Nope. Not at all.... There is no way you can get to know a person in a year, let alone 6 months..... so if people need time to decide that the person they wanna share a sexual experience with is worth it or not, then let them cook....
I don't see anyone in this thread opposing the bold so that doesn't apply to my initial response.
Again, getting to know someone before intercourse and outright stating you won't have intercourse for an arbitrary time frame are two different things.
She's angry and bitter today because she had pre-determined that six months was the magical time frame before she unleashed the kraken.
Where is he now? He still did the same thing he would have if she had slept with in six days.
She would have never "known" him because he had no intention of getting to know her.
He got what he wanted, and left.
A man willing to perform a song and dance for six months will damn sure not have a problem for doing it six more.
Sex should happen spontaneously and naturally.
It's insincere to put a time line on it.
It's perfectly normal to get to know someone personally before having sex.
Emphasis on naturally.
Sex is intimate and there is no arbitrary time table on when you're comfortable enough with a particular man or woman to engage it.
For me and my gf, it was a month. For the next man and his woman, it may be two.
You don't have a clue though and attaching timetables to it is scripted, inorganic, and doesn't guarantee anything.
You will never 110% know what the man or woman next to you is fully capable of, especially not in the courting period where you're often dealing with representatives.
That's why long term relationships are predicated on
trust.
