It's not that you rather make something of yourself. It's that your path to make it is much easier than those who have to struggle with systemic racism, poorer school systems, lack of nutrition and an economy of illegal activity that was created by the very same government that jails the offender.
To ask for a people that were enslaved 400+ years, without Civil Rights until the +80 years later, and than pump drugs into that community to fund an unsanctioned war, which lasting effects has broken the Black Family almost to nothing to just "get over it" in this small time span is insane. I agree with the poster...I would assume your white, that would explain the lack of empathy somewhat. But If you are black, this makes your ideals so much worse...smh
Did you just join yesterday or something? I'm obviously not white. The options in the poll were racial discrimination or everything else.
You guys don't give our enemies enough credit- they have far more lethal sociological weapons than explicit discrimination.
I'm from a single parent family in one of the poorest most segregated cities in the country. My family household income was 4 figures last year. But this isn't last year anymore. I spent my entire childhood getting made fun of for reading and liking math - I almost dropped out of high school. The only reason I made it to college was my sat score.
I've faced plenty of blatant and subtle racism on my path towards success, but when I have been hindered in life that has never been the reason. This is America. Everyone has their own bottom. I got myself to the middle class within 2 years of graduating high school.
As someone who is both poor and black, poverty is a way bigger factor in holding people back. It's the little things like knowing how to network and which fork to use at 5 star restaurants that I've had to adapt to- I cam fully embrace being black and have many black professional mentors. Being black has given me pride and fuels my sense of American identity. Being black means I have to make it in this world because my grandpa was. A slave and I have a shot to make it while kids my age serve a double life.Being poor makes me always wonder if I belong at the table.
Now I'll ask you the same question- do you really think that the black kid with a dad who is an md at jp Morgan and mom who is a physician is in a worse position than the white kid whose only parent works at McDonald's?
There is not a single factor that hinders people at the level of the individual in this country that is a uniquely black issue.
I really think a lot of you have just never been around successful black people.