Very interesting convo. I'm not sure about the argument that men can not understand fetishizing of women since they are not women. That does not make sense
I agree with the suspicion black women have about black men "protecting" lupita when they see the comfort among us blackmen
-when bashing black women,
-when seeking non-black women exclusively due to some stereotype we apply to all black women
-when black male entertainers settle with white/non-black/light women when they've reach success, but dealing with black women during their struggles
-when rappers choose to have non-lupita-isc models
1)With all that said, does those qualities I mentioned above represent the average black man?
2)Are these ladies really going to ignore how media conditioning impacts viewers differently depending on race, gender, religion, and sexuality? thus it hints at which race, gender, religion and sexuality have most control of it due to how each are depicted
3)The second lady shares her experience by saying her beauty was embraced/reinforced more by non-blacks, but then why isn't that reflected in the media if that's the norm? How could you use your sole personal experience as an argument against a shared experience like the promotion of natural white features
4)The first two ladies are going to focus on blackmen contributions to the tarnishing of the black women's image, while conveniently ignoring the contribution of those who own/run the media, fashion houses, beauty industry, and modeling agencies
nobody cared about lupita until white people fukked with her
everybody claiming her now
black people are funny
The average white person knew about lupita before the oscars? Or do you mean that the Entertainment industry, that is run by white folks, acknoledge her talents with the award. Thus now average white folks know about her, just like average black, indian, asian folks