Imma let Patrice tell um
Time stamped
“okay, ladies, how many times has there been a guy in your life, or guys, where there’s been men in your life who want to sleep with you, but you didn’t want to sleep with him? Zillions. You can’t count it. So what that means, there’s a philosophy there, meaning you are sexable. He wants to sleep with you. But just ’cause you are sexable don’t mean I’m sexable. Right? Same thing with love. Just ’cause I’m lovable… Doesn’t mean that you’re lovable too. You’re just likable to me.
You didn’t do for me what I did for you to feel that way. You understand what I’m saying?”
Guys do a lot of heavy lifting to build your attraction towards them, so if you like that dude, what are you doing to build his attraction towards you? That’s where some of y’all women mess up at. Some of y’all think just cause he chasing you, you don’t have to put in work to make him actually like you. So once a dude get whatever conversation out of you or that post nut clarity kicks in it’s..
Cause like Patrice said again
“You didn’t do for me what I did for you to feel that way”
If all you bringing is good looks and p*ssy, that shyt gonna old soon enough