Make a man wait 6 months brehettes

[Dwolf]

Not sure you read the entire post you quoted

Yes I did. I was commenting on the part I highlighted.

 

[Gold]

Yes I did. I was commenting on the part I highlighted.

Ah ok

 

[wet landscapes]

Your putting women on a way too high moral ground and using yourself as a point of reference. As if these 'mistakes' are not consistent. We are all human and have needs, thats cool.

But lets not pretend women dont go on dates, and come back to Action Mikes crib telling me how the dude was corny for the second time.

I'm actually using my sister as a reference who's a Christian virgin, cuz she actually struggles with this shyt and it kinda pissed me off to see dudes acting like smashing and dashing after pretending to be on the same page wouldn't destroy a honest woman emotionally
like you guys don't understand that some women actually care about their chastity, and place value on sex
you don't, cool
but don't apply IG heaux logic to all womens vaginas because you think that you should get a nut off every woman who considers you
just cuz your lady friends are bullshytting doesn't mean every woman is

 

[Ghostface Trillah]

So courtinh ends when you have sex? I thought it ended when you get married.

female logic or lack thereof

Her sex game didn't warrant the build up she gave it. She didn't keep it real with him or herself and she paid the price.

 

[Gold]

Thats fine. But if she thinks i am going to respect her more because she held out on me, false. A woman who sets a standard and NEVER breaks it is a woman of appreciable character.

He is a nice dude and she was feeling him, but she turns down his advances.
Next guy is a baller, spends freely, and happens to have a tender heart. She likes him, but nah, she isnt about his lifestyle so she doesnt indulge.

That woman i know from jump that she has a standard that she does not bend on. She is unwavering and if we arent compatible, she isnt going to give herself freely. I know this, and know what to expect and what to respect when it comes to her values. If she starts making exceptions, suddenly her values have conditions, which kinda defeats the purpose.

Pretty much.

If a girl tells me no sex till marriage I have much more respect for her then some girl who is like... "ummm 5 months"

 

[1/2 Man 1/2 Hennessy]

You a fool!

So after you smash a chick, do you feel compelled to stop talking to her? Does it make it easier to vibe with her if you got sex out of the way...?

Honestly If i don't vibe with you off the jump then I won't try n smash in most cases. Other then two instances, I don't feel compelled to cut women off after smashin

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

If we click, we click, and I've never wasted time with someone I don't actually care for.

I get that... I really do.... but clicking aint the same for everybody........

 

[Gold]

I'm actually using my sister as a reference who's a Christian virgin, cuz she actually struggles with this shyt and it kinda pissed me off to see dudes acting like smashing and dashing after pretending to be on the same page wouldn't destroy a honest woman emotionally
like you guys don't understand that some women actually care about their chastity, and place value on sex
you don't, cool
but don't apply IG heaux logic to all womens vaginas because you think that you should get a nut off every woman who considers you
just cuz your lady friends are bullshytting doesn't mean every woman is

If your sister is a Christian Virgin... she should let guys know "NO SEX" from the jump.

How does a virgin fall victim to smash and dash?

I dont understand your post at all breh. This conversation has nothing to do with Virgins who are waiting till marriage

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Chicks feel like we stop talking to them but the truth is we never really talked much prior... we just stalked about sex.

AMEN TO THIS shyt RIGHT HERE!!

 

[Dwolf]

I'm actually using my sister as a reference who's a Christian virgin, cuz she actually struggles with this shyt and it kinda pissed me off to see dudes acting like smashing and dashing after pretending to be on the same page wouldn't destroy a honest woman emotionally
like you guys don't understand that some women actually care about their chastity, and place value on sex
you don't, cool
but don't apply IG heaux logic to all womens vaginas because you think that you should get a nut off every woman who considers you
just cuz your lady friends are bullshytting doesn't mean every woman is

Is that another way of saying "born again" virgin

 

[At30wecashout]

a woman is a woman
her being in a relationship with you doesn't change that she's a woman and applies the expectations for women to herself
if she thinks having sex too early is bad, wouldn't she consider the short time it took with a guy from her past as a mistake?
would you want a woman you felt something for to do something that makes her feel less like a respectable woman because you're comparing yourself with dudes from her past? If you do, I wouldn't think that you liked her as much as you thought you did, and you reached a good place to tell her that it's not going to work and move on to finding a girl who's beliefs match yours

if a girl you were vibing with for a minute wanted to stick like three fingers up your booty (cuz that's her fetish), would you let her, no questions asked?
or would you be hesitant to do what could possibly hurt your respect for yourself in the future?

Its not about past. There are chicks who date one guy but fukk others. Sure if she sees potential she may stop juggling, but the dudes getting the draws may just accidentally become a boyfriend anyway. We arent talking about once or twice in the past , we talking about a chick who at some point said "this isnt working, maybe i shouldnt have sex so soon."

Thats cool, but why arent the guys sticking around? This falls under the "choose better" banner. No, she is not obligated to give anything up to me, but i would have to wonder why the benchmark for sex isnt "when she feels we are good together" and not a set amount of time. We can be yin and yang in 2 months or six, and you best believe a woman witholding sex is holding back other aspects as well. What those are vary from woman to woman, but im positive that most relationships that go right are spontaneous and organic in its growth, not a checklist to "reward" me with p*ssy down the line. Is there a better reward or is that supposed to be what keeps me around?

 

[Action Mike]

I'm actually using my sister as a reference who's a Christian virgin, cuz she actually struggles with this shyt and it kinda pissed me off to see dudes acting like smashing and dashing after pretending to be on the same page wouldn't destroy a honest woman emotionally
like you guys don't understand that some women actually care about their chastity, and place value on sex
you don't cool
but don't apply IG heaux logic to all womens vaginas because you think that you should get a nut off every woman who considers you
just cuz your lady friends are bullshytting doesn't mean every woman is

Okay i see, and such men get no respect from me. Is she meeting these brehs in church? Are they virgins themselves?

Her dating a man that has had sex before is just gonna give her heartache 99% of the time, but lets say its:

Dating for 2.5 years

Engaged 1.5 years.

Thats 4 years of a man used to options/intimacy having none. It won't work. Virgins date Virgins.

 

[At30wecashout]

Yes it does. People that think it like this usually end up with kids by women they hate

For the woman who gave it up to everyone but then holds it from me? No, it has no value. Chicks who are promiscuous get cuffed and wifed everyday because they have better things to offer.

If her great "test" to see of im worthy is whether or not I want sex, then she will be sorely disappointed.

 

[audemarzz]

For the woman who gave it up to everyone but then holds it from me? No, it has no value. Chicks who are promiscuous get cuffed and wifed everyday because they have better things to offer.

If her great "test" to see of im worthy is whether or not I want sex, then she will be sorely disappointed.

They don't hear you

 

[Elle Driver]

Its the people who are still living in fantasy world and putting everything on pedestals for no reason and have an inflated view of their own morality.

I'm not saying you should let him hit day 1, but having some arbitrary amount of time that is based on nothing that has anything to do with the man in question is asinine.

This is why I don't mess with childish girls... you gotta peep where they mind is at from the jump and move on when you see that you aren't compatible. 6 months is a waste of everyone's time.

There should be a better vetting system than a 3-6 month wait. Try being their friend first and getting to know them maybe. You know, actually see if there's chemistry between y'all and you actually enjoy this person's company. Because when all's said and done, you could've waited 6 months, made him "chase", and you find out you don't even like the dude and there is no chemistry.

My husband and I were pretty cool before we even thought of dating, we had mutual friends, and we hung out together a lot. We realized we had really good chemistry, we always tended to gravitate towards each other in convo in our group of friends, and I wanted to be around him a lot because he always kept me laughing and smiling. My best friend kept commenting that would we be great together. Some time passed by of hanging out, but by the time we started dating I didn't wait no damn 90 days or 6 months. I wasn't waiting for no other hoes to snatch him up. But my philosophy and process was different, it happened naturally and I wasn't worried about looking like a hoe because I knew we liked each other and pretty much cemented something. That's the difference between making a guy wait, and what I did.