman gonna grow on you over time. No matter how good she looks a woman who is dumb or has a bad personality gonna wear on you over time

 

[Code]

Should've made the 3rd one fame

 

[It is a mystery]

Is this for yourself or for someone you are dating?

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

Intelligence and personality. You mind not find them attractive at first but a smart, cool ass woman gonna grow on you over time. No matter how good she looks a woman who is dumb or has a bad personality gonna wear on you over time

All facts

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

 

[Mike809]

Intelligence and personality. You mind not find them attractive at first but a smart, cool ass woman gonna grow on you over time. No matter how good she looks a woman who is dumb or has a bad personality gonna wear on you over time

I mean , if I don't find her attractive ...I wouldn't even bother to know her enough to know about her Intelligence/Personality.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

I mean , if I don't find her attractive ...I wouldn't even bother to know her enough to know about her Intelligence/Personality.

I feel you. But I think we all known women throughout the years who we went to school with or worked with who we didn’t initially find attractive but they grew on us

 

[UnQuantized]

Intelligence + Personality. Looks matter but there is a difference between acknowledging a good looking woman and FEELING sexually attracted to one. The one who triggers real desire in you, is not always the stunner you notice immediately. Also, some women are late bloomers. A plain homely looking women in decent shape in her early 20's might grow into her body later and learn to style herself better to enhance her features.

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

I mean , if I don't find her attractive ...I wouldn't even bother to know her enough to know about her Intelligence/Personality.

Attractiveness to me doesn't have more value than the other two. I've seen alot of sexy women who were shallow and not the best people to be around

There's also been average looking women I've grown attracted to who had great personalities and a good head on their shoulders

7 - Attractiveness
8 - intelligence
10 - personality

Or

10 - Attractiveness
7 - intelligence
8 - personality

I'm picking the former. And as much as I love intelligence, I would rather have a genuine high character woman than a genius

If I'm starting a family, my personal attraction comes from their ability to raise kids and keep my interest after I bust

You gotta live with this woman for the rest of your life (if you're married). Serious long-term relationships that are built on the looks foundation generally don't last in comparison

 

[Uncouth Savage]

Pick two, have to leave one on the table as that is how this hand deals. What do you choose and why?

Be real.

Spoiler

For added spice you can reflect on your choices as a jit vs the you reading now with more experience as well as the consequences of said decisions with the whole "If I knew now, then" rhetoric, if you wish.

The problem with that is, every person has a different definition of what "looks, intelligence, personality" means.

Start from the dictionary definitions.

For example mostly every woman looks good on her birthday and at a wedding.
Intelligence meaning what.
Some crackheads have great personalities.
Maybe I am looking too much into it.

 

[Iverson_64]

I feel you. But I think we all known women throughout the years who we went to school with or worked with who we didn’t initially find attractive but they grew on us

This especially happens when you actually deal with unintelligent women beyond sex.

I remember, years ago, I started dating a girl who dropped out of college and was terrible with money. She had no car and was broke but always had enough money to get her hair and nails done and get designer clothes.

I simped at first because she was attractive but, eventually, it took a toll on me because she was always asking me for random car rides without giving me gas money and had a soapbox about how she's struggling to make ends meet despite the fact that she had a job.

Intelligent and wise women who aren't cocky about it do grow on you a lot even if they're not top tier looking.