Make a man wait 6 months brehettes

[25YOUTHS!!]

*Spits game*
*Gets hit with 6 month waiting period line*
*Notes date in mental calendar*
*Adds her to generic weekly "whats good" text group*
*Finally gets chance at bat*
*Turns out to be wack, not even worth the minimal effort*
*Throws her and # in bushes*

Make nikkas wait arbitrary trail period for arbitrary reasons brehettes

 

[thirdeye]

No issue, It's your life to live. Just don't expect him to stay of it is one.

I've been doing fine for the last few years. I've had one guy have a problem with it and that's it.

 

[wet landscapes]

She can be celibate as long as she likes. It's her life. It's imposing her views on a man she likes is where the problem lies.

Men like sex. 90% of the God given time everyday. For relationships to work you have to understand the type of creature your talking to.

Overtly telling me, "let's wait x amount of time" is putting value on that vagina above her as a person, and he acted accordingly...

she likes him, he can either be like cool I'll wait or fukk no bytch
or he can lie and wait (while probably fukking other people) knowing that her waiting for sex means she's at least somewhat serious and he knows he's not really that serious, which is kinda immoral lol

 

[Action Mike]

how is she imposing her views? he could just leave lol

True. I don't know their details, so I'm dipping into my own experience.

If she sees value she ain't letting go, the breh will do his thing but the inital effort is gone.

The last 3/4 months he may have saw her 6 times while he was out and texted throughout until smash day. An option is an option.

 

[Scarface sniffin cocaine]

She will run back to something familiar and convenient

 

[iBrowse]

If a woman puts out too early then she's seen as easy.

I just saw @Killer Instinct 's post.

Yeah, in dating the onus is really placed on women to maintain that perception of dignity and chastity (not arguing whether or not that is right and to what extent/degree) but like he said its a double edged sword because I know if a girl told me that I wouldn't wait. Not because I want to have sex on Day 1, but rather because of how she's basically turning her box into a prize and us dating into a game that I have to win.

Then you add the fact that when she finds that after x number of months the sex was bad or the dude wasn't interested in her beyond sex..the skewed rationale is that its because men aren't shyt and that her "vetting process" probably needs to be stricter for the next dude RE: bitter baggage.

 

[Action Mike]

I've been doing fine for the last few years. I've had one guy have a problem with it and that's it.

That's cool. I mean no malice but that says more about them than you.

If asexual men exist then eat

 

[Rawtid]

Use sex as a bargaining tool in relationships, brehettes.

Probably still don't know that nikka middle, mama or closest relative's name. I'm all for holding out for whatever period of time, providing you're actually getting to know the person in that time. Doesn't sound like that's what happened here.

 

[thirdeye]

That's cool. I mean no malice but that says more about them than you.

If asexual men exist then eat

says what about them? lol
these guys weren't asexual tho

 

[newworldafro]

I dont understand the dating world...

How long are you REALLY supposed to make a man wait? 6 months seems like overkill....

I thought Think Like a Man told women they should put intercourse on a probationary period, like working at a Ford car factory. You don't get all the benefits, until after 3 - 6 months ......to see if you are worthy....

 

[iBrowse]

She can be celibate as long as she likes. It's her life. It's imposing her views on a man she likes is where the problem lies.

Men like sex. 90% of the God given time everyday. For relationships to work you have to understand the type of creature your talking to.

Overtly telling me, "let's wait x amount of time" is putting value on that vagina above her as a person, and he acted accordingly...

To add to the bold, the whole thing is ironic because her vetting system at making the relationship work without sex inadvertently made the entire relationship about sex since everything the guy was doing during that period was to ensure that he was still in the running to win access to her box.

 

[Action Mike]

says what about them? lol
these guys weren't asexual tho

Oh I know.

And your not with them I assume because ironcally they didn't know what they want. Not just with sex.

It's about character too.

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

I thought Think Like a Man Told told women they should put intercourse on a probationary period, like working at a Ford car factory. You don't get all the benefits, until after 3 - 6 months ......to see if you are worthy....

I am not listening to Steve Harvey

 

[Broad Street Bully]

And if he really was a real nikka he had other bytches in the lineup so he wasn't on no drought. after that 6 months of acting like he gave a fukk about her, he got the ass and bounced. Call em Tom Cruise cuz he accomplished the mission she thought was impossible

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Listen to that cornball Steve Harvey