Hate to deflate your lil balloon, but nah you're not special.
If you had said this at age 22, I'd give you props, but most men over 30 are over the seduction of new p*ssy and fast ass.
Sure, we like pretty girls all the same, but your 20's taught you the value of a good woman.
If you've got a good woman, then there's no reason to look elsewhere.
Now... I know what it's like those times wifey be actin' up. You look over at her and start thinking about your friend... about how you can do better and shyt. That's normal. Just don't fukk up a good thing for 5 minutes of thrusting. You will regret it.