'Love Island' revives conversation about racial bias in dating

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What they really means is "why won't white men make me their first choice?"

This is largely what it boils down to. It's one group demanding sexual access to another group that has limited interest in them. And it doesn't just relate to black women wanting white men. You see the same weirdo comments from gay or lesbian twitter people who are mad that certain celebrities - including some straight ones! - don't want them. And this becomes the dominant focus of their politics and social views.
 

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Theres a femcel problem in the community that nikkas want look the other way about and these types of articles are gonna make bw look bad by asking for dei in dating.:francis:
who cares let them look bad

trust everyone notices
 
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If you go on hinge, you will notice that a lot of black women dont even put "black" as their race.

I will have black women as a deal breaker and itll say there are no women left in my area. As soon as I uncheck dealbreaker, new black women start popping up sporadically. It's actually pitiful. Why the hell would you want to entertain men who are deliberately filtering you out on a dating app?

I wonder if other races and men do shyt like this

Other than white men, no race is really that desired by every other race on a grand scale...not sure why black women think they should have that kinda privilege. It's delusional at best.
Facts.

White men are only desired for perceived status versus "ease." What I mean is that it's MUCH easier for an average Asian woman to deal with a white boy making $150k/year compared to his Asian male equivalent. Asian breh that's decent looking and has his shyt together......he's going to have a demanding family and they're going to expect the best. Asian mother in law ain't gon want her son marrying some chick that can't even scramble an egg. White family will happily accept Soo Yung because she makes bank and has a flat stomach. Low standards. She wants a tall white man that she can control. Not a shorter Asian man that will check her if she gets out of pocket.

White women get picked the most because of perception. They have a reputation for being the most "sexually open", so dudes of every race flock to em. If you live in the West.....white women are the overwhelming majority (mostly) and are the most direct. They're also less picky. A dude can punch above his weight with white women if he approaches the right one. A Black female "7" will never entertain an Indian, Mexican, Chinese or Black male "5." White girls you actually have a shot in certain circumstances.

Dating shows are mostly going to feature white men and those white men are going to prefer their own race. White boys don't like having to think and change. They want what's easy and familiar. The producers ALSO want to promote the idea that whites are most desirable. They screen carefully so that the whites mostly prefer whites and then they pick Black/Asian/Hispanic contestants that are open minded. They're not picking NOI/Five Percenter type nikkas that hate white women. They want RGIII nikkas.
 

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My girl would regularly have this season on and I did not see what is being described in the first post. Not sure why they're articulating an issue with UK love island but showib women from us.

The show's producers should see the show's popularity as an opportunity to dispel and not reinforce notions of beauty, especially ones harmful to Black women and darker-complexioned people, she added.
It's not the shows responsibility to do that. People need to stop expecting corporations whose priority is to make money to do this sort of shyt. If you're not happy with what they're showing then stop watching or create your own shyt. Why hasn't there been a black dating show on BET or whatever?
 

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If you go on hinge, you will notice that a lot of black women dont even put "black" as their race.

I will have black women as a deal breaker and itll say there are no women left in my area. As soon as I uncheck dealbreaker, new black women start popping up sporadically. It's actually pitiful. Why the hell would you want to entertain men who are deliberately filtering you out on a dating app?

I wonder if other races and men do shyt like this

Other than white men, no race is really that desired by every other race on a grand scale...not sure why black women think they should have that kinda privilege. It's delusional at best.

Saying this type of stuff is weirdo talk.
 

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White supremacy rhetoric.

You might not like to hear it but it’s true that if we take all races of women in the world and pick men of all races in the top 10 percent of looks a good majority are picking the man with Eurocentric features.
 

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Facts.

White men are only desired for perceived status versus "ease." What I mean is that it's MUCH easier for an average Asian woman to deal with a white boy making $150k/year compared to his Asian male equivalent. Asian breh that's decent looking and has his shyt together......he's going to have a demanding family and they're going to expect the best. Asian mother in law ain't gon want her son marrying some chick that can't even scramble an egg. White family will happily accept Soo Yung because she makes bank and has a flat stomach. Low standards. She wants a tall white man that she can control. Not a shorter Asian man that will check her if she gets out of pocket.

White women get picked the most because of perception. They have a reputation for being the most "sexually open", so dudes of every race flock to em. If you live in the West.....white women are the overwhelming majority (mostly) and are the most direct. They're also less picky. A dude can punch above his weight with white women if he approaches the right one. A Black female "7" will never entertain an Indian, Mexican, Chinese or Black male "5." White girls you actually have a shot in certain circumstances.

Dating shows are mostly going to feature white men and those white men are going to prefer their own race. White boys don't like having to think and change. They want what's easy and familiar. The producers ALSO want to promote the idea that whites are most desirable. They screen carefully so that the whites mostly prefer whites and then they pick Black/Asian/Hispanic contestants that are open minded. They're not picking NOI/Five Percenter type nikkas that hate white women. They want RGIII nikkas.
Ironically i think that porn helps to boost the popularity of white women among many men. Since most of the women in porn are white, most men worldwide believe that they’re easy to get and have sex with. And the most liberated/free countries when it comes to women are in the feminist west. Women in the USA, Canada, UK, France etc make their own money, they have rights, they have reproductive rights, they have easy access to abortion clinics, they have easy access to birth control pills, they can vote, they can date anyone without restrictions, etc. So it means that women can slut it up with little consequences out there.

That’s why white women get chosen by many men. Men blinded by lust. They think with their dikks and eyes because of porn. It’s lust, not love. Yeah the beauty standard in the mainstream media right now (movie, tv, ads, music industry etc) is still Eurocentric but I think when it comes to men in particular, porn plays a bigger role of influence. Remember men are much more visual and sexual than Women. I think the racial and physical tastes of women in men are more influenced by what’s popular in society, music, sports, television, cultural trends and cinema.

As for dating shows… It actually makes perfect sense. I mean producers of a reality tv dating show culturally and specifically geared for Black Audiences would never pick contestants who are legit :mjpls: like Kkk/Altright/maga/neonazi cacs. They are a bad fit lol. Of course mainstream reality dating shows will prefer people who are very compatible with white folks or at least not biased against them. They don’t want to make white folks look bad and undesirable.
 
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You might not like to hear it but it’s true that if we take all races of women in the world and pick men of all races in the top 10 percent of looks a good majority are picking the man with Eurocentric features.

Okay. When has this happened? Or are you just making up scenarios in your head?
 

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Facts.

White men are only desired for perceived status versus "ease." What I mean is that it's MUCH easier for an average Asian woman to deal with a white boy making $150k/year compared to his Asian male equivalent. Asian breh that's decent looking and has his shyt together......he's going to have a demanding family and they're going to expect the best. Asian mother in law ain't gon want her son marrying some chick that can't even scramble an egg. White family will happily accept Soo Yung because she makes bank and has a flat stomach. Low standards. She wants a tall white man that she can control. Not a shorter Asian man that will check her if she gets out of pocket.

White women get picked the most because of perception. They have a reputation for being the most "sexually open", so dudes of every race flock to em. If you live in the West.....white women are the overwhelming majority (mostly) and are the most direct. They're also less picky. A dude can punch above his weight with white women if he approaches the right one. A Black female "7" will never entertain an Indian, Mexican, Chinese or Black male "5." White girls you actually have a shot in certain circumstances.

Dating shows are mostly going to feature white men and those white men are going to prefer their own race. White boys don't like having to think and change. They want what's easy and familiar. The producers ALSO want to promote the idea that whites are most desirable. They screen carefully so that the whites mostly prefer whites and then they pick Black/Asian/Hispanic contestants that are open minded. They're not picking NOI/Five Percenter type nikkas that hate white women. They want RGIII nikkas.
i remember one day early in the summer i met and got 4 women's numbers
  • one was nigerian - i wanted her the most. I woulda simped if she turned out to be a nice girl. She had a crazy body and was new to my city + a medical doctor back home
  • one was probably eritrean or sumn, maybe mixed. She had a nice body and an amazing smile. Natural hair, very pretty face etc.
  • one was egyptian but nubian so black/arab i guess. When we met i walked with her and we chatted quite a bit. She had a petite body and I was very attracted to her too. Had curly hair which is my weakness and she seemed very down to earth during our chat.
  • last chick was a white girl with a nice body and a cute face.
out of all those chicks...who do yall think gave me the least troubles? lmao
  • the nigerian responded to my first message then ghosted. I messaged her again after the weekend, 3 days later and no luck
  • the eritrean would text here and there but sometimes take like a day to respond. one day i tried calling and she ghosted too...
  • the egyptian, her and i went out on a dinner date. it was a great date but the second date we had to change plans and she suggested sumn. I asked if she minded grabbing the tickets (i aint know where to get em since it was her suggestion) and she then said she cant make it and ghosted. mind you i paid for the first date and she faked being willing to go dutch. everything was going great until i asked about her grabbing the tickets which were prolly 20 bucks a pop.
  • white chick I went out for drinks with. second link she invited me to her place and made us some 10/10 matcha whiskey sour cocktails. I did my thing and smashed that night. Her head game was A1
Now the white girl was the least attractive to me personally but she's a woman I know white dudes would go bonkers over. She had a nice plump ass, plush titties and a cute face. Her t*ts were so round you might think theyre fake but its just youth. Pale skin with blonde hair, blue eyes and thin lips. If you asked most other races theyd prolly rate the eritrean girl first, then the white chick, then the nubian then the nigerian. Regardless, it's like the blacker the woman was, the harder it was to get any play. shyt is comical.
 

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