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Fiancé caught cheating: escorts and more
Ladies... I'm in tears over what I just found out
Background:
Dated this guy for 2 years and we have been engaged currently for 2 years with a newborn together. Both in mid 30s. He travels often for his job which means we are away from each at times. We have had our good and bad days but overall things have been good and our wedding is being planned for next year.
How I found out he is cheating:
I'm at home this week with our sick child and I log onto the computer. When I go to Facebook, his account comes up. [Yes I know when u go looking, u might not like what you find] But I clicked his messages....He been talking to chicks left and right setting up times to meet with them for lunch or to go to the hotel or setting up freaky skype sessions with them while travels....and on top of that he PAYING them between $100-500 each meeting. Many are escorts and others are random girls and some were pregnant girls (shocked at this one). Now this led me to check the web history bc it's usually set to delete when browsers closed, but the last few weeks were still there. He been on craigslist, backpage, escort sites, nude africa, rude, pregnant fetish sites....and it went on and on.
Sending money grams and western union to the girls left and right. Calling all of them by the name "baby"...."hey baby I miss you" "baby I want to see you" "baby I miss how you ride this d**k". Now get this, he calls me " baby" too smh...And some of the messages were sent while he sitting in the room with me!!
Also some of them were friends of his female cousin so I guess she in on the bullshyt too. And I found out you don't have to show your FB relationship status to everyone, you can filter who sees it which works in his favor I guess.... But I doubt the thots care either way.
I can't believe he has like 10 girls in rotation while sleeping with me UNPROTECTED. And I'm not a bore in the bedroom....I'm adventurous and do all kind of new spontaneous stuff. The other crazy thing is the girls look like gutter bs trash....not even on my level looks wise (not that it matters, but just as reference) it just makes me mad that he has been lying and I gave my all to this relationship...every thing single thing. I've been supportive of him from day 1.
Well I just want some thoughts from women and men on this mess. I haven't told him I know yet. I also checked his call history on our joint account (never did that before) and googled the strange numbers and it confirmed again that he been calling a bunch of women....either escorts/prostitutes or random girls he messing with.
I didn't sign up for this type of shyt. We have already sent save the dates for the wedding, have a house and all that and it's just totally embarrassing. I want to walk but then I question could I forgive...I don't know.
My heart is broken.