You missed the point. I never said rape and exposure were the same. I said that exposure can be just as psychologically damaging. There is nothing wrong with what I said. I did not speak in hypotheticals, I gave analogies. People are overlooking this because it's women and they were adults and they consented, but change it to children and people would be ready to lynch Louis Ck. The point is that the damage is psychological, not physical. Any time someone acts that way and is forced to do something against their will, it's a form of violence, and truly affects that person's sense of value and dignity.
I can see what you're trying to say, because it boils down to how the person takes the offense. The women are being disrespected, the women are being violated, but it's just not on the same level. But there are people who will conflate their grievance to match another person's grievance, because that's what we do.
Example, you meet someone who has been shot and they talk to you about it, but you bring up the time someone pointed a gun at you and you understand how they feel because you felt the same way. The person who was shot is going to look at you kinda funny because they had a gun pointed at them and a bullet from that gun ripped a hole in their body, causing physical pain, along with psychological trauma of being shot.
At a certain point, the two people may have had the same level of fear, but the psychological trauma is more compounded with the person who was shot.
