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:jbhmm:So being a potentially good mate, I would have to wait months...but the next guy can take it now, tomorrow, whenever.

There is no value in that thang. He had 6 long months to get to know her, probably liked her just enough to kill time, and when they both got some thing they wanted (sex) he

left. There are parallels in women's behavior so while I would not do that, I ain't mad at him. Arbitrary numbers = I messed up, so imma try to do right THIS time.

She is a poor decision maker, you ain't the first, won't be the last. Women who follow their heart(for better or worse) easily>>>>>>>>>>>>>>women who follow a flowchart to correct her

hoe ways.
if she's making a certain guy wait, she's not comfy with letting him fukk her yet
womens vagina gates don't come flying open just cuz you're a cool guy, sometimes people need time to decide is this person the kind of person I want to let inside my body, are my feelings there yet, how am I gonna feel when it's done, will I respect myself for doing this, is this lust or genuine affection for this person

you're talking like she was ready to go from the start and just decided not to for six months

btw you're saying p*ssy has no value but you think you should hit because of the time it took another man to hit, like if another man never hit it, it would be worth waiting for, that's value :ufdup:
 

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So lets get this straight. If your dating, does that mean your dating multiple people or exclusive? Because for women it seems like dating means that they usually have more than one person they are going out with and spending time with, with men it seems like it means they have more than one person that they are having sex with.


Most women have no problem telling a man they are just dating and enjoying being single. So if a man is seeing or dating a woman that says hey "no sex for 180 days" is he a scumbag if he's smashing another? Especially if the woman is dating around as well?



This is Part of the reason I dont like the "dating" game, for me if we are dating we bf/gf and there's no other parties involved. Apparently thats not how it works for everyone though. :francis:
 

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Pretty much...... if you're really interested in a chick and she's making you wait, just have your side pieces on deck until the time arrives........ Its not that hard....... but if you have no intentions outside of sex, don't be deceitful and play along with her wishes just for the sake of some p*ssy....

shyt is a character flaw if you ask me....

Exactly, it's not the "smashing and dashing" that fukks women's heads up it's the dude that has been pretending to care about her for the last couple of months that fukks it up. If you're not serious, just say so. Then she would be stupid to expect more.
 

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3 months is fair, the problem is what is three months, and these chicks don't want to give up the power in the relationship, they know once then legs is open that nicca aint gonna kill himself to do right anymore, spend all his money on her, etc
 

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So lets get this straight. If your dating, does that mean your dating multiple people or exclusive? Because for women it seems like dating means that they usually have more than one person they are going out with and spending time with, with men it seems like it means they have more than one person that they are having sex with.


Most women have no problem telling a man they are just dating and enjoying being single. So if a man is seeing or dating a woman that says hey "no sex for 180 days" is he a scumbag if he's smashing another? Especially if the woman is dating around as well?



This is Part of the reason I dont like the "dating" game, for me if we are dating we bf/gf and there's no other parties involved. Apparently thats not how it works for everyone though. :francis:
I agree.
 

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The way you guys applaud a man lying and playing games with a woman is disturbing. If a female wants to wait to have sex with someone then she has a right to and how can you guys blame her when you guys are the ones that call a woman worthless if she gives it up too easily or sleeps with more than five guys. Supposedly your vagina shouldn't be the most important thing about you but somehow giving it up to too many people means you don't respect yourself. It's really disturbing how you guys think it's perfectly fine for a man to lie to a woman and make her think he cares about her just because she only wants to share her body with someone she thinks she knows. smh
How do we know that ol boy lied and played games with her? All we are hearing is her side of the story, what if 5 months in she told him after a date at his house during foreplay, "Sorry pleighboi, we can kiss/touch all night but you not getting the draws until next month! :umad:.

All we have is her side of the story, and I trust no female that happens to have nekkid pics on the internet. She lost :yeshrug:.
 

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if she's making a certain guy wait, she's not comfy with letting him fukk her yet
womens vagina gates don't come flying open just cuz you're a cool guy, sometimes people need time to decide is this person the kind of person I want to let inside my body, are my feelings there yet, how am I gonna feel when it's done, will I respect myself for doing this, is this lust or genuine affection for this person

you're talking like she was ready to go from the start and just decided not to for six months

btw you're saying p*ssy has no value but you think you should hit because of the time it took another man to hit, like if another man never hit it, it would be worth waiting for, that's value :ufdup:
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When I say side piece in this context, I'm referring to someone I only have a physical relationship with and we're not exclusive. Nothing wrong with that if I'm not cheating on anyone.
:scust:annd people wonder how std spread i dont like the concept of sex buddies at all.
 

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The way you guys applaud a man lying and playing games with a woman is disturbing. If a female wants to wait to have sex with someone then she has a right to and how can you guys blame her when you guys are the ones that call a woman worthless if she gives it up too easily or sleeps with more than five guys. Supposedly your vagina shouldn't be the most important thing about you but somehow giving it up to too many people means you don't respect yourself. It's really disturbing how you guys think it's perfectly fine for a man to lie to a woman and make her think he cares about her just because she only wants to share her body with someone she thinks she knows. smh
You're back. :lupe:
 

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Most women have no problem telling a man they are just dating and enjoying being single. So if a man is seeing or dating a woman that says hey "no sex for 180 days" is he a scumbag if he's smashing another? Especially if the woman is dating around as well?

The answer is no. You can't date around keeping your own options open, even if taking phones numbers/texting while expecting this amazing breh you met that other women want to be exclusive to you until your ready.
 

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How do we know that ol boy lied and played games with her? All we are hearing is her side of the story, what if 5 months in she told him after a date at his house during foreplay, "Sorry pleighboi, we can kiss/touch all night but you not getting the draws until next month! :umad:.

All we have is her side of the story, and I trust no female that happens to have nekkid pics on the internet. She lost :yeshrug:.

I'm just assuming since she thought there was going to be more, there was a promise for more.
 
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Maybe because you didn't take the time to get to know them, and you were just looking to smash. That's regardless of whether a woman waits 90 days or 6 months to give it up. :comeon:


Precisely.... so if I'm just looking to smash, what's the point of me waiting for some p*ssy. On the flip, if she's making me wait, she obviously wants something more than just sex and what kind of man would I be if I deceptively played along just to hit and split.......

If a chick brings up that she wants to wait, as a man, you need to ask what are her real intentions, and if its more than what you want to deal with, send her back out there into the world...

See, nikkas wanna game bytches and be justified in doing so, until the game gets played on them.........
 
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