"lower your standards" is not good advice to the the non-eating brehs

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I commented on your dumb ass comment, and like a bytch you responded in true bytch fashion "don't respond to me cause it doesn't apply to me" :laff::laff:.......what ever nikka. Like I said this convo is just stupid. Holla at me when you get some age on you
You got emotional over my opinion like a typical lame and just wanted attention. If you're going to respond to somebody respond with actual counter points that apply, not just because you're mad about their opinion. Holla at me when you stop being a trash poster.
 

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You got emotional over my opinion like a typical lame and just wanted attention. If you're going to respond to somebody respond with actual counter points that apply, not just because you're mad about their opinion. Holla at me when you stop being a trash poster.

Jesus just shut the fukk about it already. You're whiny ass bytching is irritating at this point. At first I was offended. Now I realize you're just a pesky ass fakkit.

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Most people in general know or have an idea from observing others as to what they should get looks-wise. Believing struggling brehs are only approaching dimes is something someone who is either naive or daft would think. Actual dimes are even noted to cause nervousness in average, eating brehs. People think because they see thirsty comments by guys on IG thot pages that this is reality but it isn't; people are bolder behind a screen and will shoot their shot at anything. In real life, this is not the case.

When it comes to "lowering your standards" it's generally meant for something beyond feasible. "lower your standards" is often codewords for pressuring guys to going for overweight women. I could see telling struggling brehs to chill on other harder-to-fill requirements (such as needing to do some niche hobby) but don't let people pressure you into playing yourself.

Here's better advice: If you aren't eating and you believe your standards are regular, it's probably something else; my guess would be tilt. Don't hold onto negative experiences or situations where you OR women did something stupid/wrong and assume it's going to happen again with future women you talk to. Your lens will shape your outcome. If you always clean slate, things will work themselves out.

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i like how you said it's the lens you look at life thru. while it's important to learn and gain experience from the past, we must not hold on to the pain when the time comes to move from it.
 

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I don't know, sometimes you have a bad streak and it feels good just to get wet. But, you have to be honest about what your problem is too. And any time I ever dipped down into the depths :mjlol: I made sure that female knew I was just visiting, I'm not living in these numbers :win:
 
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If you're virgin and had never fukk a woman and you past age 20, yes maybe you should lower your standards just to gain experience and confidence with women, this can be just temporary just for the time you're upgrading yourself. I say this because women who are 7 and above have a lot of experience with men and they can easily detect nikkas who never approached and never had sex in their life, it's hard to be confident with women when you never have a relation with them. So on a pratical point of view, lower your standards temporary can be good thing just for learning purpose, but this shouldn't be permanent. When i'm talking about lower your standards, i'm not talking about fat women, every men no matter what the circumstances should ban fat women from their selection, this shyt is just disgusting.
 

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If you're virgin and had never fukk a woman and you past age 20, yes maybe you should lower your standards just to gain experience and confidence with women, this can be just temporary just for the time you're upgrading yourself. I say this because women who are 7 and above have a lot of experience with men and they can easily detect nikkas who never approached and never had sex in their life, it's hard to be confident with women when you never have a relation with them. So on a pratical point of view, lower your standards temporary can be good thing just for learning purpose, but this shouldn't be permanent. When i'm talking about lower your standards, i'm not talking about fat women, every men no matter what the circumstances should ban fat women from their selection, this shyt is just disgusting.
I agree, if you aint getting no play at all, nothing wrong with lowering your standards. Its far better than fapping to porn
 
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Most people in general know or have an idea from observing others as to what they should get looks-wise. Believing struggling brehs are only approaching dimes is something someone who is either naive or daft would think. Actual dimes are even noted to cause nervousness in average, eating brehs. People think because they see thirsty comments by guys on IG thot pages that this is reality but it isn't; people are bolder behind a screen and will shoot their shot at anything. In real life, this is not the case.

When it comes to "lowering your standards" it's generally meant for something beyond feasible. "lower your standards" is often codewords for pressuring guys to going for overweight women. I could see telling struggling brehs to chill on other harder-to-fill requirements (such as needing to do some niche hobby) but don't let people pressure you into playing yourself.

Here's better advice: If you aren't eating and you believe your standards are regular, it's probably something else; my guess would be tilt. Don't hold onto negative experiences or situations where you OR women did something stupid/wrong and assume it's going to happen again with future women you talk to. Your lens will shape your outcome. If you always clean slate, things will work themselves out.

Agree/Disagree?
It's not good advice because even unattractive women are entitled to a relationship. Those women you pump and dump, and we're all aware of this.
 

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That's not the point genius. I'm talking about average dudes or dudes that get tagged as nerds, not some clown like Kent. Even for Kent I think he should only go after women he's attracted to and not settle for some chick that he sees as average or ugly.

Dudes that settle for ugly/fat women are desperate and too lazy to improve.
And where has that approach got Kent? Kent is just as dusty as dudes in his tax bracket fukking average chicks. The only difference is they are getting ass and he isn't.
 

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I'd rather keep trying to get women "out of my league" than settle for less. I say this as a man who gets better with age. A lot of time, women you think are high caliber have low self-esteem for whatever reason and want a decent dude to talk to her. :yeshrug:
 
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