Made a chick spend $100s and drive 2 hours for nothing....and it felt good

[Hawala Man]

Red flag #1 was some bullshyt because since Covid none of these chicks like Chinese/Korean food. Flag #2, Fam do you know how many hours it takes for these women to get their hair done? That shyt is hours dog.



Unless she was just absolutely annoying to be around, I would probably take the guaranteed cheeks and the free trip breh

I understand you were hurt about her ghosting you but Clearly you were interested in her originally, as she was you but the real play was to still go on that trip get the cheeks and make her pay for everything going forward

Once you finnaly hit a chick they usually give you or let you do whatever you want to them

He could've easily got lined up hence the whole renting hotel for couple days. She knew what she was doing and thought he was a sucker.

You would've took the bullshyt OP went through the way you justifying the hours it takes to get hair done. She was playing a game the whole time and testing the waters according details OP posted...

So in other words you would have been on another episode on The First 48 episode titled "Guaranteed cheeks"?

 

[maxamusa]

Sounds like she was lining you up.

FR

OP you did the right thing.

crazy how some posters in this thread don't think the whole plot was fishy. stay safe coli brethren.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Spoiler: Super detailed version

Recently met one of these "hustler" chicks that has like 5 different hustles. Looks like she has a BBL and does lipo injections, also does real estate, teach cpr, and runs a home health care business. One of those types
Anyway wasn't really taking her serious since her availability was always erratic due to all the hustles taking up her time. SHE pressed ME to take her out, said she likes BBQ and seafood. Seafood seems like a trap to get finessed for crab legs or lobster so I suggested korean bbq and chick said she doesn't like chinese food . Just shook my head at that response, red flag #1.
The day we agreed to link comes and she reaches out to me again to confirm it's a go. I'm like yea, got my car detailed and all that. Night time comes, I hit her at the agreed time asking if she ready and she says she's getting her hair done. I'm like huh . Why wouldn't it already be done, you agreed to this day and time and even reached out to me like 8 hours ago to confirm. I texted like 2 more times over the course of a couple hours and she acting like they still doing her hair. I chalk her as a bullshytter and go on with my night. Delete her number and all. Chick never reached out, apologized or nothing.

3 weeks later, on friday, she hits me out the blue asking what happened to me. Was going ignore it but i figured it's nothing to lose and I asked her why she wasted my time. She basically gas lit me like she didn't waste my time. Again she showed no remorse for obviously standing me up. shyt is crazy out here. I noticed for some reason she kept asking me what i'm doing this weekend. I ignored it at first to get my own shyt off about her wasting my time then I just said I had nothing planned. Comes out she wants me to go with her to some couples trip . I seen this chick one time in person when i pulled her then got bullshytted and stood up and she wants me to spend 4 days with her and her friends that i don't know. She must be desperate i figured. I went along with it acting super enthusiastic like I was hype to go. Gassed her up by saying I'm bringing multiple 8ths and white henny . I made up some lie about why i have to meet her down there instead of riding with her. She says ok and that she is getting the hotel but I have to pay for food and activities down there . I'm really selling how excited I am to go, asking all kinds of questions and giving the perfect answers. Man I already had a date planned that night. Wasn't going nowhere with that bytch. She got down there after a couple hour drive and paying the hotel for 3 nights. Chick started blowing my phone up like crazy. Had like 4-5 different numbers trying to call me . I texted her once saying some racist cop pulled me over and asked about the 8ths. Never responded since then.
Can't lie that shyt felt good. Lowkey distracted me from the date I was on since she was blowing my phone up so bad. I hope she got there and was looking stupid as hell. Probably let some random nikka smash but don't care I just wanted her to eat a financial loss for wasting my time

Some chick who stood me up on a date SHE asked for , hit me out the blue weeks later asking me to go on a couples trip with her. all her friends were going and she didn't have a date. I peeped the play and go along with it acting super enthusiastic and gas her up. The place is 2+ hours away and she paid for the hotel for multiple nights. She gets down there and starts blowing my phone up crazy trying figure out where I am. I ghosted her . Yea I missed out on guaranteed ass but sometimes your pride and self respect should come before all that. Felt good to make one of these bullshytting chicks eat a L.

I wonder if she got stood up by someone else and was trying to bring you along last minute (also same other person was probably why she stood you up)?

I had a situation 5 years ago where I went out on a date with this chick. Everything went well...nicd chick but I got the sense she was really playing the field. We hung out twice and then I didn't see her for some time, though we kept in contact. On the afternoon of new years eve she invited me to a new years day party. I knew right away the person she really wanted to go with turned her down and that I was a last min replacement. I told her my plans were to go downtown so I could.only stay at the party for a few hours.

Went to the party and chick had told all these fukking strangers I wasn't staying and was going to ditch her. Made shyt extremely uncomfortable for me. Tried to act like we were more than we were, and just made things very very uncomfortable. I found out during the party some dude she messed.with once was there with another girl? (If I remember correctly) so she had invited me also to make him jealous. Finally I got to a point in the party where I had enough and literally left without announcing that I was leaving. Just totally left when no one was looking. Went straight down town and hit the bars on new years eve.

She texted me and called me for an hour and then realized I had ghosted her. She then texted.me the next morning asking me what happened. Told her straight up that she embarrassed the fukk out of me and that I knew in my heart I was the last second replacement and that she was getting back at that dude at the party. She copped to it all and apologized. She tried several times to have me come over and fukk her after that but my pride and integrity wouldn't let me go there...and she was a nice looking chick too.

 

[maxamusa]

I wonder if she got stood up by someone else and was trying to bring you along last minute (also same other person was probably why she stood you up)?

I had a situation 5 years ago where I went out on a date with this chick. Everything went well...nicd chick but I got the sense she was really playing the field. We hung out twice and then I didn't see her for some time, though we kept in contact. On the afternoon of new years eve she invited me to a new years day party. I knew right away the person she really wanted to go with turned her down and that I was a last min replacement. I told her my plans were to go downtown so I could.only stay at the party for a few hours.

Went to the party and chick had told all these fukking strangers I wasn't staying and was going to ditch her. Made shyt extremely uncomfortable for me. Tried to act like we were more than we were, and just made things very very uncomfortable. I found out during the party some dude she messed.with once was there with another girl? (If I remember correctly) so she had invited me also to make him jealous. Finally I got to a point in the party where I had enough and literally left without announcing that I was leaving. Just totally left when no one was looking. Went straight down town and hit the bars on new years eve.

She texted me and called me for an hour and then realized I had ghosted her. She then texted.me the next morning asking me what happened. Told her straight up that she embarrassed the fukk out of me and that I knew in my heart I was the last second replacement and that she was getting back at that dude at the party. She copped to it all and apologized. She tried several times to have me come over and fukk her after that but my pride and integrity wouldn't let me go there...and she was a nice looking chick too.

Its shocking how some people really have no idea of basic social norms. especially in the progression of dating.


hypocritically; I'm known for doing this at parties. 100 missed calls after the fact

 

[Duke Dixon]

There's this joint--I forget the name but it's new--where this couple goes to this resort

They have to stay in the tourist area, but, they rich and meet some rich ppl

So, they like fukk it and go around the locals

Homie accidentally kills someone and they try to hide it and go back

The next morning they get caught

But, again they rich, so there's a secret program where you can get a clone of yourself and use that clone to take your punishment

Wild ass movie

The first time dude's clone has to let the son of the man he killed kill him. And they behind a glass wall watching it happen

I wish I remembered the name, but, it's pretty new

That's Infinity Pool. It got Eric Northman and Mia Goth in it.

 

[EastsideRio]

He could've easily got lined up hence the whole renting hotel for couple days. She knew what she was doing and thought he was a sucker.

You would've took the bullshyt OP went through the way you justifying the hours it takes to get hair done. She was playing a game the whole time and testing the waters according details OP posted...

So in other words you would have been on another episode on The First 48 episode titled "Guaranteed cheeks"?

Ain’t nobody trying to line this Nikka up

Just say you haven’t dealt with women before breh

 

[Yas]

Incel

 

[General Mills]

Go to hell, you ole unhappy hoe. Another woman that we are nice enough to let post with us, and every time we talk about the trifling behavior of yall women, here you come with the LSA manbearpig talking points of the day.

I hope you get banned

 

[Mass]

And sometimes you nggas overvalue p*ssy pause

Bc what benefit besides some p*ssy—-that he may or may not get—-is there to spend time with a complete stranger, and her friends, for 4 days. Have you ever gone on vacation with a woman?!

Even with one that you know and like it can be dicey, let alone a stranger that clearly is flakey, showed huge red flags not being able to be held accountable, and lacks judgment by asking him a stranger to go.

Yet your thought process is ‘but you coulda got some p*ssy’

This be the whole driving factors of men out here.

Check my arrival date on this website..I've watched the narrative go from what I bolded above... to what we have now and I been begging nikkas to wake up for years..

I'm so glad to see it.

p*ssy is not everything. At all. It was nikkas I saw when I was growing up that literally only got married for constant access to p*ssy. Really woke me up in life at a early age.

 

[stepbackj34spud]

Flawless but fukk the op

 

[Tribal Outkast]

Shod sounded like a fake ass Why did I get married setup anyway.

 

[beenz]

I totally respect the pettiness of all this

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Its shocking how some people really have no idea of basic social norms. especially in the progression of dating.


hypocritically; I'm known for doing this at parties. 100 missed calls after the fact

What do you mean by basic social norms? Are you referring to me or the chick I was dealing with?

 

[JetFueledThoughts]

Seek therapy

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

Spoiler: Super detailed version

Recently met one of these "hustler" chicks that has like 5 different hustles. Looks like she has a BBL and does lipo injections, also does real estate, teach cpr, and runs a home health care business. One of those types
Anyway wasn't really taking her serious since her availability was always erratic due to all the hustles taking up her time. SHE pressed ME to take her out, said she likes BBQ and seafood. Seafood seems like a trap to get finessed for crab legs or lobster so I suggested korean bbq and chick said she doesn't like chinese food . Just shook my head at that response, red flag #1.
The day we agreed to link comes and she reaches out to me again to confirm it's a go. I'm like yea, got my car detailed and all that. Night time comes, I hit her at the agreed time asking if she ready and she says she's getting her hair done. I'm like huh . Why wouldn't it already be done, you agreed to this day and time and even reached out to me like 8 hours ago to confirm. I texted like 2 more times over the course of a couple hours and she acting like they still doing her hair. I chalk her as a bullshytter and go on with my night. Delete her number and all. Chick never reached out, apologized or nothing.

3 weeks later, on friday, she hits me out the blue asking what happened to me. Was going ignore it but i figured it's nothing to lose and I asked her why she wasted my time. She basically gas lit me like she didn't waste my time. Again she showed no remorse for obviously standing me up. shyt is crazy out here. I noticed for some reason she kept asking me what i'm doing this weekend. I ignored it at first to get my own shyt off about her wasting my time then I just said I had nothing planned. Comes out she wants me to go with her to some couples trip . I seen this chick one time in person when i pulled her then got bullshytted and stood up and she wants me to spend 4 days with her and her friends that i don't know. She must be desperate i figured. I went along with it acting super enthusiastic like I was hype to go. Gassed her up by saying I'm bringing multiple 8ths and white henny . I made up some lie about why i have to meet her down there instead of riding with her. She says ok and that she is getting the hotel but I have to pay for food and activities down there . I'm really selling how excited I am to go, asking all kinds of questions and giving the perfect answers. Man I already had a date planned that night. Wasn't going nowhere with that bytch. She got down there after a couple hour drive and paying the hotel for 3 nights. Chick started blowing my phone up like crazy. Had like 4-5 different numbers trying to call me . I texted her once saying some racist cop pulled me over and asked about the 8ths. Never responded since then.
Can't lie that shyt felt good. Lowkey distracted me from the date I was on since she was blowing my phone up so bad. I hope she got there and was looking stupid as hell. Probably let some random nikka smash but don't care I just wanted her to eat a financial loss for wasting my time

Some chick who stood me up on a date SHE asked for , hit me out the blue weeks later asking me to go on a couples trip with her. all her friends were going and she didn't have a date. I peeped the play and go along with it acting super enthusiastic and gas her up. The place is 2+ hours away and she paid for the hotel for multiple nights. She gets down there and starts blowing my phone up crazy trying figure out where I am. I ghosted her . Yea I missed out on guaranteed ass but sometimes your pride and self respect should come before all that. Felt good to make one of these bullshytting chicks eat a L.

Almost get finessed by Tranny2tymes brehs