Love isn't healthy...

[Black]

 

[Sad Bunny]

You don't got any batmobiles that will put in work for you?

whats that?

Nicca that sound like a hook to a Plies song....

 

[yo moms]

whats that?

Some 6'5 goons that look like batmobiles.

 

[Sad Bunny]

Some 6'5 goons that look like batmobiles.

LOL

 

[Turbulent]

love is not a feeling. it's an action. you can choose to love despite or because of what you feel.

IMO, what you guys are describing is neediness, infatuation, obsession and possession. these things are unhealthy but don't confuse them with love.

 

[Danny Up]

Love is perfectly healthy. Peoples need to be loved and hold on to something is "unhealthy".

 

[MikelArteta]

love is evol
its a sickening sickening disease

 

[MikelArteta]

You just said it. Communication is all you have.

My man said the most amazing thing to me when we first got together. "You make me want to be a better man" that hit me hard, and since then, I know we've both been trying to be better for ourselves and each other.

Also- learn to pick your battles.

I've been through a lot of love, and these three are things you can't do without.

but what happens when the passion dies

 

[ryshy]

im scared of love tbh

those emotions r so powerful, shyts ridiculous, especially when its a longing not a mutual thing, then again it makes u feel alive

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

but what happens when the passion dies

Annnnd it continues!!

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

You make me a better woman every day @His_Excellence_Reincar by reminding me that no one is perfect

 

[Danny Up]

but what happens when the passion dies

if you're happy or content. u won't even care.

 

[MikelArteta]

You make me a better woman every day @His_Excellence_Reincar by reminding me that no one is perfect

i try


but how do you know your in love not just infatuated

do you still think about all the other dudes you said you loved in the past?

or is real love just a switch for women

 

[Shameonyou]

love is not an emotion its a principle....people dont live by principle they live by emotion, which is why love is not healthy because people arent truly living by principle

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

i try


but how do you know your in love not just infatuated

do you still think about all the other dudes you said you loved in the past?

or is real love just a switch for women

I know because I've grown and learned from every choice, and every mistake I've made in the past. I think it sums it up well when I mentioned earlier that my boo makes me want to be better for both of us. Also, I never saw a family with my previous. I thought at the time, I just didn't want kids in general. I was a firm believer in that. Looking back, I just didn't want kids with him. I didn't view him as being the best father, even though his father was and he had a great example in him. My current man is going to be an amazing, loving father if we're blessed with children. My previous, I took marriage as the next logical step because we were together for so long. That was my mistake.

Hindsight is 20/20.

Do I think about them? No. They come in mind with certain memories, but it's part of my past.

It's not just a switch. I spent so much time having feelings over my previous. It was an emotional rollercoaster, but all of that is over. We've both moved on, and I feel like I'm finally with the person that fulfills me on EVERY level, which I've never had before. I also know it's reciprocated, he shows me every day. I'm truly blessed.

TL;DR you live, you love, you learn.